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3 Cindy M
1d ·
Letting agent came to tell me that owner is going to sell flat - I have to be out by end of September. Had no idea this was coming. Trying hard not to panic and to think about what I need/want.
Cindy M
1d ·

Flat has always been a bit too small, but I love it and tho I have only been here 5 1/2 years, it has always seemed like my home. It was a sanctuary when I was so depressed...

Cindy M
1d ·

There will be challenges too because so few places allow pets. I have felt tearful at various points this evening....

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1d ·

I'm sorry this is happening, Cindy. Your world has just been turned upside down. Let's think positive though. You'll find a space that suits you even better! xx

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1d ·

Sorry to hear that.. I'm sure you will find some place even more wonderful. Change is powerful tool to give u an exciting fresh start of your choosing

Natalie C
23h ·

Thinking of you Cindy, sounds really stressful ☹. Fingers crossed you will find somewhere even better xx

Jeff M
19h ·

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Jeff M
19h ·

Oh no! Sonny has good perspective...try to stay positive about finding a new, wonderful place for you and the cat(s?). I'm sure things will work out...

Manda P
16h ·

Yes! I think I saw it right. Jeff said catS! Yep, catS, Cindy! 😊

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7 Cindy M
6d ·
Saw M Fri night/yesterday: he gave me a portrait of my cat which his mother had painted. It was amazing! But also, no one's ever done anything like that for me: made me something themselves. Weirdly
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Cindy M
6d ·

I'd just been thinking the other day that she will

Cindy M
6d ·

have another birthday next month, she's already in the 'elderly' category (though really well) and that I haven't many pictures of her. She is particularly special to me because I adopted her with my last partner, and she's been with me since I broke

Cindy M
6d ·

up with him, lived on my own, moved to Scotland, became clinically depressed and ended up losing my job, unemployed for a couple of years while getting well, and now about to finish my first year back at work. She has been here through everything,

Cindy M
6d ·

including the el cheapo cat food. I was quite tearful when M gave it to me and tried to explain to him why it meant so much to me. Getting a card for his mother today to try to tell her. People are really amazing sometimes!

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6d ·

these beautiful connections are sacred, because they get us in touch w/the goodness in ourselves & in others. We ascend together.

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6d ·

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6d ·

That is so sweet, Cindy. Glad you've had such a great feline friend to be there for you through all of that & to have such lovely people in your life.

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5d ·

Close to tears here. Wonderful story.

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5 Cindy M
30 Jun 2018 ·
Nearly 3.30 - slept well for a while but headache back. Upside is listening to dawn chorus, cooler air than lately. Just get on with some reading, I guess. Today needs to be about cleaning and laundry
Cindy M
30 Jun 2018 ·

though maybe I can get a bit more sleep before then

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30 Jun 2018 ·

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30 Jun 2018 ·

Awake here at 4:30, no birds, cloud and total silence

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6 Cindy M
29 Jun 2018 ·
Washing up done, book, tea, cat, much cooler.
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4 Cindy M
28 Jun 2018 ·
Apparently this is hottest day ever recorded in Scotland. why me?? had 4 hour meeting this morning - then went out to have a bit of walk round and ran into another student whose issues I'm dealing
Cindy M
28 Jun 2018 ·

with - and then had to call another student who rang asking for several times this morning despite my colleagues saying that I was at a meeting. My brain has melted. Going to see if I can leave at 4 - to go home to a big furry cat who will want to

Cindy M
28 Jun 2018 ·

sit on me. Great. Just great.

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28 Jun 2018 ·

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28 Jun 2018 ·

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Penelope P
28 Jun 2018 ·

Yes Cindy, but are you keeping warm enough? 🀯

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28 Jun 2018 ·

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28 Jun 2018 ·

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28 Jun 2018 ·

Hope you can stay cool, Cindy!

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28 Jun 2018 ·

student? are you teaching?

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29 Jun 2018 ·

Stay cool!

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4 Cindy M
20 Jun 2018 ·
My non working day - so tired but managed to get to appt to have my hair cut, did a few errands I'd been putting off. Despite keeping hydrated, have awful headache, which is unusual for me. May be
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20 Jun 2018 ·

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21 Jun 2018 ·

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21 Jun 2018 ·

Hope your head is feeling better by now, Cindy. Headaches are terrible to deal with. And we'll done on getting things done on your day off!

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4 Cindy M
20 Jun 2018 ·
My non working day - so tired but managed to get to appt to have my hair cut, did a few errands I'd been putting off. Despite keeping hydrated, have awful headache, which is unusual for me. May be
Cindy M
20 Jun 2018 ·

side effect of the new med for endo, still in first couple of weeks. Drained, need early night as it's back to work and a load of stuff to do

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20 Jun 2018 ·

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5 Cindy M
19 Jun 2018 ·
Graduation starts today at the university where I work. Nice to see lots of happy students and families - of course I am busy with those who didn't make it..Could put up with noise and crowds if it
Cindy M
19 Jun 2018 ·

weren't for that f*****g piper. Could he at least learn more tunes? Since I have to sit here all day I notice how small his repertoire is (or perhaps it's that - sssshhhh - all those songs sound alike :)

Jeff M
19 Jun 2018 ·

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Jeff M
19 Jun 2018 ·

My workplace annoyance is the woman who has had a cold for 3 months and clears her throat and coughs every 15 seconds so loudly. These things are so trying, aren't they?

John T
19 Jun 2018 ·

Bagpipes are the worst. Uilleann and Northumbrian aren't as bad...

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19 Jun 2018 ·

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19 Jun 2018 ·

*argh* noisy colleagues are the worst! And I don't even want to imagine anyone playing bagpipes while I am trying to work...

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5 Cindy M
16 Jun 2018 ·
A month today. An achievement, but need to keep going.
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16 Jun 2018 ·

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16 Jun 2018 ·

Celebrate with something enjoy which isn't the thing you are doing without! Well done! Keep going, you're doing great!

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5 Cindy M
15 Jun 2018 ·
Long day at work yesterday, then went to M's house as it was his birthday. Ended up sleeping over, just too tired. Glad he felt he had a good birthday, he's off to London now for a week to see his
Cindy M
15 Jun 2018 ·

family. Got home and took 'nap' of 6 hours! Didn't feel like getting up but needed to feed cat. Will be going back to bed shortly, just knackered.

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15 Jun 2018 ·

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3 Cindy M
14 Jun 2018 ·
So very, very tired. Today is last day of working week, but so much to get done/so behind. Urgent referrals and queries coming in. M's birthday today so going to see him tonight, won't get home
Cindy M
14 Jun 2018 ·

til late. Nearly hugged myself here on purpose! At this time of year everyone in team is under a lot of pressure, so while there is some comfort in knowing we're all in same boat, none of us have time to talk/commiserate. tomorrow is head under

Cindy M
14 Jun 2018 ·

the duvet time.

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15 Jun 2018 ·

Whew, Cindy! I am pooped just reading this! Hope you are able to get some much needed rest soon. And hug yourself! πŸ€—

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16 Jun 2018 ·

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4 Cindy M
12 Jun 2018 ·
So very tired. Usually tomorrow would be my non working day, but had to change it to Friday this week because of meetings etc. That seems so far away, with so much to do! What about when I go back to
Cindy M
12 Jun 2018 ·

working 5 days!! Won't think about that for now

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12 Jun 2018 ·

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12 Jun 2018 ·

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Jeff M
12 Jun 2018 ·

One step at a time, Cindy...you will take that on when you're able to do it. Just get through tomorrow. I know you can do it! Rooting for you!

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13 Jun 2018 ·

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13 Jun 2018 ·

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Natalie C
13 Jun 2018 ·

Oh Cindy, I know how you feel with Friday being out of reach & having to reschedule days off with meetings 😒 they are lucky you are a good employee & very adaptable!

Natalie C
13 Jun 2018 ·

I'm off Friday too and already counting down the hours :) xx

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13 Jun 2018 ·

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13 Jun 2018 ·

Hoping you get the rest your body and mind are craving.

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4 Cindy M
10 Jun 2018 ·
Have kept a resolution for nearly a month - last week or so have had serious moments of weakness. reminding myself it will be a month later this week; don't want to spoil that, need to keep going.
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10 Jun 2018 ·

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10 Jun 2018 ·

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10 Jun 2018 ·

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10 Jun 2018 ·

what's your resolution?

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10 Jun 2018 ·

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10 Jun 2018 ·

You can do it, Cindy! xx

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11 Jun 2018 ·

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11 Jun 2018 ·

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Jeff M
11 Jun 2018 ·

We always have setbacks. Humans cannot be strong all the time. Good for you for your strength so long, and use a setback as a reminder for why you're doing what you're doing!

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12 Jun 2018 ·

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7 Cindy M
08 Jun 2018 ·
Day off. Mainly so I can go and have the first injection for my endometriosis treatment later, but nice weather, went to library and got super haul of books, and cat happily playing with catnip mouse
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08 Jun 2018 ·

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08 Jun 2018 ·

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Jeff M
08 Jun 2018 ·

Sounds like a calm, peaceful day!

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08 Jun 2018 ·

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08 Jun 2018 ·

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08 Jun 2018 ·

Oh my gosh, great idea. I need to get a library card for my new neighborhood. Have fun with your books! Good luck with treatment, for sure.

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08 Jun 2018 ·

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09 Jun 2018 ·

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09 Jun 2018 ·

Oh, how I miss libraries! I have a Kindle now & BF has loaded it up with more books than I could ever read. Maybe I should stop by our local library for the comfort. I could use it. Hope the injections go well! xx

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09 Jun 2018 ·

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5 Cindy M
06 Jun 2018 ·
My non working day, which is welcome as I had to stay a bit after work last night to finish off a couple of things. Managed to get an appt with my GP later today to discuss options consultant gave me
Cindy M
06 Jun 2018 ·

While that's good, not really feeling anything right now. Tired.

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06 Jun 2018 ·

Hope the appt goes well 😊

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06 Jun 2018 ·

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06 Jun 2018 ·

Yes, hope the appointment goes well, Cindy. Enjoy the day off!

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4 Cindy M
30 May 2018 ·
Achy, cramps, tired - lying on the couch with hot water bottle, blanket, cat, good books....really want to sleep, and it may happen, but trying to stave it off in case I won't then sleep tonight
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30 May 2018 ·

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30 May 2018 ·

Cat and good books are a great start. I hope they'll distract you from everything else for a while! :)

John T
30 May 2018 ·

I'm reading a collection of short folk tales from around the world. Found it in a charity shop. It's quite an old book, I think this edition is around 1930s...

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30 May 2018 ·

And I've just got a cat on my lap too! 😊

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30 May 2018 ·

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4 Cindy M
30 May 2018 ·
Went to bed - can't sleep. On the bright side, tomorrow is my non working day so it needn't affect me much, but it is dispiriting. First time it's happened in a while. Back to reading....
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30 May 2018 ·

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30 May 2018 ·

I hate those nights, but comforting to know you don't have to deal with work stuff on little sleep. Hope today is better!

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3 Cindy M
16 May 2018 ·
My non working day. Got out of bed eventually, showered and dressed, sat in sun for a while with book and my cat - but I feel nothing. Or everything. Have to keep going.
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16 May 2018 ·

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16 May 2018 ·

Youndid quite a few thing already, for a day off. Well done! Hope you are enjoying your book. Some vitamin D is always good

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16 May 2018 ·

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16 May 2018 ·

Big hugs Cindy πŸ’• remember it's the little things that count, even getting out of bed can be a mission itself some days! But you done it! Have fun reading with your cat β˜ΊπŸ‘πŸΌ xx

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17 May 2018 ·

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17 May 2018 ·

Sounds like a good strategy for calming the mind. Sometimes it takes mind awhile to get with the program.

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19 May 2018 ·

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20 May 2018 ·

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23 May 2018 ·

Hope you are feeling a bit better now Cindy. Thinking of you

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29 May 2018 ·

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4 Cindy M
13 May 2018 ·
Feeling rather fragile. At least I'm out of bed. Having some tea, making breakfast, taking it slow
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13 May 2018 ·

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13 May 2018 ·

Sometimes that's the best you can do. Hope your day will improve! :)

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13 May 2018 ·

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13 May 2018 ·

Take care of yourself, Cindy. You're up and facing the day... That's the hard part! You can do this!

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13 May 2018 ·

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13 May 2018 ·

Sounds like my yesterday. Wishing us all a day of recovery and health and energy and peace

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13 May 2018 ·

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13 May 2018 ·

take it easy for the day and be kind to yourself Cindy! 😊

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13 May 2018 ·

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13 May 2018 ·

Take it easy my friend xxx

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13 May 2018 ·

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14 May 2018 ·

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14 May 2018 ·

Take care, Cindy!

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3 Cindy M
10 May 2018 ·
Really tough day at work today, where I ***ed up in front of two people I really admire. Then came back to my desk to find a rather nasty email from a colleague. Officemate had gone home by then, so
Cindy M
10 May 2018 ·

closed the door and cried in my office for a while. Have been feeling a bit low anyway. Getting tearful again writing this. I have to be able to deal with things, and I know the hurt will pass, but right now I wish I never had to see these people

Cindy M
10 May 2018 ·

again. Just had text from officemate who knew meeting didn't go well and was also a recipient of the nasty email. He wanted to make sure I was okay. Kindness matters.

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10 May 2018 ·

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10 May 2018 ·

I'm sorry this happened and hope you'll have a restful night. Things may look not as dire tomorrow, at least I hope so! Big hugs!

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10 May 2018 ·

Thinking of you Cindy bear x

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10 May 2018 ·

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10 May 2018 ·

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Jeff M
10 May 2018 ·

Glad you have your office mate's support at least. Remember your work is not your life. It's just a job, and we all f-up on occasion. You'll get past it!

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10 May 2018 ·

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11 May 2018 ·

We love you Cindy Bear xxx

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