That's awful I wish her the very best ❤️
Sorry to hear that Wendy
A great attitude. You deserve to treat yourself!
Well done! Great decision!
That does suck. Better luck next time.. Don't give up hope, Wendy.
I've been through that too and it's soul destroying. I did finally get work, and it was my dream job as well. Hoping for a happy ending for you too, sooner rather than later!
Thanks Cindy. I hope so too. I have a few interviews coming up next week, just for casual work. So i have my fingers crossed.
You don't need your fingers crossed you are going to get that job you all of us pandas believe in you windy! Go get them 😉☺️😀
Take your time what's the rush?
That sounds frustrating. I hope things go well for you.
Thanks Michelle W, whike i was nervous as ever before hand. The doctor i saw actually turned out to be better than expected. Shes a holistic doctor and so doesnt rely solely on on meds to treat depression and anxiety. Shes getting me onto zinc and
Magnesium to start with and has also ordered a blood test to see if i am vitamin deficient in other areas. She also uses diet and exercise too. She thinks with a bit of work i might not even need the meds.
That sounds great! Good for you! :)
Wendy - you're a star. Thank you for being so open, it's refreshing to read your successes tonight and has even made me feel more positive.
Thanks Rosie, i just been taking one day at a time and focusing on me for once. Having a good psych has helped alot to make me be able to recognise my entrenched thought patterns and disordered thinking. I have also been looking at my family and
Working out that alot of the behaviours and stuff i have in my family are generational. So it has given me even more momentum to chamge
So sorry. Mouth pain is the worst!
Thanks everyone. Yeap it is the pits. Hoping to get it removed soon. Just waiting to hear from my work wether i am working wednesday or thursday.
See it as a fun outing, in stead of something serious. It could be fun!
I actually ended up having an awesome night Lieteke G. It was very informal speed dating, so it wasnt bogged down with all the silly questions etc. We ended up in a photo booth at the end of the night goofing around with three complete strangers.
Sounds like a great night ou! Good thing you went! And you have nice pictures to remember the night 😀
Yeah we do Lieteke G, and it also got me back out dating again. Though i will still be super causious about it, as dont want another guy like my ex again.
You just did a huge thing a few days ago, by driving through your ex's neighbourhood. Might this be an aftereffect of that? I can imagine it made made you feel very very anxious and scared. Maybe talk to someone about it? You are doing so well, not
Selfharm. You can be so proud of yourself!
Thanks Lieteke G. Yeah it could be an after effect of that, as i worked out today that i actually live in fear of bumping into him again. Also i think might be too many changes as i am changing jobs and starting uni again, this week.
So many things put of your comfort zone. Well done. Living in fear takes a lot of energy. It is a shame, we can't turn it of, because most of the time the fear is much worse then when it actually happens. I promise you, it will go away, but it takes
Maybe the changes is just what you need. You are completely changing your life, no bad memories lingering in your job environment. Beginning is scary, but it might be a lot of fun, or at last interesting. What are you going to study?
Hi Lieteke G. I'm studying a Bachelors of nursing part time.