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5 Esther B
13h ·
got myself a new tattoo. a cat. my cat. my reason to get up in the rough days. had intake for 6week therapy. sad but okay.
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Jeff M
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Congrats on the tattoo, Esther! That's awesome... When does the therapy start? I'm crossing all my fingers and toes that this will help you so much!!

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Yay tattoo!!

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Lydia R
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YAY! That sounds great! A very good reason to get up. <3

Lydia R
11h ·

I wouldn't judge anyone for liking a certain animal, that's just dumb. Like whatever you want, cats, flamingos, unicorns. Doesn't matter.

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Kristin L
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My husband love cats John. So I guess its okej ;)

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John T
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I'm a bit jealous! I wanted to get my first tattoo as a cat but a girl I liked at the time said it'd be weird with me being a man... I didn't get it but men can like cats right?

John T
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John T
11h ·

I know right! She was the weird one!

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3 Esther B
17h ·
Told ex I threw stuff away. no reaction. Told date Im not able to talk to him just for fun. I'm not looking for a WhatsApp buddy. i feel so lonely.
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4 Esther B
2d ·
Not my day. Rain, rain and more rain. 3 coffee is too much. Grumpy. Tense. Itchy. 8 pm and already in bed reading.
Anna M
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raining in England too...

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Zoe D
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hope tomorrow is better for you!

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Liz K
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Reading in bed while it rains outside... Sounds good to me!

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Silke V
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Toen we vanmiddag vertrekken was het inderdaad niet zo'n aangenaam weer, maar in België is het niet veel beter! Hopelijk voel je je morgen beter.

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Manda P
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Hope today is better for you, Esther. I don't see a problem with being in bed at 8PM reading either though. Sounds perfect, especially with the rain. Very relaxing.

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6 Esther B
4d ·
A solid 6 for this weekend. Yesterday I went to the gym, ironed sheets, had coffee at favorite place and finished the last H.P. book. Today I slept in and had lunch at Ted's with friends. Now reading.
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Love 1
4d ·

Sounds reenergizing, relaxing

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Esther B
3d ·

it was love. I'm spending more time with myself. I sort of like it while reading 😉

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Manda P
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Lovely to see green for you, Esther! I like my alone time reading too.

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Trevor B
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Sounds good keep it up great work

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Love 1
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self-care, baby! I love it. When youre relaxed & calm, youve nurtured yourself, loved yourself, its a sign of respect, self-compassion, awareness. Now you have more to give others. Youre resourced and coming from a higher energy. Go,Esther 3x

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2 Esther B
5d ·
crying in bed. dinner with 17 colleagues. never felt this lonely. everybody talking about relationships and about money things and stuff. can't relate. never ever felt this sad.
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Chatlotte L
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I know being trapped in a situation like that really sucks but it helps when you focus on what you do have and I'm sure you have a lot more than you think :) you don't need to compare yourself to others xx

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Esther B
5d ·

@Charlotte I have a cat a house and a job i don't particularly like. There's not much that can cheer me up

Lydia R
5d ·

A cat always manages to cheer me up. :) And having a roof above our heads is something to be very grateful for. It's so hard to focus on the little things we do have in life, but once you do you'll see how lucky you are in some respects of life.

Lydia R
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The rest will follow, I'm sure! Just don't give up yet.

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Esther B
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thanks all

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5 Esther B
6d ·
therapist told me to close the X chapter for good. he is not allowed to have power over me anymore. furthermore he advised me to stop dating or at least stop looking for love in wrong places
Esther B
6d ·

I know he's right. life is unfair. nobody wants to be alone but on the other hand all ppl tell me is to love myself and to take good care of myself cause that's important. yeah all of you telling me so do have a bf. I don't believe you.

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Lydia R
6d ·

I'm just like you, I also don't believe people when they say sth like this and actually have what I also want. They may be right, but it still sounds so insincere. Sadly no advice on how to get over this,I'm struggling with mangling myself every day.

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Esther B
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Thanks for sharing your thoughts Lydia. Wish I could take a look in the future to see that everything will be alright. Don't know how to cops with it too at this moment.. it's hard

Lydia R
5d ·

It is. Sharing your thoughts can at least give you a little momentarily peace. As with most things in life this will take time, and I wish you the strength to deal with it.

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4 Esther B
6d ·
gym. therapy was quite intense and emotional.. work okayish but upcoming headache. at home now. cancelled friend. wanna finish harry potter book tonight..
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John T
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Which Harry Potter book are you on. I found them very repetitive and over rated, he goes to school, something bad happens, he saves the day. Repeat x 7. The films really ruined the books for me. Characters were totally different to how I'd imagined.

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John T
6d ·

Yeah, the films ruined what little magic I did get from the books... Having Hagrid as Cornish when he read like a Yorkshireman was a massive no. /Rant

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Esther B
6d ·

Haha John! I'm reading the last book now. still 200 pages to go. I think they are okayish but not that entertaining. I admire Rowlings fantasy but I don't understand all the hysteria.

John T
6d ·

I prefer tolkein, proper Wizards, you know...

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Sarah N
6d ·

Harry Potter, my favourite

Esther B
5d ·

Never read those books John but definitely on my list..

Lydia R
5d ·

I enjoyed the HP books as a teen, and I still like the series. It took me ages to get into Tolkien, though, and I've only watched the films so far but I like them and want to read the books as well. Still looking for a nice edition to buy.

John T
5d ·

Tolkein is only good if you like lots of over the top, unnecessary detail.

Lydia R
5d ·

I've heard they're difficult to read, but I'm interested to see how the films differ from the books and what additional information I can glean. Maybe I'll start with The Hobbit, that one is already on my bookshelf.

John T
5d ·

Tom Bombadil is the biggest difference, and Aragorn's love interest wasn't in books much.

Esther B
3d ·

I don't like over the top but maybe o will try :)

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6 Esther B
7d ·
work - friend - spontaneous diner with colleague
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4 Esther B
14 Nov 2017 ·
itchy skin. dressed up today. recieved compliments at work yesterday and today. its only about my looks but it's a compliment.
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14 Nov 2017 ·

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4 Esther B
13 Nov 2017 ·
survived the say but not happy at all.
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