It's easy to for me to say, not being involved, but personally I'd stay away, yes, he might be charming, but he's got cheating form, if he cheats on her, he wouldn't think twice about maybe cheating on you too. There are better people out there.
Try and get as much advice as you can to compare against how you feel. It's a difficult situation. Don't blame yourself if he made you feel bad.
You will find someone else don't sorry.
Embracing and integrating the emotions is a worthwhile pursuit. Banishing, suppressing or exiling emotions we dont like, by contrast, often brings more suffering.
Thank you 💗
I'm so sorry for your loss. The fact that you loved her so much tells me she must have been grand. She'll always be in your heart. Sending you love and strength through your grief. <3
I hope u do <3