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5 Kamal
23 Dec 2013 ·
Feeling somewhat better after a long time.
N K
23 Dec 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Samantha C
23 Dec 2013 ·

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Ali C
23 Dec 2013 ·

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TinyTyranid
23 Dec 2013 ·

It's good to hear that you are feeling better *hugs*

Anonmous A
24 Dec 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Anonmous A
24 Dec 2013 ·

Really glad. Is counselling helping?

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2 Kamal
02 Dec 2013 ·
Few days ago went for counselling session with wife and son. There seems to be some hope to get the things right.
sandy s
02 Dec 2013 ·

*Hugs*

TinyTyranid
02 Dec 2013 ·

Go

TinyTyranid
02 Dec 2013 ·

I mean: Good to hear that it may get better for you *hugs*

Anonmous A
02 Dec 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Anonmous A
02 Dec 2013 ·

Thats gr8! Hang in there Kamal.

Kamal
23 Dec 2013 ·

Thanks a lot dear Sandy, Susanne, Tiny and Anonmous.

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0 Kamal
24 Nov 2013 ·
Uncontrollable anger. Again having thoughts of Revenge. Unable to control my thoughts. :( :( :(
Sif M
25 Nov 2013 ·

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Jigme Y
25 Nov 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Kamal
25 Nov 2013 ·

Thanks Sif and Jigme for the hugs. *Hugs*

Jigme Y
25 Nov 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Jigme Y
25 Nov 2013 ·

The best revenge is to live well.

Anonmous A
25 Nov 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Anonmous A
25 Nov 2013 ·

I hope yr doing oay Kamal, maybe its time 2c a Counsellor?

Anonmous A
25 Nov 2013 ·

*okay

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5 Kamal
22 Nov 2013 ·
Feeling much better after communicating with an old and dearest friend.
Serena J
22 Nov 2013 ·

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Jigme Y
22 Nov 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Debi C
22 Nov 2013 ·

Sometimes, those Dear Old Friends are better than Drs. in making us feel more up in our moods! Glad you're feeling good, Kamal! Big Hugs!

TinyTyranid
22 Nov 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Kamal
25 Nov 2013 ·

Thanks for the hugs dear Serena,

Kamal
25 Nov 2013 ·

Thanks for the hugs dear Serena, Jigme, Debi, Susanne and Tiny. *Hugs*

Kamal
25 Nov 2013 ·

Yes Debi, correct. Some old friends are like Gems who stand beside us when we need them.

Jigme Y
25 Nov 2013 ·

You're welcome Kamal.

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0 Kamal
18 Nov 2013 ·
Unable to forget the odds..
Gaara
18 Nov 2013 ·

What odds?

Kamal
18 Nov 2013 ·

It's

Kamal
18 Nov 2013 ·

It's old story Gaara. I do not want to hurt myself again after writing all the odds though I'm unable to forget them.

Jigme Y
18 Nov 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Gaara
18 Nov 2013 ·

Oh ok..

Kamal
22 Nov 2013 ·

Thanks for the hugs dear Susanne, Dots, Jigme and Gaara. *Hugs*

Jigme Y
22 Nov 2013 ·

More hugs.

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0 Kamal
17 Nov 2013 ·
Feeling Feverish. Sudden climate change and my stress could be the reason.
Jigme Y
17 Nov 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Jigme Y
17 Nov 2013 ·

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Samantha C
18 Nov 2013 ·

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Kamal
18 Nov 2013 ·

Thanks Jigme, Susanne & Samantha. Hugs back to all of you lovely Pandas.

Jigme Y
18 Nov 2013 ·

You're welcome Kamal. *Hugs*

Kamal
22 Nov 2013 ·

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0 Kamal
16 Nov 2013 ·
Still getting Mood swings. :(
Anonmous A
16 Nov 2013 ·

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Kamal
16 Nov 2013 ·

Thanks for the hugs Anonmous. *Hugs*

Louise E
16 Nov 2013 ·

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Kamal
17 Nov 2013 ·

Thanks for the hugs Susanne and Louise. *Hugs*

Samantha C
18 Nov 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Kamal
18 Nov 2013 ·

Thanks Samantha.

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0 Kamal
10 Nov 2013 ·
It's 5:35 am here in India and I'm still not slept. :(
Jigme Y
10 Nov 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Jigme Y
10 Nov 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Louise E
10 Nov 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Debi C
10 Nov 2013 ·

Sorry! Think of peaceful things, Kamal. I wish you sleep!hugs!

Jigme Y
10 Nov 2013 ·

That sounds like time to get up. Maybe a nap?

kelly F
10 Nov 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Anonmous A
10 Nov 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Anonmous A
10 Nov 2013 ·

Oh dear i hope u manage sum slp.

Debi C
10 Nov 2013 ·

Did U sleep or nap, Kamal? Hope you had a chance to recover! Hugs!

Jigme Y
11 Nov 2013 ·

*Hugs*

sa c
12 Nov 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Kamal
16 Nov 2013 ·

Well I didn't slept that whole night. Thanks lively Pandas fir the hugs.

Jigme Y
17 Nov 2013 ·

You're welcome Kamal.

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0 Kamal
09 Nov 2013 ·
Getting Mood Swings every other minute. :(
Debi C
09 Nov 2013 ·

Try to find something to hold onto, Kamal! Hugs!

Kamal
10 Nov 2013 ·

Ya I have to do that. Thanks Debi. :)

Anonmous A
10 Nov 2013 ·

*Hugs*

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0 Kamal
30 Oct 2013 ·
Strong urge to take revenge. Unable to decide. :(
Ali C
30 Oct 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Anonmous A
30 Oct 2013 ·

Revenge is not the way Kamal because u wud hv 2b someone yr clearly not. Dont stoop 2her level yr better than tht. In fact be kind n happy...it will make her realise just hw much she hurt u. Stay strong i wish u both happiness 2getha <3

Debi C
30 Oct 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Kamal
31 Oct 2013 ·

Thanks dear Pandas. Anonmous I too never believed in revenge. I can't harm anyone. Don't know why I'm getting this urge. :(

Anonmous A
31 Oct 2013 ·

Theres nothing wrong with thinking it but doing it is a whole different thing. Take some space, maybe go away as a family for a few days.

Kamal
31 Oct 2013 ·

Not possible to go anywhere at this moment Anonmous. But I really will try not to take revenge at all. *Hugs*

Jigme Y
01 Nov 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Kamal
09 Nov 2013 ·

Thanks all my lovely Pandas.

Jigme Y
10 Nov 2013 ·

You're welcome Kamal. *Hugs*

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0 Kamal
28 Oct 2013 ·
Feeling miserable. :(
Ali C
28 Oct 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Anonmous A
28 Oct 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Anonmous A
28 Oct 2013 ·

Hope u feel better soon...take each day at a time.

Anonmous A
28 Oct 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Jigme Y
29 Oct 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Kamal
30 Oct 2013 ·

Thanks all my lovely Pandas.

Jigme Y
01 Nov 2013 ·

You're welcome Kamal.

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0 Kamal
27 Oct 2013 ·
I hate my MIL.
Anonmous A
27 Oct 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Kamal
27 Oct 2013 ·

Thanks Anonmous.

Kim T
27 Oct 2013 ·

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Kamal
27 Oct 2013 ·

Thanks Kim.

Anna C
27 Oct 2013 ·

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Jigme Y
27 Oct 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Harp D
28 Oct 2013 · NEW

What's MIL

Kamal
28 Oct 2013 ·

Thanks for the hugs dear Pandas. Dear Harp MIL means Mother in Law

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0 Kamal
25 Oct 2013 ·
Punished myself by slapping all over my face for allowing my MIL to put me down in front of others. Hundred times shame on me. :(
Kamal
25 Oct 2013 ·

And my other half was watching all this. Feeling really pity on myself. :(

kelly F
25 Oct 2013 ·

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kelly F
25 Oct 2013 ·

don't punish yourself. stand up for yourself. no one deserves to be punished for someone being ignorant and putting them down. your other half should feel shame for not saying something

Kamal
25 Oct 2013 ·

Thanks a lot dear Kelly for the support. *Hugs*

kelly F
25 Oct 2013 ·

my bad your other half shouldn't feel shame but if it was me I have a mouth and know how to use it! doesn't matter if it is friend family or someone I love if someone is stupid enough to put them down I will be making them feel an inch tall

kelly F
25 Oct 2013 ·

anytime Kamal it makes me mad that someone would do that to you

Kamal
25 Oct 2013 ·

In this case both mother and daughter are shameless.

Kamal
25 Oct 2013 ·

First I tried to oppose her. But than didn't utter a word coz she is elder than me and a part from that she is a woman and I respect women a lot.

Kamal
25 Oct 2013 ·

But now realizing what she done to me. My image is spoiled in front of others. :(

Anonmous A
25 Oct 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Anonmous A
25 Oct 2013 ·

Its not yr fault, take care.

Jigme Y
25 Oct 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Brett O
25 Oct 2013 ·

*Hugs*

IVAN V
27 Oct 2013 · NEW

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Kamal
27 Oct 2013 ·

Thanks all my Pandas.

kelly F
27 Oct 2013 ·

it is her fault #1 if she had a problem with you then that should have been done in private not in front of people. I would have stuck up for you even if I respected the person

Jigme Y
27 Oct 2013 ·

What are you punishing yourself for? What do you deserve punishment for? I doubt you deserve it.

Harp D
28 Oct 2013 · NEW

What's a MIL

Kamal
28 Oct 2013 ·

Thanks for the support dear Kelly and Jigme. Yes that's what I told everyone. Whatever it was, it should had been done in private only. But these mother daughter don't have manners.

Kamal
28 Oct 2013 ·

Don't know what they expect out of me after I got to know about her affair I forgiven her whole heartedly but now I understood that she doesn't deserve it.

Kamal
28 Oct 2013 ·

It's really hard to spend life with a cheating spouse. :( I punished myself coz I realized that I should have stopped them at the moment. But I didn't.

Kamal
28 Oct 2013 ·

About her affair I didn't told anyone in my family and in my in laws. Even when my MIL was accusing me I didn't told her about what her daughter done to me.

Kamal
28 Oct 2013 ·

Till now no one knows about all this. @Harp.. MIL means Mother in law.

Harp D
29 Oct 2013 · NEW

Your mil lives with you? And if you don't mind me asking how is your spouse reacting to all of this?

kelly F
30 Oct 2013 ·

I am sorry you have to deal with that. Your spouse should be ashamed if she can't stay faithful in her marriage she should leave not drag your mil into it or she should go thru counciling to find out what is causing her actions

Kamal
30 Oct 2013 ·

Dear Harp, no my MIL doesn't live with us. My wife provoked her to abuse me. :(

Kamal
30 Oct 2013 ·

Dear Kelly, yes my wife is regretting for what had she done. The reason for dragging my MIL in it could be that she must be feeling unsecure now. That's why she tried to threat me.

Anonmous A
30 Oct 2013 ·

Only people who.do wrong need2 justify themselves. Seriously take care Kamal, dnt set yrself up 4a break down. Be weary. Thinking of u *hugs* tc.

Kamal
30 Oct 2013 ·

In India the law is not that strict and mostly favor women even if they are wrong. In the end justice been done but in starting law listen to women mostly. :(

Kamal
30 Oct 2013 ·

Thanks a lot dear Anonmous. *Hugs*

kelly F
30 Oct 2013 ·

she still needs counciling. I hope thing become better for you Kamal

kelly F
30 Oct 2013 ·

things not thing

Kamal
31 Oct 2013 ·

Yes Kelly I will take her for counselling. Thanks all for the support and valuable suggestions.

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0 Kamal
24 Oct 2013 ·
I hate the word "TRUST"
Anonmous A
24 Oct 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Anonmous A
24 Oct 2013 ·

Ah dear friend u h8 d word trust bcoz u hv hd tht word tested. Time n d right choices will bring u 2respect tht word again. I hope u find peace *big hugs*

Anonmous A
24 Oct 2013 ·

U cnt go thru life hating yrself & being in pain. Time will nd u2 make choices if u r 2get thru ds bad time. U nd2 find d strength inside. Tc.

Brett O
24 Oct 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Kamal
25 Oct 2013 ·

Thanks a lot dear Anonmous and Brett.

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0 Kamal
24 Oct 2013 ·
No Reason Given
Anonmous A
25 Oct 2013 ·

*Hugs*

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0 Kamal
23 Oct 2013 ·
Deeply hurt.... Feeling like killing myself. Severely depressed. :(
IVAN V
23 Oct 2013 · NEW

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Anna C
23 Oct 2013 ·

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Anonmous A
23 Oct 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Anonmous A
23 Oct 2013 ·

Whats wrong? *Hugs*

Hannah M
23 Oct 2013 ·

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Hannah M
23 Oct 2013 ·

please dont kill yourself

Ash D
23 Oct 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Kamal
23 Oct 2013 ·

Thanks for the hugs and understanding. Can't even do any harm to myself coz we have a kid. If I do any harm to myself than all my son's life will get spoiled. This is regarding an issue in marriage with my wife. :(

Anonmous A
23 Oct 2013 ·

Ive just read yr posts, are u completely sure yr wife cheated on u? im sowi if im spking out of line bt im just trying 2understand u. Im british asian if tht helps so i understand d culture.

Anonmous A
23 Oct 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Kamal
24 Oct 2013 ·

Yes Anonmous, I'm 100% sure. I have the proofs. But today it was with my in-laws who insulted me a lot and I even didn't told them what their daughter done to me sometime back.

Kamal
24 Oct 2013 ·

As I never wanted to put down the mother of my child in front of everyone. After all if I put her down in front of others, than in a way it hurt my image as well as my child's future.

Kamal
24 Oct 2013 ·

I'm helpless now. Unable to figure out what to do. Thanks again for your understanding my friend.

Kamal
24 Oct 2013 ·

I'm helpless now. Unable to figure out what to do. Thanks again for your understanding my friend.

Jigme Y
24 Oct 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Anonmous A
24 Oct 2013 ·

Im feally sowi yr going thru such s difficult time. u seem like a good person and father.

Anonmous A
24 Oct 2013 ·

U may feel like yr helpless but u can take steps such as work out whether u want 2live with her? The decisions u make need2 hv a positive impact 4u n yr son's future. gdluck *hugs*

Jigme Y
24 Oct 2013 ·

I'm not sure I have much to offer but hugs. *Hugs*

Kamal
24 Oct 2013 ·

Thanks Anonmous and Jisme. Leaving her not seems to be an option as of now as my son is very attached to her. This is a marriage of 19 years.

Kamal
24 Oct 2013 ·

Any wrong step will further devastate my life and my child's career.

Kamal
24 Oct 2013 ·

My MIL insulted me coz my wife told her different story so that in the future if I tell them about her affair they should not believe.

Kamal
24 Oct 2013 ·

She tried to hide material facts. I truly forgiven her mistake in the past and moved on. But this time it is impossible for me to forgive her and my MIL. :(

Anonmous A
24 Oct 2013 ·

Gdluck all the best Kamal. Trust keeps relationships 2getha & love bonds us if thts not there its difficult 2maintain any relationship. Yr son mayb hurt nw bt 2grow up between 2tense parents cn be disasterous. i knw i hv been thr. All d best x

Kamal
24 Oct 2013 ·

Thanks a ton dear Anonmous. You wrote some really great words. It touched my heart. Thanks for you suggestions. Hope God provide me the strength to handle this time too. Thanks once again my friend.

sa c
28 Oct 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Kamal
28 Oct 2013 ·

Thanks Sa. C.

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8 Kamal
15 Sep 2013 ·
It's been cloudy here in Mumbai, India throughout the day. No sunshine. But climate is pleasant here. Feeling good!
H F
15 Sep 2013 ·

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Matthew K
15 Sep 2013 · NEW

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Anonmous A
16 Sep 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Jigme Y
17 Sep 2013 ·

*Hugs*

JP J
27 Sep 2013 ·

*Hugs*

JP J
27 Sep 2013 ·

I started to follow you kamal... lets stay in touch

Jigme Y
27 Sep 2013 ·

*Hugs*

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0 Kamal
31 Jul 2013 ·
Feeling devastated from the last couple of months due to someone who is very close to me, cheated on me. :(
Josie C
01 Aug 2013 ·

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Alison G
01 Aug 2013 ·

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Dave G
01 Aug 2013 ·

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Anonmous A
01 Aug 2013 ·

I hope tht person realise the amount of pain it has caused u and u both resolve things *hugs*

Louise E
01 Aug 2013 ·

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Jeanette R
01 Aug 2013 ·

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sandy s
01 Aug 2013 ·

*Hugs*

kelly F
01 Aug 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Kamal
15 Sep 2013 ·

Thanks all.

Kamal
15 Sep 2013 ·

@Anonmous A : Yes the person realized and things are little better now.

Anonmous A
15 Sep 2013 ·

im glad *hugs*

Kamal
15 Sep 2013 ·

Thanks Anonmous A.

alexandra D
15 Sep 2013 ·

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10 Kamal
22 Apr 2013 ·
Going to GOA with family for Vacations!! :)
Yana B
23 Apr 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Yana B
23 Apr 2013 ·

oh I want to visit this place some day)))

Jigme Y
06 May 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Jigme Y
06 May 2013 ·

Have fun.

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1 Kamal
15 Apr 2013 ·
I hate getting compared to someone else by a loved one. :(
Yana B
15 Apr 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Yana B
15 Apr 2013 ·

me too..)

Alison G
15 Apr 2013 ·

*Hugs*

sandy s
15 Apr 2013 ·

me too :(

Tasneem S
15 Apr 2013 ·

*Hugs*

Kamal
18 Apr 2013 ·

Thanks friends.

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