Victoria stand back and breathe deeply. If a friend has deleted you without giving you an explanation or a chance of you giving an explanation of what you MAY & I stress MAY or may-not have done
Then she's not really worthy of your friendship to start with is she? Please don't panic. I know have done this myself only a few weeks ago cos I offended someone 'a friend' at work because I had an extended bout of mania but even when I tried to
Explain my illness they would nt accept my explaining and just think I was being an arse & that really made me cry (at work) because I didn't know I was having a manic episode until too late & now they have blanked me & snubbed me. Take care big hugs
Please take care Victoria and try not to worry or panic. You're a lovely person so remind yourself that
In addition to Stephen's wise words, I'll add that social media is not real life...even if it feels so important. People do stupid things online, but it's not that important. Life gets better when you minimize social media (except here).
Jeff: Hear Hear. I absolutely agree with your input. Social media can be as destructive to a persons life as good. Please don't let one 'deleting' destroy your self-confidence, your mental health and physical wellbeing Victoria. We are all here 4u
Thank you pandas it's so hard not to let these things affect me
I know it is. I cry cry cry at times and I am so embarrassed and ashamed of doing this being a 49 year old man but I get so upset being treated how you are. So I understand. Please take good care
Panic attacks are not fun... hope you're feeling better x
Poor you Victoria - please remember you're a very special person and you're never alone here - there's always Pandas roaming around. Take care. Big hugs
Please take really good care Victoria. I know how these spells destroy your life - I have suffered all my life but it is just a spell & it will pass. You have to be strong & look beyond how you feel at moment. Please look after yourself big hugs
I used to not mind doing such long hours as I had an amazing boyfriend to see after and he made so happy. Now I have nothing. Don't understand how much life ended up like this.
I know its hard for you because I work alot of hours too. I believe everything happens for a reason and you will find the man of your dreams but you just don't know that yet. Your life will bloom again - honestly. Big hugs
Thank you Stephen I hope so
It will. Promise
Good for you
*** your weight, it really means nothing if you're a nice person inside. Skinnybichness gives just a few extra points to attractiveness, it stops serving you at all once the conversation has started
It's what's inside of us that matters
Poor thing. I have suffered those so I know how you must really feel. Big hugs take care
Yeah, that's one big con of social media. Luckily none of my major exes are on anything strangely enough. Or at least I haven't searched for them in a long time. Set yourself a goal & then another one & then keep going until you don't want to look...
...anymore. I used to obsessively check my BF's ex's page.
That's something I had to learn the hard way, too. But please believe me that you'll feel so much better if you don't do this anymore. It's really hard in the beginning, but worth it. Try to do something else when you feel like checking social media.
I actually have this same problem. Very frustrating as I still can't stop myself from time to time. Try and keep busy. Try new things, etc. Treat yourself too. Eventually, he'll just be out of your mind completely. Should take my own advice hahaha
Thank you pandas for all the advice going to try and not look for a month that's my first goal !