You don't seem heartless :)
If you heartless then you wouldn't have posted this, clearly you have a heart or you wouldn't care!!
Thank you. I have to stop letting him in to my head. He knows exactly what weapons to use.
Hope everything works out well for you
Thanks, Pandas. I'm flopping back and forth between missing S and hating him. I don't miss the abuse and the lies and the stress. I miss the good parts - but honestly, with the double life he was living, those don't exist. Jagged pill to swallow.
Perhaps you can tell him you met somebody (D) and that you are happy...
Lily...the person with the crush is D's best friend. I'm just not sure how it's going to go over. Last thing I want to do is hurt someone. I'm opting for honesty since that's always best. Hopefully K will understand and be happy for us both.
How nice! Don't get caught up in fear or expecting the worst...sometimes we turn those anxieties into reality. Just enjoy it and let things happen naturally!
Jeff - I'm just rolling with it. So is he. We've talked, and we're both broken in the same ways. Both of us are waiting for the other to flip out, and it just hasn't happened. I truly believe, for the first time in my life this is the real deal!
Side note...the man just texted me. He's home today, and the laundry and dishes are done, and all 4 dogs and the lizard have been bathed. Seriously...OMG...all kinds of mushy goo goo eyes on my part...
Im not sure what you see, i tried a emoy but it does not show. Sounds you found something good and rare. Treasure it!
That's awesome! Good for you! (And side note: lizards get baths? I don't think I'd want to bathe a lizard...)
Jeff, you do what you have to for the woman you love, right?! ;)
Ha, I guess so! I thought maybe 'bathing the lizard' was a euphemism for something else. ;)
Jeff...bearded dragons love to swim and play in warm water. If I could post a pic of little Steve in the tub I would. :)
With Jeffs post earlier this conversation got really twizted and I am not sure I wanna se the little Steve in the tub 😂😂😂 I am sorry, I am sure Steve is wonderful.
Still laughing... 🤣
A good kind of terrifying!
Risk worthwhile taking, perhaps?