Have a good weekend Silke
You too Cindy!
the day okay. Gonna do some little chores now. A 5,5 I think.
he'll do that. Yesterday talking to my boyfriend, that I'm curious how his brother will act towards me when he first sees me again. But apparently bf told him he wants him to apologise towards me. Curious how that'll go.
That's good! I hope he does. It would be a nice gesture, and really sweet that your bf told him to.
What happend a week ago can get me verry sad all of a sudden, can make me doubt, makes me more insecure, bf doesn't like me being insecure. So far he can deal with it I think. I told him it'll take a bit of time and I think he understands that.
Of course it'll take time to trust him again and to make the pain stop. That's only normal, but I hope you'll emerge stronger after this.
Lots of love, Silke xx
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apologise towards me, instead he's hiding. Curious how long that will take and how he will act towards me when he'll face me again.
The part that my bf chooses is, it's kinda amazing. Think it's must have been a difficult decision, probably why first let go of me. He makes me feel worthy, even makes me emotional. I feel like he completes me, he learns me new things. I hope it
lasts between us, cause I truly love him I guys. I'm so looking forward to our weekend. Feel like I'm forgiving him pretty good for what happened. Sometimes I can be a bit sad when I think about it, or I make a comment about one of the things that ha
happend. But he has to deal with that, it'll go away in time.
Your bf has to chose his own path. Sometimes it means going against family. & You can't change who your family is. If your bf faces you you must find out why he thinks you are unworthy. Is it status, beauty, or ?? Hopefully it's not shallow
You said, I believe, that you are his first significant relationship? Perhaps he's struggling to determine how best to behave and change his life...patience is important, though I know you've been very patient so far. I know he'll choose you!
To be clear he chose me. And yes Jeff I'm his first real relationship. His brother is coming around a bit toward my bf. But he did not expect that my bf would choose for me. So guess he now dislikes me even more. But who cares. As long as my bf and
I are happy.
Really hope things work out, Silke - he's a lucky guy!
Yes, definitely. As long as you guys are happy! I'm glad that you chose each other. :)
Hope the days off help you recharge and relax!
Think I might call in sick tomorrow morning and go to the doctor, see what he said, if he's okay with writing me sick.
Do you guys remember how happy I used to be at this job when I started it?
I remember the optimism and excitement! Work is hard...it's where we spend a good portion of our day and our creative and intellectual energy. To do so in a difficult environment impacts the rest of our lives. I've been there too...
Sounds like talking to your doctor is a good idea. Maybe talk to your boss? You may have already...but sometimes it helps to tell them you're unhappy and see if there's an opportunity to make it easier... otherwise, all you can do is keep
looking for something new and try to find outlets outside of work for that positive energy. *Big hugs*
I hope the doctor can help you get back on your feet. Work can be so stressful sometimes, so make sure you take care of yourself!
What can say to my boss Jeff, I find there are not enough clients on my agenda, it makes me unhappy and doesn't give me satisfaction anymore? What can she say? Clients are staying away, her prices are too high. You mean well Jeff, but I don't option
I hope so too Anna. Thanks everyone
I see what you mean, Silke. Maybe there are other tasks you can do in between? Probably not... Sorry.
I'm sorry. I remember your optimism yes but maybe this is the sign you need to find something new. Its not ok if your work makes you feel less about yourself.
Yes there are Jeff, but I'm tired of doing them. I have to do more other tasks than what is my main job. I want to do pedicures, manicures, facials, massages,..
Know the feeling, get that all the time
Yeah, insecurity is tough, but normal. I always recommend honest talk. Let the other person know you're insecure, so they can help reassure you.
I have difficulty talking when I'm insecure. But he saw I was insecure by my behavior, and then he tries to make me feel comfortable so I can do what I was too insecure about. Guess I felt a bit ashamed too, but we managed. It's difficult ha 🐼
Life is never a dull moment!
interview bc I don't know anything about it.
Great to see some green again! xx
It is immature. MAybe he feels threathened cause his brother is seeing you and that means less time for him? I can help you with your CV as well.
And bf hasn't got relationship experience yet, he was a friends with benefits kinda guy. And apparently he didn't communicate enough. But I hope we can work it out. He showes in so many ways that he made the wrong decision. Yesterday he would even ha
have gone to the psychologist with me if I wanted to?? I thought about it and said I want this time to go alone and next time he can come. So I told my psychologist and she found it verry positive. It's a whole thing with his brother, I was not
welcome there anymore and this morning he called my bf to say that I can stay the night during weekdays but in the weekend he wants rest. It took me a while before bf got a kiss from me, let him spent the night. Tonight I'm going to his place. Probab
probably will see his brother for the first time after all of this, not sure how I'll reach on it. But told bf I just want to watch TV in the bedroom (don't want to see his brother yet, too early). This are only little parts of the story not sure it
matters to other people, but I just hope you understand my decision. Psychologist is sure he didn't want to break up with me. It was just pressure of his brother, frustrations he didn't talk about and no relationship experience, he admitted he might
freaked a bit bc thing are getting settled.
I understand...it's hard to be in a relationship, especially with no real relationship experience. Even then, every relationship is different. It's not always 1+1=2. You fit with a different person differently... I've messed things up by being stupid
or freaking out. I think giving him another chance and time to figure things out is really positive! I'm glad the psychologist was able to give you advice too!
I'm happy for you. Your psychologist sounds good. As long as you and bf keep talking about how you feel and work with each other to make sure you're both ok, you'll be fine. 👍
Vervelend deze situatie als je wil praten kan je me altijd appen! xx
Sorry to hear that Jeff, thanks everyone!