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5 Julia L
16h ·
Strange night. Visited a friend to help her feel better, another friend came, too, we ended up discussing abusive relations and rape and smth else nearly all night long, it triggered the friend we..
Julia L
16h ·

..came to help, and she and the other friend who came started discussing very personal things I knew not earlier and I felt as if I was overhearing, as I didn't say much. I don't have as much traumatic experience as they do, or I think so.

Julia L
16h ·

She also mentioned that perception may change a lot. Do others have traumatic experience because they think of it that way? Do I have it not because I think of the same things differently or because I have less experience?

Julia L
16h ·

I feel as though this friend is older than me, more mature, more experienced, though I am 3 years older (I'm 21, she's around 18).. Strange.. Am I lucky or just shallow?

John T
16h ·

I've found people who go through abuse seem older and wiser than their years suggest. Tell your friend to stay strong, and let her know she's got you to talk to if and when she needs it.

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5 Julia L
2d ·
Good I didn't grow too many hopes. I didn't even get disappointed. Yesterday was at the climbing gym for 3 hours, fell asleep as soon as got home. Slept for 12 hours. Have to study now.
Valeria P
2d ·

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Lydia R
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6 Julia L
4d ·
Something's happening. I don't know what exactly yet, and try not to hope too much, as all my hopes might crumble in a second.
Jeff M
4d ·

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Emma Luna L
3d ·

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4 Julia L
4d ·
Oh no. I couldn't see him. So disappointed. But not broken down. Though it's difficult not to.
Toine S
4d · NEW

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Rosie L
4d ·

This guy sounds disappointing :/ *big hugs* xx

Jeff M
4d ·

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Julia L
4d ·

Rosie, the situation is very very complicated, and I do hope it will get simpler.

Rosie L
3d ·

I hope so too!

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9 Julia L
4d ·
It seems even a bit unfair that one his 'You can come and stay over tonight' makes me so happy.
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3 Julia L
4d ·
I've never drunk enough to experience hangover, but I guess my state today, especially in the morning is what it feels like. It's getting a bit better throughout the day, though.
Jeff M
4d ·

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Liz K
4d ·

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1 Julia L
5d ·
***ed everything up. Or was it I? Doesn't matter. I sometimes wish I could hate people who hurt me. But I just don't.
Geri P
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Richard E
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5 Julia L
5d ·
Been in the forest all day. Tired, but satisfied. Trying to understand a huge quarrel I had with my EX on Friday night, it was unexpected and exhausting. I do hope we make it worse by discussing
Kristin L
5d ·

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Julia L
5d ·

We don't make it worse, of course. (Only we already did)

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4 Julia L
10 Nov 2017 ·
I overslept. No wonder, I fell asleep around four in the morning actually. I woke up and one of my eyes hurts constantly as if someone presses it with a thumb. Unpleasant feeling.
Kristin L
10 Nov 2017 ·

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Diana A
10 Nov 2017 ·

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Lydia R
10 Nov 2017 ·

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Valeria P
10 Nov 2017 ·

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7 Julia L
09 Nov 2017 ·
Went to the climbing gym again today. Couldn't climb anything, but it still cheered me up. Looking forward to playing some boardgames in the evening with friends. Not all exactly friends, to be honest
Love 1
09 Nov 2017 ·

...but may blossom into friendship. :)

Emma Luna L
09 Nov 2017 ·

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Julia L
10 Nov 2017 ·

Love 1, I meant one person is more than friend to me, and another is his girlfriend. I'm learning to communicate with her without feeling envious.

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