..came to help, and she and the other friend who came started discussing very personal things I knew not earlier and I felt as if I was overhearing, as I didn't say much. I don't have as much traumatic experience as they do, or I think so.
She also mentioned that perception may change a lot. Do others have traumatic experience because they think of it that way? Do I have it not because I think of the same things differently or because I have less experience?
I feel as though this friend is older than me, more mature, more experienced, though I am 3 years older (I'm 21, she's around 18).. Strange.. Am I lucky or just shallow?
I've found people who go through abuse seem older and wiser than their years suggest. Tell your friend to stay strong, and let her know she's got you to talk to if and when she needs it.
This guy sounds disappointing :/ *big hugs* xx
Rosie, the situation is very very complicated, and I do hope it will get simpler.
I hope so too!
We don't make it worse, of course. (Only we already did)
...but may blossom into friendship. :)
Love 1, I meant one person is more than friend to me, and another is his girlfriend. I'm learning to communicate with her without feeling envious.