Hope tomorrow brings better things.
Big hugs, Sara. Hope tomorrow is a bit brighter
Pandas, I don't know what today is going to bring. Either heartbreak or joy. But I feel like I have to face this head-on if I'm ever going to be ok. Or, it's the dumbest thing I've ever done. Wish me luck...
What great progress!
Anna, it's huge! Narc mom and narc sister, followed by 3 narc husbands. Talk about a milestone! I'm the healthiest I have been in my entire life. Loving it. :)
Sounds like a good idea. You can make it;
It's very hard to ever trust someone again once they have broken that trust.
Legally he can't contact me because of the restraining order. Even him asking her about me is a violation. But my broken heart wants so badly to believe he might be sincere. I'm a freaking wreck.
Sounds like a good way to relieve stress!
That is so horrible. That shouldn't be able to happen...lying shouldn't change people's lives this way. :( Can he fight it somehow? I'm sorry!
Im so sorry. The system is sh*t.
That is awful - so sorry for you and your family
I hate that sort of thing! Why are people so vindictive? Hugs to your family
Thanks, all. Jeff - he's been fighting her for about 5 years back and forth. He's proven her in contempt of court 8 or more times. But the court will almost always side with the mother, regardless. I, however, have NO problem calling CPS about it
Oh no! That happened to me at my last job. Fought hard to keep a job, but kept looking for a new job at the same time... Good luck!
That must be very hard!! Thinking of you and sending you a lot of positive thoughts!!!!
End of the week blues
What a mess. Personally I'd turn it over, but if it'll just cause more issues you may not want to
Of course that hurts, i really feel for you. It mustbe horrible to hear that! ❤️
Thanks, guys. I haven't felt this low in a long time. I know I'm not, but I fell really unlovable.
No problem! And yes, that is understandable considering the circumstances. But as hard as it is to admit: just because one person does not love you does not mean no one does or ever has.
Thanks, Brooke. I know that in my heart, but sometimes my head - damaged as it is - tells me differently.
...I still don't feel right about doing this, but I suppose it makes the most sense to just stay out of his life and let him screw up on his own. I don't want to ruin his life out of a desire for vengeance or screw myself in court. I hate this.
I think that's the right decision. Stay strong, Sara. You can do this!
It depends on the situation
Tasha - my husband has now hit his current girlfriend, and is violating his probation, as well as violating the restraining order I have on him. He's manipulating an 18 year old girl who is scared of him. It's killing me.
That's great! I know how hard it is to forget/get over an ex (or crush or something like that). I'm proud of you!!! :)
Thanks, alex. He's very abusive. Physical, emotional, and financial. He has already hit his new ex once (she took him back last night, but I don't expect it to last). I worry for her safety.
That's horrible! I'm sorry!