Sorry to hear that, nixi. That really sucks.
Hope you feel better soon
Big hugs nixi xx
Oh, difficult! Do you go with your gutfeeling, which is 85% of the time right, do you want to learn to trust again.. so hard! I have been there, but I can't give you advise. Thinking of you!❤️
Since I moved away from Europe, I don't follow it anymore. It used to be great fun though. Lovely parties
I usually host a party. This year im going to lisbon
Haven't heard from you for a while. How are you? Good to see you are having a good day!!
Silly early wakeup call. But 2 cups of coffee made it positive. The 8 was slightly optimistic.
How are you all?
Its green because im happy otherwiss
Hope an early bed time helps. (I was in bed at 7.15 :) but sadly don't seem able to sleep...
Hope you got a good night's rest. xx
Either, so now ive finished him. I just wish people were more considerate of me, without me having to change to show less caring of them
So Nixiblu, how are you today? And even though i don't know you i do genuinely care. I know how it feels when no one seems to be interested in how you feel.
Thanks Nick. I feel better now ive had a moan. How are you?
Somewhat better this afternoon than i was this morning. I've now got to know some of the people on this ward that i moved to yesterday which is good. Thank you for asking. And a good moan often helps.
One thing I learned, if you want something, ask for it. People are busy with their own lives. Make a joke out of it. Thank you for asking how I am, or something. People might show you in different ways they care..
By the way, how are you?
:) thanks Lieteke. Im better now :)
Hi Nixi. How are you today?
(As an aside, I used to want people to ask me how I am, but I guess what I really want is for people to really care how I am, and no one does. When they ask, they just want to hear 'good, you?')
In which case Jeff i have to ask how are you today? And when i ask i do genuinely care. If i don't have time or the emotional space for a response i don't ask.
Hi Nick. I'm stressed about work and the amount I have to do in the little time I have to do it. I'm feeling lonely. I'm worried about the commute home in this crappy weather. But I am pleased to be feeling physically better than yesterday.
Thank you for asking. :)
Sorry for the delay in responding. I hope you managed to get the work done. Sorry to hear you've had crappy weather today. I'd not realised it had been crappy anuwhere until i saw some weather reports just now. I hope you had a safe journey.
And good to hear that you are feeling better physically. At least there is one positive to take from what does not sound like the very best of days. Hopefully tomorrow will bring improved weather at least that will be one less pressure to deal with.
Hope you got home safely today! Great you saw something positive in an otherwise bad situation! Hope tomorrow will be better
Hi Jeff im well, but tired. Im sorry to hear you feel lonely. I hope you feel less so knowing we care
Hi Nick. Thanks for your kind, thoughtful messages. Today i was pondering that perhaps people might care, but because it isnt so important to them to be asked they place a different value on it but show they care in other ways.
This is my new favorite comment thread! We should do this more often - just ask each other how we are doing and actually be honest...and actually listen. :) Thanks, pandas. And I'm glad you're doing well, Nixi!
So how is everyone this wet morning?
Good morning, I wish we had a wet morning. It is hot and humid out here. But I am good. Stomach bug is almost gone and mentally I start to feel better as well. My dark thoughts are getting less and less. How are you doing today?
Good morning! I'm feeling kind of icky...still fighting a cold or something. But the moon is huge and beautiful this morning, and that was cool. Going to be a long, busy day, so feeling stress! How are you, Nixi?
Determinedly staying indoors :) still having issues with people who believe they have some kind of divine right to make whatever noise they wish when and where they want :( otherwise not bad. Gym later. Looking forward to that
How's nixiblu on this less than pleasant day?
Nick: great to hit the gym! Hav fun! Nixiblu, has the weather changed yet?
How are you?
Its cold but bright.
Lieteke, where are you thats hot and humid?
Happy that people are feeling better physically and mentally :)
Yay exercise 🏃
Nixiblu, I live in Ghana. Wish it was cold and bright here 😀😀
How are you today? Feeling a bit better?
Hey Zoe and Lieteke. Appreciate you asking. The cloud has lifted. Love that there are such great people here
Lieteke. To me Ghana weATher sounds a dream,
Great to hear the cloud has lifted!! It sounds great, but it can be a bit too much. We think 29°C is a nice cool day. And being in the sun is a bit too hot. But we don't have many gloomy days. If we have, it is something to be happy about 😀.
Ive got myself back to gym. Knee still slightly sore and flu mainly over. Happy days. Hope everyone is well and happy. Xx
Hi there, sorry about your knee. Be careful with it!! Good to hear the flu is almost over! Had a disappointing day myself, will get over it, I am sure
What happened Lieteke? Hope you are ok
I am! It is not personal, thankfully. We ordered equipment and non of it is actually working properly. We are starting a new business, but not it is delayed yet again. Very disappointing. Felt very disappointed, deflated, sad.
But it is only material andwe can find solutions. It will only take longer than expected