But she has a mom! And you have her! That's a lot :)
Yes, she has you and you have her!
He may change when he learns you're pregnant (happens sometimes).
Please don't, you can get help, you will find some1 who is right for you, and things will get better.
In your last post you didn't have the hope you need to keep going, whether we have hope or not is OUR choice, even if its subconscious we tell ourselves if we have hope or not. Just like our actions and our mood, it is ultimately our choice.
So when you say you don't have hope, you are giving up. Hope keep's us going, but we decide whether we do or don't have it. Having hope also takes practice. Have thick skin, don't let things get to you and make you do rash things.
If we wake up with the glass half full mindset, then nothing can stop us, but if we wake up and already give up without even knowing what is in store for us, that sets us up for failure.
Another thing you can do(if you believe in god) is pray. You should also come up with 3 things that are positive and keep track of them, you can even post them and/or use them as evidence to show yourself when you believe nothing has ever gone right
No, please no!!!!!
Please don't give up!!!!
Thanks so much everyone
No you have a child who relies on you. Push through this, eventually some1 will see you. Keep going.
I've been single 12 years and no one sees me. It's hopeless. I'm invisible
But you matter. You have a life to live, a child to raise. You could treat her better than any1 has treated you, if you don't like your life atleast stick around to be a part of theirs.
37 yo is not the end of your life. You'll find the right guy, don't worry. Try to find friends at first, someone you have something in common. Usually the love of one's life is a friend...
When you want to end it, think about your daughter. She can be a reason to live, can't she?
Yes my daughter is lovely but because I'm a single mom I can't achieve any dreams and can never date.
Being single doesn't hold you back, it's you mindset. Change your attitude, even though no1 is dating you right now that just gives you time to spend with your daughter. The glass is either half empty or half full, you need to look at things from a
I've been single my whole life
I know that must suck but push through it. Look, there are alot of men out there that you can choose from, and if they don't appreciate you than that is cruel, but sometimes 'no' love is better than fake love.
I've been thru alot myself, I'm 14 and have been raped multiple times, am currently being bullied, have depression, anxiety and ibs. But I keep on trying, I believe you can do it just have hope.
So please, if you aren't willing to live for yourself, atleast live for your daughter.
Sending love, big hugs, and support. ❤🤗👍👌
No one understands how awful this feels
Thanks Xavier...I'm very sorry to hear what you've been through 💗 you're an inspiration to me
I do in my own way, but its not even the dating part for me, its not having friends in general. Can totally relate. *big hugs*
I've never had a boyfriend, because no one I know wants to date a girl with the Asperger syndrome. My mood was really low because of it. Now I still don't have a boyfriend, I try to not think about it and to be happy of anything I have.
Please don't give up!
*Hugs* *Hugs* *Hugs* *Hugs*
Thanks 💗 sorry to hear that Anna. Seinfeld the comedian says he has Aspergers and it took him a while but he has relationships
I'm so sorry...
Abusers tend to do that, I mean, they need to abuse right? They, well, maybe not like it, but can't live without it. That's my understanding. Hope something changes for you soon.
That's terrible :( But maybe counseling is not a bad idea? We could all use it. It's not going to change your mom but it might help you cope.
Just remember that God loves us all no matter what, and he has a good life planned for you... Don't let this hold you back, try to move on.
It's really stupid of her. You are worth living, don't forget!
That is very terrible and heartless of her to do to you. you deserve happiness, you deserve love, and you definitely deserve and are worth living. I am so sorry this is happening to you. Us pandas are happy you are alive! Big hugs
Is there anyone you can reach out to? Is there anywhere else you can go to get away from them?
I'm so sorry about it. They're stupid.
sorry you feel such grief. A unvoluntarily childless friend of mine told me she has found comfort in thinking about other ways of giving love and support to the next generation
37 is not old. You can fall in love at any age, and wrt family, there are plenty of non traditional ways of doing this
I'm feeling intense grief that I never even had a chance to gry
*try to have a family with anyone. I feel like it's game over and am so down and hopeless
Very understandable that you need to grieve. And perhaps harder to grieve a loss over something that never was? All the best.
People are so idiotic! They never see what is on the inside, they only care about the outside. If people don't see how amazing you are, then they are straight up blind!
Some people just don't realize that hurting somebody's feelings can lead to harm to people all over the world.