...wish we did this more often.
And I mean that it FEELS that way. I don't know if those things are important or not but it FEELS like he's just trying to avoid cleaning up the house. And I want to do something else too..
Just throw away any expectations you have on him. Learn to trust him and say you love him at random times in meaniful or fun ways but not straight after he has done something you 'approve' of. He will then start to surprise you.
You have a point, Stephen! And I know that this is like 'all in my head'... learning to trust is huge work for me but I'm honestly ready to do that all work for him and for our relationship. (And have already done.)
BF once said that this girl is kind of reserved what comes to her fathers ladies. Mostly because all past relationships have ended sooner or later. Now it seems that she's ready to let me in. And that's just so great. I mean, I'm not trying to...
...replace her mother or take her mothers place in any way. I have given her time, I have been this 'another adult in the house' and it seems that it's been worth it.
Couldn't be happier. But still feeling little down and depressed.
I have been in same position wife has 2 daughters it can take a very long time as you say not tryin to take over as other parent that's when it could be difficult
Hope this is only panickdisorder or simply tiredness.
Are you on any meds? I had a MAJOR dizziness problem caused by one of my meds. Luckily a small change fixed it. Could've happened while I was driving though which is really scary. Hope you feel better soon!
Manda, good point! I have escitalopram and actually there was 2 or 3 days without it (I'm so poor at remembering to take it) and yesterday I took it (and today also! Yay, 2 days streak!), so maybe it's just because of that.
I know that I really should take it regularly, without any breaks... aaaaaand I'm getting there... baby steps, baby steps.
Good call Manda
I have alarms set on my phone so I remember to take my meds on time. Right now it's crazy because I have to do it 7 different times throughout the day!