The ex girlfriend of H moved on, why everyone is moving on and only I'm stuck, why can not I move on from him, I do not even think about moving on, even though I'm not in touch with him and it's over
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everything I go through most alone. That I get up every morning and deal with everything and don't give up, that I eat healthy and do everything possible to get up every day anew
I also Thankful to myself that I am smart, take care of my health, know what is right for me, that I am strong not to meet with H, that I continue to exercise and always forgive everyone, when I don't get what I want I dont argue
I still have to work on believe in myself and on faith in God
right now I don't have a permanent job, how will I survive Without my parents help
Now he calls again and wants to talk, he accuses me, insulting, and hangs up, and calls again. And if I do not answer he threatens to hurt me and ruin my life, I know it from the past, the same circle
Sounds very very toxic… You do well to stay away from him, and if you can stop talking on the phone it would be even better. No contact as they call it. It's hard sometimes. Are you really afraid of him? That he'll hurt you physically? Then you
should go to the police, tell friends and family, let everyone know. Don't cover up for him.
Thank you Alicie, that's right, I don't see him. Just by phone. And it happened in the past and I told everyone, and my father said that he would go with me to the police, but I understood that it would not help, and after a few months I had a
birthday and he called and made me not feel alone in this day, and that's how the connection came back, and it's hard for me to cut off because I cut so many times in the past, I don 't know what he' s capable
But I do think he can hurt me, as he threatens to ruin my life. Because if I did not think he was capable I would not be afraid. And I could stop answer him, but the fear of hurting me.
right, calm, and not hold on to it, and release it from my heart and forgiveness and love and most importantly find my one.
Someone who treats you like that doesn't deserve to have you in their life. I hope that you'll find someone who is kind and cares about your happiness.
what I have because they never had it all. And how each was born with a personality of its own, my little sister was a comfortable child, always help, always good and beautiful inside and out
And people who were young and how time passes fast
I always wanted to be the little girl, the little sister, I never played the mother role
I feel hopeful, but, I know H can take me down any minute, praying that it will not happen
But every conversation feels that he is pressuring and he does not give up and when that happens it takes me down.
But I'm glad I feel better even without a reason and the conversation with him a little took me down but I'm learning to not give my power
I want to feel free again
He thinks he's a man that all the women will want, that he's so kind and considerate but he really does not see himself as an opinionated and domineering person, he believes to be the opposite. And I had Relationship in the past and I was in love
with my ex so I know I don't have this feeling with H
My last relationship, set high standards, my ex was good to me, generous, warm family, who loved me. Everyone loved me. He was not threatening, always patient, a good man, not a domineering man. And I always wanted to be with him
H told me I should go on dates and get to know others but I don't think he meant it, he's jealous man, I try to understand why he is still in my life, and what I have to learn to release him
Relationships are never straight forward :( I am rooting to find someone to settle with.
Yesterday I was 7, today 6, yesterday I went out with Acquaintances and drink some wine and I was 7, but even today without wine I stayed 6
and friends, I want to meet only with one, who will never disappoint me
and at the moment invest in my health and God. and being happy and me, I didn't reply. The difference is that for other guys I just don't always answer and they don't press, with H I feel obligated to answer, but Im working on it
no matter how much I try, Im alone with this
One thing I ask from God and it is that he (God) will intervene. in good ways for the best of all. and that its not to late
I don't think so. And so he went on trying to convince more and more and then he wanted me to come to him tomorrow. And on the phone for hour , I don't have the air anymore, I can not go on like this,. God please help!! to take this away from me
It's not my fault, I'm very clear, I could not talk I was next to people and I just said no thanks, if I was alone and a little stronger I was more assertive, he got into the privacy of what I do all day I do not like people doing it, I will never
never trust him, he said he wanted to do me good with vac, but he doing me low, so low, never make me happy and shine
If God will continue this to me, I will lose all faith in god!!!!!!
Someone can invite me, but he can not tell me I'm wrong for saying no, so he asks me to go against my instincts, against my heart, he's trying to control me, to know for me what good for me, and wait to tell me I was wrong
I just wish him out of my life, why is it so hard, what did I ask? not to much, and to be string not to look back, he make me so dont want him
I was ok, with fameily, eating well, sleep good, doing sport, He call and put me out of my balance again, make me the oposite to happy, I will never want to meet him again in my life, I started miss him before he called, to remaind me what am Imissin
Now I want to call him and tell him that.because he took me low so much but I know it will lead to an argument that will not end and he will make me cry and threaten to have bad without him I don't have the strength. God I wait for you to intervene
He try to break me. But I'm stronger because I know that's how manipulative people are acting and they actually weak. And God is with me. He will not break me and I will be strong, and I will continue to believe that I deserve to be happy
grow up to know him and then I thought to myself, that if you loved him he was here he still looks after you and loves you and that is comforting.
the people around me anymore. I Do not trust anyone !!!! Send someone I can trust
Today he told me he was worried about me not meeting. He does not understand, it's not with everyone ... just with him. because I dont trust him, I dont think he think for my best at all.
I wish him only good. But every guy I don't meet with and answer 'no' to, lets go ... with H he not only does not release but also finds problems in me that I do not meet with him
He lives in the illusion that I'm in love with him but if he thinks a little he'll understand that a girl in love wants to meet, wants to get married, and wants to be with him. And I'm honest with him. I tell him to find a woman to meet with him.
I told him I. see him as a good freind who help me once
I can make that conversation, our relationship it's time to cut off. But I've done it so many in the past that I no longer have the power to, it's a drown. just telling a normal person no, he respects and walks away, but he not a normal person
and keeps pushing. And I show patience but I'm on the edge
It's recommended to say a clear NO and then, if he doesn't stop, to cut him off, to not answer any massages or calls. But I understand that this would be difficult as he is a good friend of yours and he's helped you once...
and that I think he needed a women, a girlfriend, and she could meet him. It is very difficult not to let it affect me negatively, and stay strong
I can't tell him the truth because I'm afraid of his reaction. I can't tell him that because of what he did to me in the past I will never trust that it will not happen again and that the acts of proof is on him and if he can make me feel safe I'll
try but as it looks now he will never make me safe. Even the minimal things I need from a man I do not have it like to up me to inspire me and make me smile always and not just need me
I can not, I feel that because I am alone and without work and with pain I just can not stand up with a manipulative man who does not think about me and cut off with him and deal with his reaction.
The experience that God sent me is big on me and I failed. And I ask God to guide me to strengthen me to make the right decisions. Without fear of being left alone and of someone make revenge on me because I left him
and I dont blame myself for failing. anyone who had to live with constant pain, without job, without support and sympathy would have difficulty leaving. and even if I have a family who do not like him, they have given up on me, because of the pain I
am no longer happy as I was in the past
I know I want more in life. More than I am now at all levels. And I know I can do more. but for that I need to come back to who I was, I was strong and I could handle everything.