Might sound strange to say but the fact that you doubt is a good sign.. Hope you understand what I mean x
i am very happy you are still alive <3
I'm so glad you're alive too, Esther. 💚 Silke is right, the fact that you even doubt is a good thing. Thinking of you! xx
Go! It'll help. I promise!
I'm with you.. after my ex I told myself I would never date anyone I love. This time I will date someone that loves me even if I don't love them. It's been a lot easier on the heart and it introduce me to women I would not normally date.
Its also soooo much less drama. But it still hurts when it doesn't work out, just not earth shattering
Goodluck Esther, you deserve to be happy
That's a good thing Sonny. But at this moment I don't go out so Im not really meeting new people.
What do you mean? I hope I'm reading this the wrong way
I don't believe this, but it's not the worst thing in the world to be accepting. I think sometimes the longing for better things makes the present seem worse than it is. Perspective that you are accepting what you have now is not bad...
But I know you're going to find happiness, Estherbear! It will sneak up on you when you're least expecting it! You're an amazing person who deserves happiness!
I agree with Jeff. Esther, you're going to get your happy ending, and you deserve it so much.
Thinking of you, I'm here if you need me! It'll get better and you'll find someone who makes you even happier.
How awful, sending you big hugs x
I'm not completely updated about the situation. But everytime he comes back in to your life, your completely lost. Do you think it's possible to delete his phone number? And maybe talk to a professional. Big hug, worried about you x
Ik ken zn nr uit mn hoofd Silke en het gaat al maanden over hem bij therapie. Ik weet t ook niet meer
:( ik wou echt dat'k je kon helpen Esther!! Je bent veel te goed om je zo slecht te voelen! Dus een psycholoog lijkt ook niet te helpen?
so sorry Esther <3
I've been with someone else as well. Just not with my heart and head
I'm so sorry you're feeling so bad, Esther. That must really hurt. Thinking of you. 💚
I know this feeling and am right here with you. I also cried at work today. But it gets better. Try the 478 breathing method - it helps me out I do it 4 x a day and when ever stressed
Sorry, Esther. It will hurt for a while, and then some truly awesome guy is going to crush on you so hard and you'll forget all about your ex!
It already hurt for a year now. Can't seem to live without hi . Completely lost
Thinking of you xx
If he's hurting you maybe you should consider leaving him. Idk your story... You have right to party and be free, too..
Well he left me cause otherwise he wouldn't be an ex, would he? But yeah I feel left out. Cause I'm not the one who he parties with.
trigger to go and text my ex and to be nasty towards people who are actually kind to me. Friends are supportive in any way but id wish I'd knew how to tell them how they can help. I don't know if I can be helped. Doubting if this kind of therapy is -
useful. I've been seeing Pieter(therapist) for 2 years now. Last year I've been really low with my hospitalization as the worst thing ever. Now I feel almost as low as last year. Feels like I failed this year. Asking myself what's the best therapy -
on the long term. This is my 3rd time in therapy. Last 2 times I was 'cured' within a year. Now I just feel worse and worse. Psychiatrist said it's a personality disorder and my depression is a result of that. Is there any help for ppl like me???
The medication hasn't helped, but t they need to find the right one. It sounds like you aren't getting the right help with your therapy. Maybe you need different type...Or is it the therapist himself?
There is help... I just think perhaps the help you're getting isn't what you need x
Thanks for your comment Binky. I don't know. Maybe it's the therapist or therapy. I just learned that it's more my personality disorder that cause these depressive periods and not depression itself. And my therapist and other professionals say; there
is no perfect therapy. Stop looking for it. But I think I deserve the best there is as I want to live and not just survive. It's a subject that's been discussed a lot with current therapist.
Have they told you what kind of personality disorder? Because there are certain therapy forms that are more helpful for specific personality disorder. You still would have to try them out though. But I'm sure there's a way to make you feel better. :)
Don't know Lydia. I have problems when it comes to events like stress at work. I just can't handle it. I'm off balance easily. I don't have a strong identity they say.