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1 D M
17 Oct 2018 ·
Feeling like a freak and ***al - I don't belong here and will never be happy
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17 Oct 2018 ·

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1 D M
17 Oct 2018 ·
A friend my age is staying with me and has a boyfriend. It's killing me because I feel like I'll always be single. I am so depressed because no one likes me or ever will. I don't connect with anyone
Alicia B
17 Oct 2018 ·

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0 D M
05 Oct 2018 ·
Wish I had killed myself tonight
me M
05 Oct 2018 ·

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Jeff M
05 Oct 2018 ·

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05 Oct 2018 ·

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Xavier M
05 Oct 2018 ·

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Xavier M
05 Oct 2018 ·

Please don't, you can get help, you will find some1 who is right for you, and things will get better.

Xavier M
05 Oct 2018 ·

In your last post you didn't have the hope you need to keep going, whether we have hope or not is OUR choice, even if its subconscious we tell ourselves if we have hope or not. Just like our actions and our mood, it is ultimately our choice.

Xavier M
05 Oct 2018 ·

So when you say you don't have hope, you are giving up. Hope keep's us going, but we decide whether we do or don't have it. Having hope also takes practice. Have thick skin, don't let things get to you and make you do rash things.

Xavier M
05 Oct 2018 ·

If we wake up with the glass half full mindset, then nothing can stop us, but if we wake up and already give up without even knowing what is in store for us, that sets us up for failure.

Xavier M
05 Oct 2018 ·

Another thing you can do(if you believe in god) is pray. You should also come up with 3 things that are positive and keep track of them, you can even post them and/or use them as evidence to show yourself when you believe nothing has ever gone right

Anna D
05 Oct 2018 ·

No, please no!!!!!

Anna D
05 Oct 2018 ·

Please don't give up!!!!

D M
06 Oct 2018 ·

Thanks so much everyone

tEnT S
06 Oct 2018 ·

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06 Oct 2018 ·

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06 Oct 2018 ·

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0 D M
05 Oct 2018 ·
Don't want to live anymore. Don't have the hope I need to keep going
Bipolar Bear .
05 Oct 2018 ·

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05 Oct 2018 ·

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1 D M
04 Oct 2018 ·
I don't want to live anymore because no one in my city will date a single mom over 35. I've never had a relationship and am 37. Someone please give me hope or I'll end things
Xavier M
04 Oct 2018 ·

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Xavier M
04 Oct 2018 ·

No you have a child who relies on you. Push through this, eventually some1 will see you. Keep going.

D M
04 Oct 2018 ·

I've been single 12 years and no one sees me. It's hopeless. I'm invisible

Anna D
04 Oct 2018 ·

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Xavier M
04 Oct 2018 ·

But you matter. You have a life to live, a child to raise. You could treat her better than any1 has treated you, if you don't like your life atleast stick around to be a part of theirs.

Xavier M
04 Oct 2018 ·

her/him*

Anna D
04 Oct 2018 ·

37 yo is not the end of your life. You'll find the right guy, don't worry. Try to find friends at first, someone you have something in common. Usually the love of one's life is a friend...

Anna D
04 Oct 2018 ·

When you want to end it, think about your daughter. She can be a reason to live, can't she?

Natalie C
04 Oct 2018 ·

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D M
05 Oct 2018 ·

Yes my daughter is lovely but because I'm a single mom I can't achieve any dreams and can never date.

Xavier M
05 Oct 2018 ·

Being single doesn't hold you back, it's you mindset. Change your attitude, even though no1 is dating you right now that just gives you time to spend with your daughter. The glass is either half empty or half full, you need to look at things from a

Xavier M
05 Oct 2018 ·

positive perspective

D M
05 Oct 2018 ·

I've been single my whole life

Xavier M
05 Oct 2018 ·

I know that must suck but push through it. Look, there are alot of men out there that you can choose from, and if they don't appreciate you than that is cruel, but sometimes 'no' love is better than fake love.

Xavier M
05 Oct 2018 ·

I've been thru alot myself, I'm 14 and have been raped multiple times, am currently being bullied, have depression, anxiety and ibs. But I keep on trying, I believe you can do it just have hope.

Xavier M
05 Oct 2018 ·

So please, if you aren't willing to live for yourself, atleast live for your daughter.

Xavier M
05 Oct 2018 ·

Sending love, big hugs, and support. ❤🤗👍👌

D M
05 Oct 2018 ·

No one understands how awful this feels

D M
05 Oct 2018 ·

Thanks Xavier...I'm very sorry to hear what you've been through 💗 you're an inspiration to me

Xavier M
05 Oct 2018 ·

I do in my own way, but its not even the dating part for me, its not having friends in general. Can totally relate. *big hugs*

Xavier M
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Anna D
05 Oct 2018 ·

I've never had a boyfriend, because no one I know wants to date a girl with the Asperger syndrome. My mood was really low because of it. Now I still don't have a boyfriend, I try to not think about it and to be happy of anything I have.

Anna D
05 Oct 2018 ·

Please don't give up!

Anna D
05 Oct 2018 ·

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D M
06 Oct 2018 ·

Thanks 💗 sorry to hear that Anna. Seinfeld the comedian says he has Aspergers and it took him a while but he has relationships

tEnT S
06 Oct 2018 ·

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1 D M
27 Sep 2018 ·
I have no help with childcare. I'm raising a kid all on my own with no ex and no help. No money, no family, no one will ever date me because I'm a mom. I dream of dying because can't see way out
Catalina R
27 Sep 2018 · NEW

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30 Sep 2018 ·

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04 Oct 2018 ·

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1 D M
27 Sep 2018 ·
I'm very angry that my doctor cousin isn't standing up to my mom about the severe abuse. I told her it was making me ***al and she brushed it off
Catalina R
27 Sep 2018 · NEW

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Anna D
27 Sep 2018 ·

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Anna D
27 Sep 2018 ·

I'm so sorry...

Alicia B
27 Sep 2018 ·

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Alicia B
27 Sep 2018 ·

Abusers tend to do that, I mean, they need to abuse right? They, well, maybe not like it, but can't live without it. That's my understanding. Hope something changes for you soon.

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28 Sep 2018 · NEW

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30 Sep 2018 ·

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1 D M
27 Sep 2018 ·
I emailed my cousin who's a doctor to tell her my family was severely abusing me. That my mom told me every month just to jump off a bridge. She didn't believe me and told me to go for counseling
Catalina R
27 Sep 2018 · NEW

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27 Sep 2018 ·

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27 Sep 2018 ·

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Alicia B
27 Sep 2018 ·

That's terrible :( But maybe counseling is not a bad idea? We could all use it. It's not going to change your mom but it might help you cope.

Zoe B
28 Sep 2018 · NEW

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30 Sep 2018 ·

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1 D M
21 Sep 2018 ·
The child abuse I went through was horrific. I will never heal. My mom has turned everyone in my family against me. She says I'm a monster and wants me to die
Xavier M
21 Sep 2018 ·

Just remember that God loves us all no matter what, and he has a good life planned for you... Don't let this hold you back, try to move on.

Bipolar Bear .
21 Sep 2018 ·

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21 Sep 2018 ·

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D M
21 Sep 2018 ·

Thanks all

Anna D
21 Sep 2018 ·

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Anna D
21 Sep 2018 ·

It's really stupid of her. You are worth living, don't forget!

Bipolar Bear .
21 Sep 2018 ·

That is very terrible and heartless of her to do to you. you deserve happiness, you deserve love, and you definitely deserve and are worth living. I am so sorry this is happening to you. Us pandas are happy you are alive! Big hugs

Bipolar Bear .
21 Sep 2018 ·

Is there anyone you can reach out to? Is there anywhere else you can go to get away from them?

D M
22 Sep 2018 ·

No

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1 D M
17 Sep 2018 ·
My family hasn't talked to me since I was in the hospital and reached out to them because I was depressed. They blame me for having this and think I'm worthless
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17 Sep 2018 ·

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1 D M
16 Sep 2018 ·
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16 Sep 2018 ·

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0 D M
15 Sep 2018 ·
Every one of my family members have cut me out due to depression. I feel completely alone. My friends now ignore me too
Henriette S
15 Sep 2018 ·

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15 Sep 2018 ·

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Anna D
16 Sep 2018 ·

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Anna D
16 Sep 2018 ·

I'm so sorry about it. They're stupid.

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0 D M
15 Sep 2018 ·
I can't get out of bed today. I spend every Saturday in bed crying Because I'm 37 and will likely never have a chance to have a family with someone or a relationship. Men have been awful to me
Lauren H
15 Sep 2018 · NEW

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1 D M
15 Sep 2018 ·
I don't want to live anymore because I'm 37 and have never had a relationship and will likely never have a family with anyone. No one will ever date me.
nixiblu .
15 Sep 2018 ·

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Henriette S
15 Sep 2018 ·

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Henriette S
15 Sep 2018 ·

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Henriette S
15 Sep 2018 ·

sorry you feel such grief. A unvoluntarily childless friend of mine told me she has found comfort in thinking about other ways of giving love and support to the next generation

nixiblu .
15 Sep 2018 ·

37 is not old. You can fall in love at any age, and wrt family, there are plenty of non traditional ways of doing this

Jeff M
15 Sep 2018 ·

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D M
15 Sep 2018 ·

I'm feeling intense grief that I never even had a chance to gry

D M
15 Sep 2018 ·

*try to have a family with anyone. I feel like it's game over and am so down and hopeless

Henriette S
15 Sep 2018 ·

Very understandable that you need to grieve. And perhaps harder to grieve a loss over something that never was? All the best.

nixiblu .
15 Sep 2018 ·

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Charly P
15 Sep 2018 · NEW

People are so idiotic! They never see what is on the inside, they only care about the outside. If people don't see how amazing you are, then they are straight up blind!

Charly P
15 Sep 2018 · NEW

Some people just don't realize that hurting somebody's feelings can lead to harm to people all over the world.

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15 Sep 2018 · NEW

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0 D M
15 Sep 2018 ·
Feeling awful.
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15 Sep 2018 ·

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15 Sep 2018 ·

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0 D M
15 Sep 2018 ·
I need hope that it's people to have a real life and family with someone too. Or I won't be here anymore. Life in my city is awful for me, I'm 37 and Hoepless
Charlotte W
15 Sep 2018 ·

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0 D M
14 Sep 2018 ·
I need to find $15,000 to freeze My eggs. It's the only thing that would give me hope
me M
14 Sep 2018 ·

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14 Sep 2018 ·

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14 Sep 2018 ·

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14 Sep 2018 ·

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0 D M
13 Sep 2018 ·
I am unlovable and have been single for 11 years. There's nothing I can do to find someone. No one likes me or will ever date me
tEnT S
13 Sep 2018 ·

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13 Sep 2018 ·

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14 Sep 2018 ·

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0 D M
13 Sep 2018 ·
I am unlovable and have been single for 11 years. There's nothing I can do to find someone. No one likes me or will ever date me
tEnT S
13 Sep 2018 ·

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1 D M
10 Sep 2018 ·
I feel ***al because I'm raising a kid all on my own with no partner and no family. I have no help. No one will ever date me either, I've been single 11 years and lonely
Manda P
10 Sep 2018 ·

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Manda P
10 Sep 2018 ·

*big hugs* I hope some kind of fortune comes your way soon. If you're feeling ***al, you need call a helpline right away.

tEnT S
10 Sep 2018 ·

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D M
10 Sep 2018 ·

Thanks mania

D M
10 Sep 2018 ·

*manda sorry

Kara L
11 Sep 2018 ·

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Kara L
11 Sep 2018 ·

Please get help if you're feeling ***al. And someone will love you, there's someone out there for everyone. You won't be alone forever. Xx

D M
13 Sep 2018 ·

I wish that was true. If I knew I didn't have to spend my whole fertile years alone, I'd want to live

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