A good cry always helps :-)
I don't have a problem with him going out with his friends. I have a problem with unjustice. If he steps up for his friends then he should step up for me too. We haven't created any memories together this summer...
We will meet on Saturday. I won't tell him that I know about his trip. Just going to watch how he acts, going to nod listening to how tired he is and how he hasnt done anything lately.. Taking popcorn with me to this show maybe...
Friendly communication with him also brings me peace today
I liked the file idea :)
Thank you :) those written thoughts are also divided into subcategories like thankfulness, self-esteem and specific topics i worry about.
This is a good idea 😊 I've been toying with the idea of a list of things to remind myself when I'm feeling down... Sometimes those things get lost in the murkiness.
Yes, it's hard to access 'the other side of the story' in the brain when feeling down.
Tired, triggered my his passivness, bad self talk. Sleep will make everything better.
Wise approaches. Sleep is the human equivalent of switching the power button off and on again.
So true :)
Although saw him hl
yesterday, already feel a bit sad facing what our situation has become
I expect more,i care more, i miss more, but it's wasted energy and stress.
I dont even know what happened... Situation has always been that bad or even worse.. Maybe my strength just ended. Maybe time happened. It's already been too long and every day is just agony.
Got a chance to ramble a lot, it helps me just to say things out loud and have someone listening.
How are you getting on at pole?
You remember :D cool. I only tried once, classes are too expensive for me right now, maybe will try again in autumn
I kno. I too find the classes expensive, but I'm seeing results already:)
I am mad at myself for this OCD-like emotional behaviour. No one is holding a gun to my head. It's my choice to be in this situation.
Somehow i can't get over of those childhood fears that people can disappear from my life, that i can be so alone or forgotten, not special enough... Those fears and bad self talk keep me in this unhealthy situation.
It takes a lot of time and work to get over those fears and bad self-talk. I haven't gotten over it yet. But you say that you decided. You should take action on that decision and move on!
Same here, And the same fears that keep me in an unhealthy situation. I really hope you'll think about yourself. What do you deserve in life? (more..)I try to learn from my unhealthy situation what I do want in the next partner.
Good to see.
Thank you sweet pandas :)
Great to see green
Thank you :)