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8 Sara H
7d ·
Last day at the job from hell and a promise to myself that I'll not be intimidated by a boss again. Feels amazing to say that I know this is a true new beginning. Long overdue. Hugs!!
Jeff M
7d ·

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Jeff M
7d ·

Good for you! Good luck in your next endeavor!

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5 Sara H
09 Jul 2018 ·
9th day in a row people have been at our house. I miss our couple time together. Direct didn't work, maybe I should be more passive aggressive? I don't know anymore. Good night, Pandas.
Robert H
09 Jul 2018 ·

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Lydia R
09 Jul 2018 ·

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Tasha S
09 Jul 2018 ·

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Cindy M
09 Jul 2018 ·

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2 Sara H
05 Jul 2018 ·
Anxiety about giving notice at work has me vomiting; I just hope they let me work out the time and don't tell me to just leave. I need the pay. UGH.
Jeff M
05 Jul 2018 ·

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Occamy S
05 Jul 2018 ·

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Robert H
05 Jul 2018 ·

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Reba H
05 Jul 2018 ·

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Lydia R
05 Jul 2018 ·

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Cindy M
05 Jul 2018 ·

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Cindy M
05 Jul 2018 ·

Hope it works out for you

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4 Sara H
05 Jul 2018 ·
3am and I'm having one of those moments when I realize just how broken I am. It hurts. Having a raging UTI isn't helping either. *sigh*
Lydia R
05 Jul 2018 ·

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05 Jul 2018 ·

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Jeff M
05 Jul 2018 ·

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Cindy M
05 Jul 2018 ·

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Cindy M
05 Jul 2018 ·

Feel better soon - UTIs are the worst!

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2 Sara H
24 Jun 2018 ·
That moment when you discover your husband is back with the hooker who ended your marriage. For the 4th time. I shouldn't care but it hurts. What does she have over me?
Janine S
24 Jun 2018 ·

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Metron A
24 Jun 2018 ·

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Maite P
24 Jun 2018 ·

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Cindy M
24 Jun 2018 ·

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Lieteke G
24 Jun 2018 ·

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Lieteke G
24 Jun 2018 ·

So sorry to hear that! It must hurt pretty bad. Sending you a huge hug

Sara H
25 Jun 2018 ·

Thanks, Pandas. I just can't seem to let go of who I thought he was.

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5 Sara H
20 Jun 2018 ·
Emotions are leveling out. Boss was planning this demotion for a month; over a mistake a coworker made. Two interviews on tap so I can make a move very soon... Patience...
Ivanova
20 Jun 2018 ·

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Jeff M
20 Jun 2018 ·

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20 Jun 2018 ·

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20 Jun 2018 ·

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20 Jun 2018 ·

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2 Sara H
20 Jun 2018 ·
Demoted at work; because of someone else's error. Same money, less stress and not as much dealing with the man who has been intimidating me. Now I just need that new job...I can do this...
Jessica R
20 Jun 2018 ·

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20 Jun 2018 ·

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20 Jun 2018 ·

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6 Sara H
18 Jun 2018 ·
Mooch/friend has been MIA for 5 days since my hissy fit - not even a text. :) Side note, I have another job interview tomorrow after work and it's a great fit for me. Here's hoping I get it!
Lydia R
18 Jun 2018 ·

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Sarah D
18 Jun 2018 ·

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Cindy M
18 Jun 2018 ·

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Cindy M
18 Jun 2018 ·

Everything crossed xx

Tasha S
19 Jun 2018 ·

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5 Sara H
14 Jun 2018 ·
Exhausted, and dreading tonight. I don't deal well with confrontation, and I literally snapped and went off on 2 people last night. This 'friend' shows up at noon and won't leave 1 am on a daily...
Sara H
14 Jun 2018 ·

basis when he figures out he's not getting a free meal. His girlfriend is telling her parents that my fiancee is her boyfriend, because they don't like our friend. These people have 8 children between them, and showing up at my home daily is...

Sara H
14 Jun 2018 ·

making me feel like I've opened a daycare, which I have not. They're rude, annoying, loud, and literally only want a place to hang out because her parents hate him and his roommate hates her. I blew up, banned her from my home, and told said friend

Sara H
14 Jun 2018 ·

...that this has GOT to stop. I literally can't take the stress anymore. I am not responsible for my actions if he shows up unannounced again today for the 26th day in a row. I'm not. Just warning the world now... GRRRRRR.

Sara H
14 Jun 2018 ·

I'm working full time and coming home to drama and threats and screaming children for another 7-8 hours a night, and I am NOT doing it anymore. That's not a friend, that's a mooch and I do not care what I have to do to to stop this!!!!!

Josie B
14 Jun 2018 ·

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Jeff M
14 Jun 2018 ·

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14 Jun 2018 ·

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Lydia R
14 Jun 2018 ·

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Tasha S
14 Jun 2018 ·

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Cindy M
15 Jun 2018 ·

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Cindy M
15 Jun 2018 ·

Hope things are better

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5 Sara H
12 Jun 2018 ·
Day 2 of waiting to get the call about the new job. I am NOT a patient person, and this is driving me to distraction! I can't focus on anything without checking email every 15 seconds. Aargh!
Occamy S
12 Jun 2018 ·

I know exactly how you feel. I hope they'll call soon!

Tasha S
12 Jun 2018 ·

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Cindy M
12 Jun 2018 ·

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Cindy M
12 Jun 2018 ·

Fingers crossed for you xx

Sara H
13 Jun 2018 ·

Thanks, all! I really hate how overthinking spikes my anxiety for days at a time. I just need to relax, but I can't seem to at all. Maybe tomorrow will be the day?

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2 Sara H
11 Jun 2018 ·
Anxiety is through the damn roof. Today needs to be over already.
Jeff M
11 Jun 2018 ·

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11 Jun 2018 ·

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Cheyenne M
11 Jun 2018 ·

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11 Jun 2018 ·

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12 Jun 2018 ·

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12 Jun 2018 ·

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7 Sara H
10 Jun 2018 ·
Went to read the ad about the job to my dad and it's been removed. I'm taking that to mean either I got it or the second person they interviewed did. It's me. Has to be. I got it. Find out soon.
diane D
10 Jun 2018 ·

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Cindy M
10 Jun 2018 ·

Everything still crossed for you xx

Robert H
10 Jun 2018 ·

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Sara H
10 Jun 2018 ·

Thanks guys!!! I'm staying positive!

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7 Sara H
08 Jun 2018 ·
Anxiety...job interview in about an hour. I need and want this job. I already have this job, they just don't know it yet. Let's do this.
Jeff M
08 Jun 2018 ·

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Jeff M
08 Jun 2018 ·

You got this!

Sara H
08 Jun 2018 ·

Thanks Jeff! The worry is more about leaving the current job than the new one. I rent from the current boss.

Anna D
08 Jun 2018 ·

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08 Jun 2018 ·

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Metron A
08 Jun 2018 ·

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Metron A
08 Jun 2018 ·

Good attitude!

Reba H
09 Jun 2018 ·

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5 Sara H
07 Jun 2018 ·
Job hunting like crazy. I'm over being taken advantage of.
Jeff M
07 Jun 2018 ·

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Cheyenne M
07 Jun 2018 ·

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Robert H
07 Jun 2018 ·

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Heather R
07 Jun 2018 ·

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Sara H
07 Jun 2018 ·

Phone interview this afternoon. Let's all keep positive vibes going since it's the one I really want!

Cindy M
07 Jun 2018 ·

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Cindy M
07 Jun 2018 ·

Good luck! Hope it went well

Sara H
08 Jun 2018 ·

In person interview in an hour Cindy. I've got this!!

Cindy M
08 Jun 2018 ·

Woo! Go Sara! Sending positive vibes xx

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3 Sara H
05 Jun 2018 ·
Dealing with some resentment towards those in my life who choose not to work. I've never had that luxury. Am I being selfish wishing I had it? Maybe. But I'm tired of struggling.
Shelley H
05 Jun 2018 ·

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Sara H
05 Jun 2018 ·

Thanks, Shelley... Not sure how someone less than half my age is ok not working and sitting at home doing nothing or running around with friends while I work 3 jobs to support the household. Has me kinda ticked off today for some reason.

Cindy M
05 Jun 2018 ·

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Cindy M
05 Jun 2018 ·

I definitely get you!

Robert D
05 Jun 2018 ·

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Lydia R
05 Jun 2018 ·

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Jeff M
06 Jun 2018 ·

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06 Jun 2018 ·

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06 Jun 2018 ·

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6 Sara H
23 May 2018 ·
Found myself a psychotherapist that can work with me on my budget. Starting next week. I'm SO relieved. I've needed therapy for years; maybe this will be a big turning point for me.
Keeping Track A
23 May 2018 ·

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Keeping Track A
23 May 2018 ·

Great news! Congrats and welldone! 😊

Lydia R
23 May 2018 ·

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Lydia R
23 May 2018 ·

That really is great news, so glad for you!

Jordan G
23 May 2018 · NEW

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Jeff M
23 May 2018 ·

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23 May 2018 ·

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23 May 2018 ·

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Robert H
23 May 2018 ·

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23 May 2018 ·

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Lieteke G
23 May 2018 ·

Great news!!! So happy for you!

Reba H
23 May 2018 ·

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5 Sara H
21 May 2018 ·
*Sigh* That pretty much sums it up. You'd think I would learn not to reopen my own emotional wounds, but nope. Apparently I don't. Job hunting on top of that isn't exactly helping my mood.
Lydia R
21 May 2018 ·

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21 May 2018 ·

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Jeff M
21 May 2018 ·

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Robert H
21 May 2018 ·

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Tasha S
21 May 2018 ·

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Cindy M
22 May 2018 ·

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Cindy M
22 May 2018 ·

Good to see a post from you, hope you feel a bit better than sigh, shortly xx

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2 Sara H
16 May 2018 ·
Pretty much just done interacting with the world for a while. See ya in a week or so, Pandas.
Liane A
16 May 2018 ·

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Lydia R
16 May 2018 ·

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Lydia R
16 May 2018 ·

Take care!

Hanna H
16 May 2018 ·

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Cindy M
16 May 2018 ·

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Cindy M
16 May 2018 ·

Will be thinking of you. Look after yourself xx

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4 Sara H
14 May 2018 ·
Slowly coming out of it. I'm wrestling with the fact that I have to walk away from an activity I love and that I've unintentionally hurt by soon to be ex husband yet again, but it's his obsession...
Sara H
14 May 2018 ·

that has caused this. I offered friendship and civility, and he took it as a reconciliation. I don't want that lifestyle any more. His goals and mine are too far apart. And I can't ever trust that he won't bring her back into our lives. *sigh*

Lydia R
14 May 2018 ·

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14 May 2018 ·

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14 May 2018 ·

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14 May 2018 ·

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14 May 2018 ·

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2 Sara H
14 May 2018 ·
Is nothing an emotion? Because that's what I feel. Devoid. Empty. Nothing.
Robert H
14 May 2018 ·

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Lydia R
14 May 2018 ·

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Yaroslav
14 May 2018 ·

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Yaroslav
14 May 2018 ·

Same ***

Zoe P
14 May 2018 ·

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Sara H
14 May 2018 ·

Thanks, Pandas. I have to figure out a way to pull myself out of this. Maybe a long drive, and my favorite CDs.

Tasha S
14 May 2018 ·

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