or contribute to someone else's happiness and receive back what you give. Compliments, aid, empathy- we do ourselves good when we look out for others.
Lots of people can use a dash of kindness which you have to give. :)
How about a hug from a panda?
What about things like football, spring, flowers, ice cream, chocolate, travelling, CATS?
Oh poor you Esther. How awful. It's hard I know but I hope your friend knows how you really feel deep inside and that mental illness can make someone act this way also that its really not your fault because you really have no control over this. Hugs
Hugs...sounds like u had a tough time....
Sounds like you were needing stillness of space or silence and she/he was needing connection. Now mabe you both need understanding, forgiveness, harmony?
I'm sure your friends will understand. Sometimes I have to tell my good friends why I act that way...it's hard, but at least they understand. You'll turn this around!
He's angry at me for not trying to be happy and that I wanted to talk later on the eveninf when he was tired. So he was really angry with me for asking questions. Don't know. Just feel numb
Poor you Esther. Personally he doesn't sound like he knows much about depression or how it can wipe someone's life away. You can't switch happiness on like a light. Its not your fault at all so please don't feel numb. Big hugs
He has had low periods a lot, also when I just met him so it upsets me a bit he's that hard to me. But sometimes I just think I need a kick to get me moving.. Thanks for caring!
I can appreciate using sleep as a kind-of Time Machine. Get in when it's bad, hop out again when it's good. But remember it's all that time inbetween that makes the difference. Stay strong
I get out when it's still bad that's the problem:s
But appreciate your comment. Thanks a lot
I understand exactly what you say Esther. Please take good care of yourself. Big Pandy cuddles
Try not getting in at all.
Getting in negative mood Noah? Or what do you mean?
Esther, I mean the Time Machine is fine for skipping out events; but quite often the time you missed out on was important. Very often the time inbetween is what makes us who we are. N
Please look after yourself Esther and enjoy the weekend
I hope you sleep better Esther. Please take good care of yourself. Big Pandy Hugs
Talking about babies and pretending to be one happy family. Im single. Imnjust as important as everyone else.
Yeah, it's always that way for me too. If I don't ask people to do things, they don't think to ask me. I get tired of it... You are as important as everyone else...they're just not as considerate...:(
I wish you and I could be friends in real life. We could just drink wine and eat cookies together, with our cats, sobbing at silly things. Big hugs hun x
Esther is it possible for you to meet new people, single people I mean. So you can go out together, ho for drinks, manhunting? ;)
Yeaj Claire we would rock with coffee cats and drinks! And Silke I have some single friends but not that many. Don't know how to meet new ones..
Ha definitely! How big is your apartment? Maybe you could do couchdurfing or airbnb? But I understand if you'd like local friends more...
I'm sorry for your friend's mother...don't wish bad things upon yourself, though!
Sorry for that awful news. Don't wish bad upon yourself though. xx
You have a good heart dear. Always remember it. Do you wish a tumor for people with good hearts? No. So sorry for her tho. Take care x
The world is already cruel enough, please don't be cruel on yourself Esther
*big huge hugs* You'll make it through this. <3 xx
Sending you strength and good energy, Estherbear!
I hope you're better now x
Thanks Claire I do. Dinner made it a lot better and being at home with my cat as well :)
Good to hear x
Glad you felt better! <3