Thanks pandas xx
His soulmate in Facebook with his new girlfriend. So he gets away with it all and I'm supposed to pay after he left me with nothing!
That's bloody awful how he's treating you - like garbage! Fist of all he said it would be over 2.5yrs before getting divorced & now he wants it........ What are you doing about it! Poor you! My heart goes out to you Christina xx
Wow! I can't believe he had the nerve to do that. What an ass. I hope you ignored his message.
He's a total s***
Just reply with 'well your paying for it so don't you know then?'
🔥🔥🔥 go for it Stephen! Soon to be (hopefully) ex-husband got burned!
The sooner the better
I hope you're okay Christina - us Pandas are worried about you - please don't let this 'man' pull you down. Lots of Panda love and hugs from us Pandas xx
I'm ok Stephen thanks for your concern. I did email back to say I was waiting for you to pay for it. Then get a reply telling me to get legal aid he won't have any money then 20 mins later I've got a loan and the money file for divorce! I don't trust
Him. He then emailed me saying he will only give the money to the court, how do I know he even has the money. probably wants me to get stuck with a big bill. He'sa nastybpuece of work.
But he might be wanting a divorce as he has put on Facebook that he wants the long term with his girlfriend complete with pictures of engagement rings. Bet she doesn't know about me.
Thanks pandas for all your hugs and comments xx
Oh you poor girl - I must be naive but I just can't believe that someone can put another human being (once his wife) through such #@s%! Please take care. Hope this works out ok. Big hugs xx
His new GF must know something about you surely? If she doesn't then its unlikely she knows he's on 'a register'?
It's just sickening behavior. He's full of BS.
Thanks Binky and Stephen xx I can't comprehend how he could act this way. It just makes it all so much worse.
That sounds like fun. Especially for a crafty person. I'm not good at decorating. I've let both the guys I've lived with decorate the whole living space themselves!
This would make me happy, too. Been meaning to redecorate & tidy out my flat for months but lacking motivation. I love to craft, haven't done anything for a long time though, so I hope your room will always inspire you.
Thanks Lydia 😃 I hope it will, making it my space away from the world. I enjoy the decorating but it's a lot of work at the moment when I just want to rest. Luckily bf very motivated to get things done. Thanks for the hugs pandas xx
To someone dating enough to help and not doing it all myself. It's nice to have a lot of stresses off me at the moment while I'm finding things hard.
So you got rest & support. Nice combination.
It certainly is Love. I feel very lucky to have both. Thanks pandas xx
Hurt herself she has in the past. Sitting in park bf home soon but I can't face anyone.
That's a lot to process. I can see why you want to be alone atm and reach out when you're ready to.
Oh poor you - of all things! Please take care sending lots Panda love & energy to assist your BF to help you xx
I hope your mother is ok!
Can or did you let her know you care about her and want the best for her? Other than that, try to think of what you need right now, seems like you need to put yourself first now?
Thinking of you. What a difficult time. 💚
Thanks pandas xx I did message mum would have rang her but I'm feeling too low to cope with talking. We are very close, keeping her mind occupied with positive things. Sending her messages through the day. I know I need to look after myself too.
Take care Christina - sending lots of Panda love your way to help you. Big hugs
Thanks Stephen xx
Thanks for the hug Anna xx
Thanks pandas for the hugs xx
Welldone - I always think that helps Christina. Unfortunately for all your suffering its gonna be a hard uphill struggle so you must expect 'days-like-these' but the trick is to remember this; because its not you: its just part of the healing process
Hooray! Taking back control x
Thanks Stephen and Binky xx Getting through one day at a time. Thanks for the hugs xx
I think this was a great move! Getting some YOU back! 💖
Well done taking back the control :-) hope each day get easier without him! Lots of panda hugs for a brave decision xx
Thanks Manda and Natalie 😃 xx