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Not too bad.
*Hugs*
Hiya Silke! I'm sleepy. Bunches of meetings today means I didn't get much done. Trying to get my energy up to go run this afternoon! How are you?
Meh...:)
Overall pretty good (excluding throwing up - messed up appetite) - how about you?
Mixed bag for a mixed episode. Hope you are well, Silke. xx
Yes I'm doing okay, thank you.
Hope you all have a good day today!
I ask that a lot...
And now he's living his perfectly dreamy life and I can't stand it! I know that's cruel of me. I'm sorry.
A normal reaction I think. One I'd also have. I think it'd do you good to talk about it though, maybe with a professional. Or try writing it all down, as often as you need to, and hopefully it'll get easier with time.
Hang in there, Silke. These feelings will eventually pass but I do know it's so hard.
Tanks pandas
We don't HAVE to be 'productive' to be happy. Don't let guilt for not doing something you think you should be doing make you feel worse! Sometimes, we just have to get through days. Things that have to get done will get done.
Guess your right Jeff.
girlfriend is jealous every time we post something bc we look like the perfect couple. Tha's what social media does to people, it makes them jealous. Bc everything LOOKS perfect..
You only see a little part of someone's life, always remember that...! That's why I kept my personal Instagram verry small enough don't have fb. It made me just more unhappy than I was.
Yeah, that's why I try to avoid those kinds of social media accounts. You can't help but envy people's perfect image, and you forget that it's far from reality. It's fun to take and post those images though!
For some reason he (+ his parents, bc he asked them to) kept it secret for my bf for over a month. I dissagree with the reason why and I'm dissapointed bc i thought there bond was better than that. Also his brother didn't apologize but he did tell my
bf that he understand now why he was spending so much time with me when we got together. I have a lot of frustration arround this situation. I talked about it with my boyfriend. There were things he didn't see right away, but he thought i was right
on those things. So with some things he confronted his brother and the rest he's just letting be. He can easely leave things in the past. For me it's more difficult. But my boyfriend knows that and I said it'll take time. I pretty much forgot that
his brother ones made him chose, but now it came all up again, so that makes it a bit diffuct, but it'ill pass in time. Also told my boyfriend that. I wish I could share all my thoughts on this situation on here, but that would be to much.
It's keeping me busy and sometimes emotional, but i'll get better i guess..
Sounds like the brother is getting good perspective at least and maybe will be more understanding? At least that experience is in the past, and your bf did choose you without eliminating his brother from his life entirely!
All true Jeff!
remember our mind plays tricks on us <3
He's had his entire life to know all of his own family's issues. Your family is different! It's a good thing that he's happy with you and your family!
I know he's staying with me for me, but sometimes I have verry short moments that I think like that. I'm happy he likes it with me and my family.
I sometimes think my BF stays with me just because he feels sorry for me. Those unwanted thoughts suck!
Congratulations to your parents - that's a big achievement. Along with raising some really nice kids :)
Thank you Cindy!
Ah, good luck! Hope they're able to help you find something good!
Hope it was useful - I've had really good support