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5 Sara H
3d ·
Pandas help. You all don't know me well but am I cold and heartless? According to my husband I am. It's messing with my depression. Badly. Feedback?
Lex M
3d ·

You don't seem heartless :)

Tasha S
3d ·

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Tasha S
3d ·

If you heartless then you wouldn't have posted this, clearly you have a heart or you wouldn't care!!

Sara H
2d ·

Thank you. I have to stop letting him in to my head. He knows exactly what weapons to use.

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2 Sara H
3d ·
Full on emotional meltdown. I suppose I was due for one but that doesn't make it easier.
Lydia R
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Savanna S
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Jeff M
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1 Sara H
4d ·
Not ok. I'm so not ok. And I can't stop it. I should be happy. I have D. But I can't get the guilt and pain of S out of my head. I can't handle a depressive episode right now. I can't...
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Lex M
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7 Sara H
5d ·
Cautiously optimistic that I will be able to file divorce papers this week. I so want that part of my life behind me. There's a shadow it casts and I want it gone so I can enjoy the future.
Maria K
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Purvi D
5d · NEW

Hope everything works out well for you

Purvi D
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Jessica M
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Jeff M
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Tasha S
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Sara H
5d ·

Thanks, Pandas. I'm flopping back and forth between missing S and hating him. I don't miss the abuse and the lies and the stress. I miss the good parts - but honestly, with the double life he was living, those don't exist. Jagged pill to swallow.

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8 Sara H
11 Sep 2017 ·
Happy with D, but I have to let someone else know that I'm not interested in him, and it's going to break his heart, and he's in jail. How do I tell him he's a dear friend, but nothing more? Ideas?
Kristin a.k.a Lily K
11 Sep 2017 ·

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Kristin a.k.a Lily K
11 Sep 2017 ·

Perhaps you can tell him you met somebody (D) and that you are happy...

Sara H
5d ·

Lily...the person with the crush is D's best friend. I'm just not sure how it's going to go over. Last thing I want to do is hurt someone. I'm opting for honesty since that's always best. Hopefully K will understand and be happy for us both.

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10 Sara H
11 Sep 2017 ·
All my life, I have wanted one thing. For someone - anyone - to tell me that I'm enough, and mean it. D told me that last night. I can't even describe how amazing things are with him. HAPPY!
Binky B
11 Sep 2017 ·

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11 Sep 2017 ·

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11 Sep 2017 ·

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11 Sep 2017 ·

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Kristin a.k.a Lily K
11 Sep 2017 ·

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10 Sara H
09 Sep 2017 ·
Fairytales. Are. Real. Love you all, Pandas.
Michelle F
09 Sep 2017 ·

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Jessica M
09 Sep 2017 ·

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Tasha S
09 Sep 2017 ·

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Binky B
10 Sep 2017 ·

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Kristin a.k.a Lily K
10 Sep 2017 ·

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9 Sara H
08 Sep 2017 ·
Told D last night that he's my kind of perfect. The man who doesn't discuss anything emotional said he feels the same, and that he can't get enough of me or enough time with me. Pandas...is it real?
Jeff M
08 Sep 2017 ·

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Jeff M
08 Sep 2017 ·

How nice! Don't get caught up in fear or expecting the worst...sometimes we turn those anxieties into reality. Just enjoy it and let things happen naturally!

Sarah H
08 Sep 2017 ·

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Kristin a.k.a Lily K
08 Sep 2017 ·

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Melinda S
08 Sep 2017 ·

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Sara H
08 Sep 2017 ·

Jeff - I'm just rolling with it. So is he. We've talked, and we're both broken in the same ways. Both of us are waiting for the other to flip out, and it just hasn't happened. I truly believe, for the first time in my life this is the real deal!

Sara H
08 Sep 2017 ·

Side note...the man just texted me. He's home today, and the laundry and dishes are done, and all 4 dogs and the lizard have been bathed. Seriously...OMG...all kinds of mushy goo goo eyes on my part...

Kristin a.k.a Lily K
08 Sep 2017 ·

👌

Kristin a.k.a Lily K
08 Sep 2017 ·

Im not sure what you see, i tried a emoy but it does not show. Sounds you found something good and rare. Treasure it!

Tasha S
08 Sep 2017 ·

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Jeff M
08 Sep 2017 ·

That's awesome! Good for you! (And side note: lizards get baths? I don't think I'd want to bathe a lizard...)

Kristin a.k.a Lily K
08 Sep 2017 ·

Jeff, you do what you have to for the woman you love, right?! ;)

Jeff M
08 Sep 2017 ·

Ha, I guess so! I thought maybe 'bathing the lizard' was a euphemism for something else. ;)

Reba C
09 Sep 2017 ·

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Sara H
09 Sep 2017 ·

Jeff...bearded dragons love to swim and play in warm water. If I could post a pic of little Steve in the tub I would. :)

Kristin a.k.a Lily K
09 Sep 2017 ·

With Jeffs post earlier this conversation got really twizted and I am not sure I wanna se the little Steve in the tub 😂😂😂 I am sorry, I am sure Steve is wonderful.

Kristin a.k.a Lily K
09 Sep 2017 ·

Still laughing... 🤣

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7 Sara H
07 Sep 2017 ·
I'm terrified of what I have with D. It's too good. Too perfect. He says the same. Is it actually possible that I've found someone who loves me for me this time? Is it real? Happily terrified...
Simon F
07 Sep 2017 ·

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Jeff M
07 Sep 2017 ·

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Jeff M
07 Sep 2017 ·

A good kind of terrifying!

Lex M
07 Sep 2017 ·

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Lex M
07 Sep 2017 ·

Risk worthwhile taking, perhaps?

Lex M
07 Sep 2017 ·

*autocorrect

Tasha S
07 Sep 2017 ·

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08 Sep 2017 · NEW

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Kristin a.k.a Lily K
08 Sep 2017 ·

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10 Sara H
04 Sep 2017 ·
I've thought I've had it before but I can honestly say this man...makes me happy. The real kind. The laughing all the time kind. The I know I'm loved and valued kind. I. Am. Happy.
Michelle F
04 Sep 2017 ·

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Michelle F
04 Sep 2017 ·

YAAAAAY!!!!

Lex M
04 Sep 2017 ·

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Love 1
04 Sep 2017 ·

Thats awesome!

Jessica M
04 Sep 2017 ·

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Savanna S
04 Sep 2017 ·

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Savanna S
04 Sep 2017 ·

Good job!

Kristin a.k.a Lily K
08 Sep 2017 ·

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