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2 Wendy J
1d ·
Trying to grasp the fact mums cancer has come back tenfold. Not sure if it can be operated on or not yet. Hard to tell whether the two tumors are deep in the brain or not.
Amelia P
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Amelia P
1d ·

That's awful I wish her the very best ❀️

tEnT S
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tEnT S
1d ·

Sorry to hear that Wendy

Maite P
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Lydia R
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Cindy M
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9 Wendy J
02 Jun 2018 ·
Now that i am feeling better i am strangely starting to set standards for myself. Like not dating for a bit and spending time alone figuring out who i am.
Lydia R
02 Jun 2018 ·

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Penelope P
02 Jun 2018 ·

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Penelope P
02 Jun 2018 ·

Great attitude.

tEnT S
02 Jun 2018 ·

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Lulu S
02 Jun 2018 ·

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Mark W
02 Jun 2018 ·

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02 Jun 2018 ·

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Cindy M
02 Jun 2018 ·

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7 Wendy J
05 May 2018 ·
With uni semester finishing next week. I have decided that i am going to focus on getting my life back on track and start living my life for me and not other people.
Lydia R
05 May 2018 ·

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Anna N
05 May 2018 ·

A great attitude. You deserve to treat yourself!

Lieteke G
05 May 2018 ·

Well done! Great decision!

Penelope P
05 May 2018 ·

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2 Wendy J
24 Apr 2018 ·
Friend unfriended me because shes having a courtcase against her landlords, and i said if it falls on my exam day then i am going to have to choose the exam over her courtcase.
Zoe P
24 Apr 2018 ·

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24 Apr 2018 ·

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Lydia R
24 Apr 2018 ·

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3 Wendy J
21 Apr 2018 ·
Nothing like having your abusive ex walk past you in a mall to trigger your anxiety. Lucky my family was there and he didnt see me. It would have been much worse if he had.
Lola J
21 Apr 2018 ·

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Lydia R
21 Apr 2018 ·

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21 Apr 2018 ·

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21 Apr 2018 ·

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1 Wendy J
19 Apr 2018 ·
Job hunting and feeling so low. Nobody seems to want me to work for them despite having heaps of experience, and knowing the industry really well.
Josie C
19 Apr 2018 ·

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Josie C
19 Apr 2018 ·

That's sucks

Ray T
19 Apr 2018 · NEW

That does suck. Better luck next time.. Don't give up hope, Wendy.

Ray T
19 Apr 2018 · NEW

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Kristina M
19 Apr 2018 ·

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Cindy M
19 Apr 2018 ·

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Cindy M
19 Apr 2018 ·

I've been through that too and it's soul destroying. I did finally get work, and it was my dream job as well. Hoping for a happy ending for you too, sooner rather than later!

Wendy J
20 Apr 2018 ·

Thanks Cindy. I hope so too. I have a few interviews coming up next week, just for casual work. So i have my fingers crossed.

Josie C
08 May 2018 ·

You don't need your fingers crossed you are going to get that job you all of us pandas believe in you windy! Go get them πŸ˜‰β˜ΊοΈπŸ˜€

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6 Wendy J
12 Apr 2018 ·
Negotiated with my sister to give me a week to get my *** together, then she takes over. I know that i can do this. Getting my life together one step at a time.
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5 Wendy J
10 Apr 2018 ·
Made the conscious decision to go no contact with my parents. Realised that they treat me like dirt way too much and that their abuse is just a continuation of their emotional abuse of me as a child.
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3 Wendy J
06 Apr 2018 ·
Ugh on a family trip down the coast for my sisters birthday. Attempting to get along with a mother who treats you like something she stepped in is hard.
Viki A
06 Apr 2018 · NEW

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06 Apr 2018 ·

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06 Apr 2018 ·

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06 Apr 2018 ·

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3 Wendy J
30 Mar 2018 ·
Wish my tooth would just get super infected and fall out already. It hurts so much and I dont have $3000 to get it removed. 😯.
Penelope P
30 Mar 2018 ·

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4 Wendy J
22 Mar 2018 ·
Getting sick of it always being the one person that makes me feel crappy. I gotta stop taking on other peoples problems especially when they wont help themselves.
Jayne H
22 Mar 2018 ·

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22 Mar 2018 ·

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5 Wendy J
10 Mar 2018 ·
Moving on after being emotionally and psychologically abused is hard. I have the possiblity of a great guy waiting for me and yet i'm reluctant to take the leap.
Lisa A
10 Mar 2018 ·

Take your time what's the rush?

Odie W
10 Mar 2018 ·

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Michelle W
10 Mar 2018 ·

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5 Wendy J
09 Mar 2018 ·
Fell for the old, matching with your ex on a dating site. For some strange reason i thought things might have changed, but alas he is still just as emotionally abusive as before. Bullet dodged.
Miles W
09 Mar 2018 ·

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Michelle W
09 Mar 2018 ·

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4 Wendy J
02 Mar 2018 ·
Ugh mental Health Plan review with a new doctor because my other has gone on mat leave. I hate doctor changes, esp when it comes to mental health because some believe how you are feeling and some dont
Michelle W
02 Mar 2018 ·

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Michelle W
02 Mar 2018 ·

That sounds frustrating. I hope things go well for you.

Wendy J
03 Mar 2018 ·

Thanks Michelle W, whike i was nervous as ever before hand. The doctor i saw actually turned out to be better than expected. Shes a holistic doctor and so doesnt rely solely on on meds to treat depression and anxiety. Shes getting me onto zinc and

Wendy J
03 Mar 2018 ·

Magnesium to start with and has also ordered a blood test to see if i am vitamin deficient in other areas. She also uses diet and exercise too. She thinks with a bit of work i might not even need the meds.

Michelle W
03 Mar 2018 ·

That sounds great! Good for you! :)

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8 Wendy J
22 Feb 2018 ·
Feeling pretty good. Like life is getting back on track. Even though i have had a few setbacks i have been able to work through them and not let them get me down.
Rosie L
22 Feb 2018 ·

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Rosie L
22 Feb 2018 ·

Wendy - you're a star. Thank you for being so open, it's refreshing to read your successes tonight and has even made me feel more positive.

Michelle W
23 Feb 2018 ·

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23 Feb 2018 ·

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Wendy J
26 Feb 2018 ·

Thanks Rosie, i just been taking one day at a time and focusing on me for once. Having a good psych has helped alot to make me be able to recognise my entrenched thought patterns and disordered thinking. I have also been looking at my family and

Wendy J
26 Feb 2018 ·

Working out that alot of the behaviours and stuff i have in my family are generational. So it has given me even more momentum to chamge

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6 Wendy J
19 Feb 2018 ·
Feeling pretty good, just trying to study with an infected tooth is the pits. Hope the antibiotics will kick in soon and get the pain down to a dull roar.
Sandy T
19 Feb 2018 · NEW

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Metron A
19 Feb 2018 ·

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Michelle W
19 Feb 2018 ·

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Michelle W
19 Feb 2018 ·

So sorry. Mouth pain is the worst!

nixiblu .
19 Feb 2018 ·

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Wendy J
19 Feb 2018 ·

Thanks everyone. Yeap it is the pits. Hoping to get it removed soon. Just waiting to hear from my work wether i am working wednesday or thursday.

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3 Wendy J
15 Feb 2018 ·
Wishing my anxiety would get its *** together and stop triggering off.
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6 Wendy J
13 Feb 2018 ·
Trying to get my mood past a 5 as heading out speed dating tonight with my good friend. Not 100% sure if i am ready for the dating scene yet. But will go in support of my friend regardless.
Lieteke G
13 Feb 2018 ·

See it as a fun outing, in stead of something serious. It could be fun!

Richard E
13 Feb 2018 ·

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Jeff M
14 Feb 2018 ·

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Wendy J
14 Feb 2018 ·

I actually ended up having an awesome night Lieteke G. It was very informal speed dating, so it wasnt bogged down with all the silly questions etc. We ended up in a photo booth at the end of the night goofing around with three complete strangers.

Lieteke G
15 Feb 2018 ·

Sounds like a great night ou! Good thing you went! And you have nice pictures to remember the night πŸ˜€

Wendy J
19 Feb 2018 ·

Yeah we do Lieteke G, and it also got me back out dating again. Though i will still be super causious about it, as dont want another guy like my ex again.

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5 Wendy J
07 Feb 2018 ·
Back on campus today for final day of orientation. Feeling good that i'll have a goal to work towards in the coming years.
Zoe K
07 Feb 2018 ·

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Michelle W
07 Feb 2018 ·

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1 Wendy J
06 Feb 2018 ·
Ugh off day number 2 and i felt the urge to self harm. But did not go through with it. Its definitely a sign that my meds have stopped working again, amongst other things.
Lieteke G
06 Feb 2018 ·

You just did a huge thing a few days ago, by driving through your ex's neighbourhood. Might this be an aftereffect of that? I can imagine it made made you feel very very anxious and scared. Maybe talk to someone about it? You are doing so well, not

Lieteke G
06 Feb 2018 ·

Selfharm. You can be so proud of yourself!

Mark W
06 Feb 2018 ·

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Wendy J
06 Feb 2018 ·

Thanks Lieteke G. Yeah it could be an after effect of that, as i worked out today that i actually live in fear of bumping into him again. Also i think might be too many changes as i am changing jobs and starting uni again, this week.

Lieteke G
06 Feb 2018 ·

So many things put of your comfort zone. Well done. Living in fear takes a lot of energy. It is a shame, we can't turn it of, because most of the time the fear is much worse then when it actually happens. I promise you, it will go away, but it takes

Lieteke G
06 Feb 2018 ·

Maybe the changes is just what you need. You are completely changing your life, no bad memories lingering in your job environment. Beginning is scary, but it might be a lot of fun, or at last interesting. What are you going to study?

Wendy J
08 Feb 2018 ·

Hi Lieteke G. I'm studying a Bachelors of nursing part time.

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