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Flatmate is still off. Been nearly a week
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6 nixiblu .
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Lacking motivation. Busy week ahead. Both work and social. Away at weekend. Today I was going to pack
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5 nixiblu .
16 Feb 2018 ·
Flatmate is in a mood. Feel uncomfortable.
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6 nixiblu .
15 Feb 2018 ·
Smashed my phone yesterday. Had to get new one today. Unnecessary faff and expense
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16 Feb 2018 ·

Sorry to hear that, nixi. That really sucks.

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6 nixiblu .
14 Feb 2018 ·
Waiting for this virus to end
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14 Feb 2018 ·

Hope you feel better soon

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7 nixiblu .
13 Feb 2018 ·
Happy overall
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7 nixiblu .
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5 nixiblu .
10 Feb 2018 ·
Suspicious that the bloke is cheating. Could well be me reliving past feelings. But equally my gut is saying its not right
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Cindy M
10 Feb 2018 ·

Big hugs nixi xx

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Lieteke G
10 Feb 2018 ·

Oh, difficult! Do you go with your gutfeeling, which is 85% of the time right, do you want to learn to trust again.. so hard! I have been there, but I can't give you advise. Thinking of you!❤️

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6 nixiblu .
08 Feb 2018 ·
Running late
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7 nixiblu .
07 Feb 2018 ·
Watching Eurovision you decide and I'm not impressed
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07 Feb 2018 ·

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07 Feb 2018 ·

Since I moved away from Europe, I don't follow it anymore. It used to be great fun though. Lovely parties

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08 Feb 2018 ·

I usually host a party. This year im going to lisbon

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08 Feb 2018 ·

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07 Feb 2018 ·
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6 nixiblu .
04 Feb 2018 ·
Long day
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04 Feb 2018 ·
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Lieteke G
04 Feb 2018 ·

Haven't heard from you for a while. How are you? Good to see you are having a good day!!

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nixiblu .
04 Feb 2018 ·

Silly early wakeup call. But 2 cups of coffee made it positive. The 8 was slightly optimistic.

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04 Feb 2018 ·

How are you all?

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04 Feb 2018 ·

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6 nixiblu .
02 Feb 2018 ·
Exhausted. Uncapable of moving right now. 9pm friday night, and im in bed :(
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02 Feb 2018 ·

Its green because im happy otherwiss

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02 Feb 2018 ·

Hope an early bed time helps. (I was in bed at 7.15 :) but sadly don't seem able to sleep...

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03 Feb 2018 ·

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4 nixiblu .
29 Jan 2018 ·
Fed up. Im constantly asking people how they are, but noone asks me how i am. Typical conversation with the parents. I ask how they are, they reply. And continue to not ask me. The bloke doesnt ask me
nixiblu .
29 Jan 2018 ·

Either, so now ive finished him. I just wish people were more considerate of me, without me having to change to show less caring of them

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Nick N
29 Jan 2018 ·

So Nixiblu, how are you today? And even though i don't know you i do genuinely care. I know how it feels when no one seems to be interested in how you feel.

nixiblu .
29 Jan 2018 ·

Thanks Nick. I feel better now ive had a moan. How are you?

Nick N
29 Jan 2018 ·

Somewhat better this afternoon than i was this morning. I've now got to know some of the people on this ward that i moved to yesterday which is good. Thank you for asking. And a good moan often helps.

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Lieteke G
29 Jan 2018 ·

One thing I learned, if you want something, ask for it. People are busy with their own lives. Make a joke out of it. Thank you for asking how I am, or something. People might show you in different ways they care..

Lieteke G
29 Jan 2018 ·

By the way, how are you?

nixiblu .
29 Jan 2018 ·

:) thanks Lieteke. Im better now :)

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30 Jan 2018 ·

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Jeff M
30 Jan 2018 ·

Hi Nixi. How are you today?

Jeff M
30 Jan 2018 ·

(As an aside, I used to want people to ask me how I am, but I guess what I really want is for people to really care how I am, and no one does. When they ask, they just want to hear 'good, you?')

Nick N
30 Jan 2018 ·

In which case Jeff i have to ask how are you today? And when i ask i do genuinely care. If i don't have time or the emotional space for a response i don't ask.

Jeff M
30 Jan 2018 ·

Hi Nick. I'm stressed about work and the amount I have to do in the little time I have to do it. I'm feeling lonely. I'm worried about the commute home in this crappy weather. But I am pleased to be feeling physically better than yesterday.

Jeff M
30 Jan 2018 ·

Thank you for asking. :)

Nick N
30 Jan 2018 ·

Sorry for the delay in responding. I hope you managed to get the work done. Sorry to hear you've had crappy weather today. I'd not realised it had been crappy anuwhere until i saw some weather reports just now. I hope you had a safe journey.

Nick N
30 Jan 2018 ·

And good to hear that you are feeling better physically. At least there is one positive to take from what does not sound like the very best of days. Hopefully tomorrow will bring improved weather at least that will be one less pressure to deal with.

Lieteke G
30 Jan 2018 ·

Hope you got home safely today! Great you saw something positive in an otherwise bad situation! Hope tomorrow will be better

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30 Jan 2018 ·

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nixiblu .
30 Jan 2018 ·

Hi Jeff im well, but tired. Im sorry to hear you feel lonely. I hope you feel less so knowing we care

nixiblu .
30 Jan 2018 ·

Hi Nick.

nixiblu .
30 Jan 2018 ·

Hi Nick. Thanks for your kind, thoughtful messages. Today i was pondering that perhaps people might care, but because it isnt so important to them to be asked they place a different value on it but show they care in other ways.

Jeff M
30 Jan 2018 ·

This is my new favorite comment thread! We should do this more often - just ask each other how we are doing and actually be honest...and actually listen. :) Thanks, pandas. And I'm glad you're doing well, Nixi!

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30 Jan 2018 ·

nixiblu .
31 Jan 2018 ·

So how is everyone this wet morning?

Lieteke G
31 Jan 2018 ·

Good morning, I wish we had a wet morning. It is hot and humid out here. But I am good. Stomach bug is almost gone and mentally I start to feel better as well. My dark thoughts are getting less and less. How are you doing today?

Jeff M
31 Jan 2018 ·

Good morning! I'm feeling kind of icky...still fighting a cold or something. But the moon is huge and beautiful this morning, and that was cool. Going to be a long, busy day, so feeling stress! How are you, Nixi?

Nick N
31 Jan 2018 ·

Determinedly staying indoors :) still having issues with people who believe they have some kind of divine right to make whatever noise they wish when and where they want :( otherwise not bad. Gym later. Looking forward to that

Nick N
31 Jan 2018 ·

How's nixiblu on this less than pleasant day?

Lieteke G
31 Jan 2018 ·

Nick: great to hit the gym! Hav fun! Nixiblu, has the weather changed yet?

Zoe K
31 Jan 2018 ·

How are you?

nixiblu .
01 Feb 2018 ·

Its cold but bright.

nixiblu .
01 Feb 2018 ·

Lieteke, where are you thats hot and humid?

nixiblu .
01 Feb 2018 ·

Happy that people are feeling better physically and mentally :)

nixiblu .
01 Feb 2018 ·

Yay exercise 🏃

Lieteke G
01 Feb 2018 ·

Nixiblu, I live in Ghana. Wish it was cold and bright here 😀😀

Lieteke G
01 Feb 2018 ·

How are you today? Feeling a bit better?

nixiblu .
01 Feb 2018 ·

Hey Zoe and Lieteke. Appreciate you asking. The cloud has lifted. Love that there are such great people here

nixiblu .
01 Feb 2018 ·

Lieteke. To me Ghana weATher sounds a dream,

Lieteke G
02 Feb 2018 ·

Great to hear the cloud has lifted!! It sounds great, but it can be a bit too much. We think 29°C is a nice cool day. And being in the sun is a bit too hot. But we don't have many gloomy days. If we have, it is something to be happy about 😀.

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12 Feb 2018 · NEW

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nixiblu .
12 Feb 2018 ·

Ive got myself back to gym. Knee still slightly sore and flu mainly over. Happy days. Hope everyone is well and happy. Xx

Lieteke G
12 Feb 2018 ·

Hi there, sorry about your knee. Be careful with it!! Good to hear the flu is almost over! Had a disappointing day myself, will get over it, I am sure

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12 Feb 2018 ·

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nixiblu .
13 Feb 2018 ·

What happened Lieteke? Hope you are ok

Lieteke G
13 Feb 2018 ·

I am! It is not personal, thankfully. We ordered equipment and non of it is actually working properly. We are starting a new business, but not it is delayed yet again. Very disappointing. Felt very disappointed, deflated, sad.

Lieteke G
13 Feb 2018 ·

But it is only material andwe can find solutions. It will only take longer than expected

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