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2 Sara H
19h ·
I'm so broken right now. Good night, pandas.
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Metron A
18h ·

Hope tomorrow brings better things.

Lydia R
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Anna N
14h ·

Big hugs, Sara. Hope tomorrow is a bit brighter

Tasha S
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Sara H
8m ·

Pandas, I don't know what today is going to bring. Either heartbreak or joy. But I feel like I have to face this head-on if I'm ever going to be ok. Or, it's the dumbest thing I've ever done. Wish me luck...

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9 Sara H
5d ·
Pandas, I conversed with him without emotion and without reacting to his narcissistic tactics. I feel fantastic. Seems I've somehow developed armor against narcissists. It only took 5 narcs but...
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Yay Sara!

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Anna N
4d ·

What great progress!

Sara H
4d ·

Anna, it's huge! Narc mom and narc sister, followed by 3 narc husbands. Talk about a milestone! I'm the healthiest I have been in my entire life. Loving it. :)

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1 Sara H
5d ·
I'm so not ok. Why did he have to message me? It's the same venom all over again. I won't fall into the narcissistic trap this time. I won't I refuse. But I also won't block him. I can do this.
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4 Sara H
6d ·
I think deactivating my social media accounts might be in order here. I need to get my head right without any outside influences. Maybe take a drive for some alone time this weekend. Something.
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Anna N
6d ·

Sounds like a good idea. You can make it;

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3 Sara H
6d ·
Husband messaged my best friend asking about me, and proclaiming that he still cares. I know it's complete fabrication, but I'm not sure how to respond. Ignoring for now...
Mark W
6d ·

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Mark W
6d ·

It's very hard to ever trust someone again once they have broken that trust.

Sara H
6d ·

Legally he can't contact me because of the restraining order. Even him asking her about me is a violation. But my broken heart wants so badly to believe he might be sincere. I'm a freaking wreck.

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2 Sara H
7d ·
Day 5 of an unwarranted sense of dread.
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5 Sara H
16 Apr 2018 ·
Blah. Financial stress. Work stress. Family stress. Estranged husband stress. Tonight calls for a bubble bath, a bit of chocolate, and perhaps a glass of wine.
Hanna H
16 Apr 2018 ·

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Jeff M
16 Apr 2018 ·

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Jeff M
16 Apr 2018 ·

Sounds like a good way to relieve stress!

Cindy M
16 Apr 2018 ·

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1 Sara H
12 Apr 2018 ·
Brother's ex-wife fabricated a bunch of lies, and he lost custody of his kids yesterday. I'm just physically ill over it. He did none of the things she alleged. Heartbroken. The system failed.
Jeff M
12 Apr 2018 ·

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Jeff M
12 Apr 2018 ·

That is so horrible. That shouldn't be able to happen...lying shouldn't change people's lives this way. :( Can he fight it somehow? I'm sorry!

Janine S
12 Apr 2018 ·

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12 Apr 2018 ·

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Kristina M
12 Apr 2018 ·

Im so sorry. The system is sh*t.

Cindy M
12 Apr 2018 ·

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Cindy M
12 Apr 2018 ·

That is awful - so sorry for you and your family

Anna N
13 Apr 2018 ·

I hate that sort of thing! Why are people so vindictive? Hugs to your family

Reba H
13 Apr 2018 ·

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Sara H
16 Apr 2018 ·

Thanks, all. Jeff - he's been fighting her for about 5 years back and forth. He's proven her in contempt of court 8 or more times. But the court will almost always side with the mother, regardless. I, however, have NO problem calling CPS about it

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2 Sara H
10 Apr 2018 ·
Anxiety has me vomiting and now, with a migraine. Today needs to be over, and fast. I'm not sure I can take much more of this work day.
Hanna H
10 Apr 2018 ·

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11 Apr 2018 ·

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1 Sara H
10 Apr 2018 ·
Last week: We sold the company, but nobody needs to worry; nothing will change. Today: Everyone will have the opportunity to keep their position at a lower pay rate... AAARGH! I'm so done...
Jeff M
10 Apr 2018 ·

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10 Apr 2018 ·

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2 Sara H
10 Apr 2018 ·
Company was sold; new people are here shadowing all of us today, and my anxiety is beyond bad. Send positive vibes please, pandas! I can't lose my job!
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10 Apr 2018 · CHIEFPANDA

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10 Apr 2018 ·

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10 Apr 2018 ·

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Jeff M
10 Apr 2018 ·

Oh no! That happened to me at my last job. Fought hard to keep a job, but kept looking for a new job at the same time... Good luck!

Lieteke G
10 Apr 2018 ·

That must be very hard!! Thinking of you and sending you a lot of positive thoughts!!!!

Cindy M
10 Apr 2018 ·

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11 Apr 2018 ·

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5 Sara H
06 Apr 2018 ·
not happy, not necessarily sad. ever have a day when you just want it to be done so you can go to bed and sleep off the apathy? that's me today. gets old being tired and stressed and just blah.
Lisa A
06 Apr 2018 ·

End of the week blues

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06 Apr 2018 ·

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2 Sara H
02 Apr 2018 ·
The dilemma continues. I now have proof - in his own message to a mutual friend - that my husband is dealing drugs. Can anyone think of a good reason not to turn all this over to his probation ofcr?
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Reba H
03 Apr 2018 ·

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Anna N
03 Apr 2018 ·

What a mess. Personally I'd turn it over, but if it'll just cause more issues you may not want to

Tasha S
03 Apr 2018 ·

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2 Sara H
02 Apr 2018 ·
Saw my husband Friday night; he told a mutual friend that he didn't care at all, he is in love with my friend/his crush. He never loved me at all. I knew this but it hurts. A lot.
Jeff M
02 Apr 2018 ·

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Lieteke G
02 Apr 2018 ·

Of course that hurts, i really feel for you. It mustbe horrible to hear that! ❤️

Brooke A
02 Apr 2018 ·

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02 Apr 2018 ·

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Sara H
02 Apr 2018 ·

Thanks, guys. I haven't felt this low in a long time. I know I'm not, but I fell really unlovable.

Brooke A
02 Apr 2018 ·

No problem! And yes, that is understandable considering the circumstances. But as hard as it is to admit: just because one person does not love you does not mean no one does or ever has.

Sara H
02 Apr 2018 ·

Thanks, Brooke. I know that in my heart, but sometimes my head - damaged as it is - tells me differently.

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5 Sara H
29 Mar 2018 ·
Dilemma solved. I'm staying out of it. I have to. It's the only way to get him and his vile family completely out of my life. I want to do what's right, but in this case, I have to protect myself.
Sara H
29 Mar 2018 ·

...I still don't feel right about doing this, but I suppose it makes the most sense to just stay out of his life and let him screw up on his own. I don't want to ruin his life out of a desire for vengeance or screw myself in court. I hate this.

Mark W
29 Mar 2018 ·

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29 Mar 2018 ·

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29 Mar 2018 ·

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29 Mar 2018 ·

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29 Mar 2018 ·

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Anna N
30 Mar 2018 ·

I think that's the right decision. Stay strong, Sara. You can do this!

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1 Sara H
29 Mar 2018 ·
Moral dilemma. Do I do what's right, or do I stay out of the situation and not add unwanted drama to my life? Help, pandas. Help.
Mark W
29 Mar 2018 ·

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Cindy M
29 Mar 2018 ·

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29 Mar 2018 ·

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Tasha S
29 Mar 2018 ·

It depends on the situation

Sara H
30 Mar 2018 ·

Tasha - my husband has now hit his current girlfriend, and is violating his probation, as well as violating the restraining order I have on him. He's manipulating an 18 year old girl who is scared of him. It's killing me.

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8 Sara H
26 Mar 2018 ·
Reported my husband's probation violations to the court. Now, we wait. He needs to be in jail; that's the only way he will get help with his bipolar, and not be able to physically abuse his new girl
Cindy M
26 Mar 2018 ·

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26 Mar 2018 ·

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26 Mar 2018 ·

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Anna N
28 Mar 2018 ·

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9 Sara H
23 Mar 2018 ·
Talking with the ex's ex is making me feel really strong and empowered. I had forgotten a lot of the hurtful mean things that happened. Any feelings of concern I had for him are 100% gone.
Lydia R
23 Mar 2018 ·

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Janine S
23 Mar 2018 ·

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alex D
23 Mar 2018 ·

That's great! I know how hard it is to forget/get over an ex (or crush or something like that). I'm proud of you!!! :)

Sara H
23 Mar 2018 ·

Thanks, alex. He's very abusive. Physical, emotional, and financial. He has already hit his new ex once (she took him back last night, but I don't expect it to last). I worry for her safety.

Anna N
24 Mar 2018 ·

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24 Mar 2018 ·

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10 Apr 2018 ·

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8 Sara H
22 Mar 2018 ·
Bizarre turn of events. Ex's latest ex messaged me to ask questions about what he did to me. Same things he did to her. He's livid that I'm now friends with 2 of his last 3 girlfriends. Amused...
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22 Mar 2018 ·

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23 Mar 2018 ·

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24 Mar 2018 ·

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2 Sara H
20 Mar 2018 ·
The ex is plastering statements full of obscenities on social media about me. I shouldn't care. I know this. But the only thing preventing me from running him over is a lack of fuel for my car.
Jeff M
20 Mar 2018 ·

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Jeff M
20 Mar 2018 ·

That's horrible! I'm sorry!

Michelle W
20 Mar 2018 ·

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21 Mar 2018 ·

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21 Mar 2018 ·

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