Parenting is tough Kristen
Is there something particular that you want in life Kristin? Try to head for that
Interesting post. Seems you have clarity about your feelings and needs (one of which was clarity). But theres an unmet need that disturbs your peace of mind. Purpose maybe?
I'm sorry your experiencing this. I too struggle with staying in the present and have great problems with seeing things clearly.
George, at the moment I cant figure that out. 😨
Love, yes I meant clarity. Perhaps purpose, I just dont know what I want. Guess I want another job but cant find out what I wanna do or what it takes to get there.
Trevor, yeah its hard to just stop and be grateful about what I got. Feels like I hate to struggle with the tough parts and that it is easier to run away
So what am I doing, looking for a purpose, a new job or running away from something that I could fight for instead?
Before answering, may I ask a personal question: how
Balls - didn't mean to send that!
Q: how old are you?
I'm not sure if it'll help but I like to use an app called headspace to meditate and I find that helps me get clarity by switching off
I heard that even if you don't know the “end goal” moving can be the way to find it somewhere! If you're not happy you should change things, can be small things and I'm sure you'll see things more clearly the more positive changes you implement :) 💕
I can relate to this feeling well although I think I actually know what I want but I'm just so scared and don't see the clear way to get there and not 100 percent sure if it is what I want because it is in my imagination.. but hey! Trying baby steps
Aspie, I am 38. So this is likely to be my midlife crisis perhaps 😆
Laura, thanks for your input, I will certainly try to meditate and see what answers it will give
Kayla, thanks a lot for your sharing, perhaps you nailed it... I will concider this during my meditation and see what my inner guide has to reply
And thanks to all of you for hugs and comments. It means a lot to me.
Sorry Kaya, spelled your alias wrong in my last post, mixed upp the letters 😖
Aw that's ok, I'm glad it was helpful :))) good luck with the meditation! Your inner guide will lead you!
Kristin - best response ever!! 😂😂 indeed, it is ok to still be searching and to find oneself in our 30s. I know many people who have reported similar, including moi!!
I am sorry that your feeling so unmotivated. I am in a similar space myself. I think sometimes I think I am demotivated but I am actually scared of doing what I love in case I muck it up....
It's really hard to feel that way. I can relate to what your feeling I've been there too. I hope it gets better for you.
Anna you might be right, I will think about that posibility.
I'm sorry you feel this way. But surely, if you think about it long enough, there are things that fascinate you. Wish you a lot of strength because what you're dealing with isn't easy.
*** hormones! They are the worst, I can sing my own song. Argh. Glad you're feeling better! :)
Thanks Lydia and the rest of you for hugs. ❤️
Didn't realise I hugged twice! But still glad you're feeling better!
I feel you, but I hope the joy will come back to you soon!
I think sometimes you just have to get through these hard, joyless days. There will be joy or pleasure or at least stability in the future...But that is not every day. Every day is the hard part...
But that is so depressing Jeff.
But I hope you are right about some joy in the future. I want to be happy
I don't know if it's depressing necessarily. Every day doesn't have to be filled with joy. It would be nice if there was happiness every day, and some people appreciate that. But for some of us, just getting through the day is a big ...
I know how u feel, but i think that in the future there will be more joy for all of us
Its not that I expect every day to be joyful, but at least some days...
God, I know what you mean, but trust me, it's going to be all right. When I'm depressed, I lie to myself that it's never going to get better, but it does every time, eventually...
Thanks Emma and Toine. I guess I know this too. Thanks everyone for hugs and support. ❤️
Been doing renovations in this house for two years now. And for five years in our house before this. 😓
You have a need for beauty and order sounds like.
As someone who is also doing renovations, I hope you get it finished soon!
Thanks guys 🤗
We made it in time at least. Now at work.