Thinking of you and hoping everything goes well tomorrow for you both. Big hugs xx
Going down to London to see him tomorrow. I miss him and I'm scared for the future
Thanks pandas xx
It he would have ended paralysed from the neck down.
hope op is successful.
I also hope the op will be successful 😁
Big hugs, you must have went through so much
Dont know if good luck is a good thing to say but wishing you all the best xoxo
Fingers crossed - so sorry to hear what's going on xx
Thanks pandas xx the operation got delayed as it is bigger than we thought. Its a 2 day op, Monday a 7 hour op through the neck and voice box to his spine and Tuesday a 4 hour op through the back of his neck. The vertabre have yo he removed and
Replaced with a metal structure. They need a 10 man team to do the op. Very scary and lots of risks such as paralysis and blindness and also death. Trying to be optimistic
I'm sending energy to you and him.
Such a difficult thing to go through... I'm glad you have support. Think of how wonderful it is to have you there to care for him and support him through this time! Every day is a gift now. You can get through this together...
All my thoughts are with you.
Thank you Jeff, we can do it together. It puts life into perspective hearing news like this. Thank you Esther and miyuki and all you pandas for your hugs.
To fulfill do many dreams together. Bf focusing on fighting it to have as much time together making memories. He doesn't feel ill in himself and hadn't lost weight. Hopefully good signs.
That sounds so scary, I'm so sorry you have to deal with that.
Thank you zoe xx
Cancer and if its spread. He's being transferred to London for emergency spinal operation that will hopefully stop him getting worse
I don't know how to cope 😟
Omg that's horrible :(
Oh, so sorry to hear that. Try to be there for him. It is ok to show emotions and to cry together. These things are not only tough for the patient, but also for the people surrounding them. 💜
Oh wow, I'm so sorry! I don't have good advice for coping, but you can be there for him...support for him and someone to cry with him as Lieteke says. When you're not with him, lean on family and friends who want to be there for you!
Thank you I've had so much support. I've learnt I need to let people in so they can help me and I'm not afraid anymore to let people see me cry. I'm also getting a phycotherapist from macmillion to support me
That is a mean thing to do. I hope you are OK Christina
Hope you are Ok xx
Getting things done. I like that feeling.
Get well soon Cristina. Me too xx
Deep breaths. :)
Merry Christmas, Christina.😆! Hope you are able to enjoy your day. ❤️💚❤️
I did thanks Manda 😊 I hope you all had good Christmases. Thanks for the hugs xx
Big hugs, hope you have a nice Christmas Christina x
Checking my behaviour around everyone to make sure I'm not annoying them. My anxiety has been really bad.
I find It very hard with having ASD to not annoy myself let alone others xx
They don't sound like a good person. Or a person worth talking to. Find better people!
Yeah, forget about them. You'll find people who like YOU. ALL of you! Sorry to hear your anxiety has been high. Mine has been so high too. It really sucks, huh?
It does Manda. You are right pandas they aren't worth my time. I have friends who really care about me I'm going to focus on them. Thank you everyone xx
What happened sweetie? Y'know, nobody is useless!
What matters is how you feel about yourself. ( although I wish I could practice what I say)
Dont worry about others and their opinions, focus on you & taking good care of yourself. Lots of hugs and love xx
intense feelings. better to attend to them without the words. just feel.
Thank you everyone for your replies xxx
Cbt is useful....it challenges your thinking. It is hard...,,I found is quite useful
Sorry you are struggling Christina. Be strong and keep going. Hard may also be useful even if it is painful
Big hugs Christina xx
Thanks Natalie xx thanks everyone for the hugs
It was Paul. Thanks pandas xx