Not understanding - or appreciating - my brain. I really am over the moon about the visit. Why do I insist on being miserable?
Thank god! Good for u
It's very very challenging. Just came out the other end. I wish you strength during this difficult time.
Thanks. And it *always* helps to be reminded that others have gone through this and survived!
Surviving and thriving. Most important thing is to maintain one's peace of mind no matter what's going on outside and to attend to the pain when it arises.
Sorry I haven't been around. Lots of running around.
I'm also getting a loan. Not sure if I want to but I got to live somewhere.
Yeah, detest the idea of being in debt, but I've got no choice.
Good luck. I hope it goes well.
Which MA Are you doing?
Bando, Lex M.
a while now. The Getting Back Together Fantasy. It's bittersweet right now, knowing it won't happen. But my anger and hurt is gone right now. Just the longing. But not in a painful way. Not now, at least.
Does this make sense to anyone?
The biggest problem is I need money. I need my tax return to come like tomorrow. I am going to look into those places that give loans based upon your return.
I am anti-debt and haven't had any real debt since like college. But I need this now.
Happened to me, too. Wishing you peace.
Thank you so much. Whenever someone else has said they've gone through a similar experience it helps to remind me that people do survive and reach the other side. I sometimes can't envision that.
There is an inner light, an inner guide that shepherded me through that darkness. I knew people who emerged better off from their experience, but chose not to expect anything & cultivate equanimity, patience, compassion to transcend
...so that, regardless of what damage she caused- which was considerable, calculated & unexpected- I could take it & grow in strength to face whatever adversity life presented. I have peace and am financially stable 8 mo post-divorce. C
Couldn't have done this without the love, help & support of my awesome friends & family.
Thanks. Hugs back.