ouch that IS painful. you don't deserve that after your work. big hug
Would be hard not to feel used in that situation. :( But like you said, people aren't mind readers, and his intentions may have been completely different...
I expect BF to read my mind all the time & because of that, I think I need to read his mind when I DEFINITELY don't because he strictly says what he means & means what he says. It's hard.
I know. I confuse myself all the time. xx
Told me he loved me and won't be long - I'm just too nice n said it was ok but really I hoped he would have said he'd rather stay at home n spend time with me - now I feel I'm in a rage n will go
Mad at him when he comes home - but I'm learning people aren't mind readers and I should tell them how I really feel in the first place rather than convinced him it's ok n I don't mind him going out for aslong as he wants :(
Mad when he gets back for leaving me in the first place - he did say he didn't want to :( but I said I was just going to go to sleep anyway so I'd rather him stay out n enjoy his night - I confuse myself :(
Thanks Jeff - one of my loyal panda friends - I appreciate your hugs and advice you've gave me after my return x
I'm sorry, Mandy :(
I'm sorry to hear that. My experience was totally out of the ordinary, but it was still hard.
Thank you all for hugs and comments during a difficult time I'm facing alone xx
You've got me Twinny Pop! If you are on Instagram, I'll give you my name & we can private message on there. Or I can give you my FB link from IG & we can use Messenger. 💖
Is that about how you currently feel Mandy? Perhaps not related to him. Woulld be a shame if in a few days you want thw relationship again
^That's very true.
I think it is Noel because I spent some more time with him and felt ok with him around - but I told him to go and see his friend this evening because the feeling came back again. Maybe it's not helping that I've not took my meds for a week now. :/
Yes that could explain a lot. Are there other areas of your life where your feelings have changed?
I know what you mean, lovey Dovey can be too much. Especially when the person doesn't leave you your personal space and violates boundaries...
I know what you mean! I've met someone new recently but sure I can handle it. One moment you feel fine with and the next.. It's all too much. Big hug panda friend!
Haha oh no! Luxury problem? it can be too much sometimes. feels like suffocating.
Thanks my dear panda friends so it's not just me that feels this way sometimes - I feel I've gone from a lovely caring girlfriend to a mean, horrible monster lol x
Ah well it's never good isn't it. If I am single I want a partner if I have a partner I'm getting frustrated by someone liking me this much. I just can't believe it. But I think your feeling will pass soon so you can enjoy it!! 😘
Welcome back. I've been less active in here, too xx
Hey Binky - lovely to hear from you my dear Panda 🐼 friend xxxx