Wish I could offer more than a few words of encouragement and empathy.
It's hard when the love of your life just gives up. Walks out on you and 3 kids. Only thinking of himself. Every one keeps asking is there someone else. I don't think so.
So sorry to hear that Steph. I do not know how anyone can just walk out. I would give literally anything to be able to be back with my wife and children :(
I know it, Steph. Similar situation. I used to tell X that marriage was a vehicle for spiritual.growth. If this is true, divorce is the advanced curriculum.
3 kids, too.
Yep it sucks. My sister says He just wants to be free talk to as many women hw likes without explaining himself. Because he knows it's wrong. And being married and having 3 kids is too much he'd rather spend time with other people apart from us😢
It's heartbreaking when your kids just want their daddy home and cry every night. They know their mummy wants Daddy to come home but he just doesn't want to.
similar situation. I can empathize. My X is now 'in love' with a pothead. She gambled it all away for the illusion of happiness. Let's see how long this delusion lasts before karma comes to collect its debt.
So sorry! Amd you have to pick up the pieces. ❤️
My grandad died on Grandparents day
I really hope you are okay xxx
❤️ that is harsh. Are you okay?
Situations like this are fire. We can use this fire for spiritual transformation, the way ore is purified to make steel.
Thanks everyone, I am terrible he just walked out won't give me a chance to fix anything. I Have little kids to provide for i feel so lost and completely broken😭
Kael life is *** atm.
Sending you lots of love ❤️
Sorry about that! ❤️
I'm not sure what the situation is but it's likely he just said it out of anger 🤗
If he's just said it once it's probably a quick fire reaction.... hope you're ok x
Thanks Janine and Jill he told ne before he doesn't hate me he was just pissed off with me. I am bit of a mess with all thus tension between us 😢
He's probably just said it out of anger. Hate is such a strong word that people use when their angry, I'm sure he didn't mean it x
Just take it easy and take care of yourself and your kind. It's horrible when things are said wrongfully and they really hurt. It'll take time to recover. That's ok and expected. Here if you need to talk x
Thanks Jill x
Just anger likely
I'm so sorry to hear that - sending you lots of love xxx
You're strong and you have everything you need in yourself.
It's going to be a difficult time for u but i hope u have a great support system in friends and family. If not u have us❤️
My x wifes divorce was finalized 6 months ago. She betrayed me and my family. You have my empathy and support.
Thanks everyone means alot. We were having relationship counseling only 2 sessions tho he didn't like how they went and he thinks there is no point going as he has made his decision to leave.
Sounds like my X. Happiness is an inside job
but the thinking is: if I change my conditions, then I'll be happy. The illusion lasts for a few years, then its back to facing oneself.
Thanks Tasha, at least I know someone is thinking of me.
Next ten years it's Aunty's job to teach kiddo what 'cool' is, after that he'll tell you!
Yep i love being an Aunty; can't wait for cuddles tho he is in special care atm.