Try to change your state. He does not want to hurt you. Imagine he just wants to be nice.
Problematic siblings must be a nightmare. Hope it goes well in spite of him.
Try to be there for your mum.. it is only a few hours, then go home and when the need arises, hit a pillow
Great to see you! xx
You too lovely Sonny
Thank you Cindy and HF! Thank you everyone
You too Sonny. Happy to hear from you
Thanks Esther, Des!
I only got 3 hours of sleep last night and I just in this funk. I've been doing good for so long. I think all the stress finally caught up to me and seeing her again, set me back
Hopefully I can get past all this soon
I can understand why that threw you - be kind to yourself and, as you say, give it time to pass. Big hugs xx
Hope so too dear friend. You deserve some stressless nights
Thank you everyone for the hugs.. Im better now.. I just had a quick stumble.. thank u cindy and Esther for the kind words
But think of how much progress you'd made, Sonny - one time doesn't negate that. Hope things improve x
Thank you Cindy * hugs
Thank you everyone
Well done 🙂
YAY! Good work
Thank you everyone for the hugs
Thank u Wendy Natalie Michelle
Thanks tasha Alicia
Why are those two the only options?
Thanks des Esther
@Esther idk.. Ive been alone so long that I feel I have to choose at this point
It's hard to meet someone
Yeah I can relate to that feeling but im sure theres someone around thats good for you
Thanks Esther I hope so
You are very wise. I think I know what you mean, being a counter dependent myself (I think that's what I might be). Or maybe it's a different thing entirely. Either way, you rock!
Thank you everyone for the hugs
@Alicia you hit the nail on the head.. I fell in love with a toxic person again. I found myself attaching to her while she ruin me. I broke it off and being me I feel bad. I can't let someone undo my progress to better
Wow :( I know it's a tough moment, and a sad one, but I can't help but be glad that you saw the signs this time and you broke it off. Well done! Hope you feel better real soon.
hows you range of motion? Still in pain?
Right now limited I cant lift my arm pass my shoulder.. originally they thought I ripped on spot, but I ended up ripping 3 focal points and got 5 anchors
But it doesn't hurt, which is wild cause everyone kept telling me how bad this going to be.. I haven't taken one pain killer.. so thatd good
sounds a bit like my situation. I was told 4 month recovery. Had my r.o.m back in a week. We're just studs i guess. :) Wishing you a quick recovery.
Haha! Yes we are Love1!
Thanks des and nixiblu
It kind of sucks to cross seas for people who wouldn't cross a street for you.
I like that metaphor Paul.. thank you
Good luck Sonny - hope all goes well x
how are you now?
Thank you everyone for the hugs.. everything went well and got 5 anchors in shoulder. It means so much to me to recieve hugs and kind words from you pandas.. thank u
ugh. sounds like a tendon tear.
Pizza and happiness are synonymous. theyre almost interchangeable. When drafting the Declaration of Independence, Thomas Jefferson could have ended:
'life, liberty and the pursuit of pizza' and it wouldve still made sense. When Pharrell wrote Happy, he couldve said: 'Clap along if you know what pizza is to you.' Wouldve been a better song.
Anyway, hoping you dont have to give it up completely. A slice now and then maybe?
you can stop eat pizza only not every day
I'm still happy you're around
Thank you Esther
I know the feeling. Hurts. Esp if we put our heart & soul into it and give it all we got. I shrug my shoulders and reckon it wasnt meant for me or isnt meant for me at the time. Still, its hard. Im with you.
I'm pretty sure you aren't as alone as you think. There are a lot of us out there suffering pretty much the same things, and it's some people's job to deal with people like us everyday. So don't give up just yet!
Who do you want to complain to Sonny? If something is wrong iand can be corrected then it may be worth saying something
Thanks everyone for the Hugs and kind words
I truly feel like I'm cursed when it comes to love
Big hugs Sonny :)
Thank u everyone
Ouch Sonny that does not sound good. Can you get some help with the alcohol?
Thinking of you, dear Sonny - it doesn't negate all the hard work you've been putting in. Wish I could give you a real hug. xx
Thanks Noel.. I'm pretty good at controlling my drinking, but yesterday was just a weird day. Live and learn
Thank you Cindy.. very true.. it doesn't ruin all the hard work :)
Hope today is better Sonny
Thanks noel, I'm doing better
Thank you Natalie binky
That's fantastic!! 😁
Yay Sonny! xx
Proud of you Sonny x
That is wonderful my friend, Hugs
Thank you everyone for the hugs and kind words! It means a lot to me
Thank you babie des nix
But I try not to think about them because how toxic they are. Maybe cause Cmas is coming up and I'm going to be forced to see them
They have spent years being physically and verbally abusive to me. I had to tell them that I do not want them in my life anymore. It's horrible