Good luck, Silke!
my parents will join us, bc we want to tell them all together that we're engaged.
..my family, and we still have to see when we see his family, after that we'll put it online.
Sounds like you'll have some lovely photos - enjoy this whole experience!
How exciting! I am so happy for you, Silke. Wishing you two a lifetime of happiness! 💖
That's what vacations are for! :)
for the wedding also. And we don't want a big wedding, so he decided to spend a bit more on my ring bc we both like it. Beautiful, shiny, engagement but not too much. 💍
Lucky you! 😁💎💍😁
Aw, that's so wonderful! You'll be able to see it and enjoy it every day! Congratulations!
Woo-hoo! Congratulations, Silke! So exciting!!
Aw congratulations! I wish you both a very happy and healthy life together!
Oh wow! I'm so happy for you, Silke! We've been able to see (from what you share on here) how you came to know him, become friends, care for him, then love him, and now to marry him! It's so sweet, and I'm so excited for you!
Thanks 🐼 🐼. It all seems unreal.. but maybe when I have the ring I'll realise better what's happening.
Congratulations! He's a lucky man :)
Congratulations Silke! Wonderful news :)
Jeff is right, we got to be with you every step of the way!
Which makes 14 people. Also was thinking about two of my bf's friends but that might be too much. But if some aren't coming I can still invite them. Thinking of just some appetisers and a birthday cake... maybe it would be nice. Always hated my bday.
Do you normally do something to celebrate your birthday?
I've never did a birthday party only a few as a kid. Not even when I turned 18 because of relations at home. I wish to do it now this is super nice social thing. I hope Ill make it some day, right now Im baking cakes for people at work mostly.
I usually do something to celebrate, though I never have had a,party, even as a kid. But I think it's important to spoil yourself, whatever that means to you
Sometimes I've asked people to my house around my birthday to do a beer share or something (not for my birthday). Usually I just enjoy it by myself and treat myself to good food and drink. Your plans sound wonderful!
As a kid I had birthday parties, when I turned 16 I think, some of my classmates organised a surprise birthday party for me but I never felt like I had many friends to celebrate with, also I never liked my birthday. But I think I might do it...
different this year. I woun't be much, but just something small at home. Might be fun, we'll see 😀
me out again that I don't have a toilet on the plane. Well, there is one but I don't dare to go there I think. Sis had to go to hospital again yesterday, she has to stay. Now they think it must be something else than they first told her that was...
wrong. Well I hope so bc what they first said made it pretty sure that she'd lose her baby. I hope it all goes well!
Sorry to hear this - fingers crossed
..own. Tonight I have a first physio appointment for the pain I feel at my 'salivary gland?' It should be from my other ckeeck
*cheek, it cracks sometimes. Oh and the scoop will be operated the last day of this month. I will be stressed for that one too. Maybe I feel like a 6 today
Glad you guys talked! You're very lucky to have each other!
I hope you start the year better then!
Sounds like a really nice way to finish the year
have to work anymore this year. He loves me, I love him. I'm just not the happiest lately, hopefully that will go better in 2019. Thank for all the support on my previous posts.
Being able to cry with someone is so nice. He's there for you however you need it. It's ok you don't know what to say. I hope things improve.
Jeff is absolutely right - it's okay to not know what to say. Sounds like you've got a pretty great boyfriend .
Glad you were able to get that out, Silke. Maybe next ti
...sorry. Maybe next time you can turn to your BF sooner since seeing him be so supportive.
Big hugs Silke - thinking of you xx
..taking them because I wasn't feeling good for a while and thought maybe that would help. Last night all of a sudden I started thinking and I felt like I'm depressed again. Started thinking what I could do. Maybe I should change my psychologist..
..appointment from 28/01, to an earlier date. Maybe I can go back to the 'Paaz' it's in the hospital. People can stay there for max 6 weeks. But I'm not sure if that's needed, and people woul probably not understand. Do you 🐼 🐼 have any idea what..
...I could do? Feeling very unmotivated to look for jobs, not much of a happy mood, feeling bad that my bf has to live with me.
St. John's Wort (the hyperiforce tablet) interacts with a lot of other medications so be careful what you take it with. Other than that it works the same way as any other anti depressant so probably won't start working for another few weeks.
I hope you are feeling better soon, Silke.
I Def recommend trying to talk to someone soon
Dam enter ley
Argh, I keep hitting enter. Anyway, talk to someone. Changing your own medication is risky. Please be gentle with yourself. Accept that your bf loves you and is there for you! *big hugs*
My doctor said it was okay to try those meds. Maybe I should see a psychologist sooner but with new years and from 6 till 13the I'm on vacation. Bf and I haven't actually talked in days. I feel bad and don't know what to say and he's scared to say
something wrong I guess.
But thanks for the support.
I would be scared to. But it is important to let him be there for you. He loves you and wants to help. I know no one ever says the right thing, but his presence and caring should be comforting, I hope!
I haven't told him that I think I'm depressed again.
Big hugs Silke. Please speak to someone let them know how you feel so they can support you. It maybe that your BF is concerned but doesn't know the right words to say or whether he would cause you more upset? Just a thought.. 🤔
I'm sorry, silke. Hope the day went OK!
I survived 😀
Yay for that, Silke!
Hopefully my headache woun't be too bad. And I hope it's a bit fun tomorrow, I struggle a bit being around his family. I hope you guys are surrounded by your loved ones ❤️
Yes. Sent mine on the 17th. Only the European one is late but that should arrive in time for when they celebrate xmas on 6th January.
Nope, because we'd only send them to family due to our lack of friends.