Accepting this, he has softened tremendously and I reminded him why I fell in love with him. Not because he had a job (he didn't) or was responsible (he wasn't then) but because he is spiritual and intelligent, creative and determined. I know we need
money for us and our son and to move back out of my crazy moms house (she has had another severe panic attack resulting in hospitalization tonight but let her loose because it was not a heart attack after all, also due to stress of her mom dying and
an alcohol problem in combination with a histamine disorder and multiple personalities) but I know what to do now. My husband has shouldered the responsibility of our family by himself for too long. We will apply for subsidized child-care for low
income families so we can BOTH work full-time and get our own place again, pack money into savings and follow our creative endeavors (my writing, his indie game designing) and open up to our inner truths and selves again. Nothing is worth losing your
soul. I am glad my husband remembers he has one and it is once again a new chapter in our lives that we have no other option but to follow.
How beautiful it is to hear your perspective. Wishing you light and love x
So, so wonderful! That was beautifully put. Wishing your family happiness & success!
Yet he keeps dissing my cousin, doesn't like me talking to him and is now acting pissy and I just can't fathom why. It's really obnoxious. He even asked if I was obsessed with my cousin now because we've been chatting online the passed few days.
And he just left and slammed the door. WTH?????
Oh, how interesting. I have a female cousin who is married, her husband always acts strange towards me (she's like a sister to me ffs). Ive always *felt* as if he saw me as a threat but dismissed it. Maybe I was right :/
It's so weird and I'm just done with his jealousy, you know?
What do they think is going to happen?
Exactly :/ Apparently this sort of thing was acceptable in the 40's or something (dating and marrying cousins). It's DEFINITELY not acceptable these days. I guess it's some sort of primal response that they aren't questioning or applying any logic to
Very strange! Yeah I think it's very rare nowadays for people to get with their cousins. I guess his insecurity is so strong, it wouldn't have much logic to it!
like. Yesterday we had 'so much money' now he says we don't have enough for a pack of cigarettes and expects to get them in 5 days. WTF So tired of his bad communication, insecurity issues and belittling comments.
Sounds kinda like my BF. Things have gotten a bit better than they used to, but it's still bad. I mostly just accept it & act like it's normal. I find my happiness elsewhere. Hope things improve for you soon. <3
Hi Courtney. So good to see you back on here. Sorry I don't have any advice about your husband at the moment. x
I try to find happiness elsewhere but he doesn't like it when I do. Thanks Manda and Binky c.c
Mine TELLS me where to find my happiness. I'm not cool with that.
Yeah mine does too. He'll be like 'You're fine, it'll be better when you - or when we-' and I'm like, you really don't get it, do you?
What did she do? Hope you are okay x
Sorry to read this, Courtney. Are you ok? xx
I'm not okay.
What's wrong? *big hugs*
*hugs back Manda* <3
Hope you see positive results!
I've got one of those too. =( xx
No!!! I need you to exist! <3 xx
Thanks Manda. :) Sorry I haven't been around. I think the whole sky is falling down this April.
Missed you, Courtney! Hope you get well soon. <3
Hey Courtney x
Thanks Manda. :D I missed you too. I've been so busy. Staying in bed today. Thankfully my son is with his aunt and grandma. :)
Holler Binky ;)
Hey, hope everything's good with you and your little one :-)