he jealouse of me, but Im not alone, so I feel more safe, I try to talk to him on the phone instead of meeting,
just wait for this maybe will be meeting to pass. Ill try to forget about it, I dont know how to cut him off from my life. Only God can help me, I tried everything and I could not. Prayers will help.
I have an idea! I'll meet him, and at the meeting I'll tell him that it can't be anything more than friends and that I need a break for 3 months and that I want to get to know others
Is this a good Idea?
I don't know much about your relationship, but it's recommended to be clear: I only want to be your friend, nothing more.
Thank you Anna
I'll do my best to change what feels me wrong. and accept what I cant change,
It's so hard to do nothing. I want to do something but can'tonly in my private room waiting time to pass, feeling so bad for doing nothing today.
Hate those kind of people. Just remember that what they think of you is not important. What you think is what counts.
I feel like a waste of time. Waiting for the day is over. That's how my life goes, wasted.
Trying to be the best, but it's hard that you do not have the means, back from another person, support from people, faith from one person in yourself
To do the best
But Ill use what I do have and hoping God will help, like he do can
he will contact eventually, we have to do this talk. I pray I will not afraid of him, and feel safe In my life, the feeling I stop feel when he came into my life!
I dont know what I love to do, to fulfil myself,, I dont know.
and I had a good dream
Its all because the invetention, I was feeling nice,
Everyone is advancing in life. My ex got married twice, everyone I know got married, divorced, got a degree, did something in his life. Only I did not do anything. I do not even date, I say no to the nice guys who wants me to meet
And the thing I worked on most did not happen.
I'll learn from what happened and hope I'll get up, I do not have to answer this and be nice, if I do not feel like it.
not in a relationship not in anything !!!! . I Just received an invitation from someone who get married. Nothing happens to me in my life.
I was just at his wedding, and all the time I hear that people get married, get on at work, buy a house and what am I ?? is nothing
If this is the life that God has planned for me, to be nothing, to progress in nothing, to disappoint everyone. So I do not want them. I worked hard to achieve God, to be a better person and I stay with nothing
In a minute, the mood dropped from 5 to 1 just because the wedding invitation reminded me that I had not been going anywhere no progress for years
I have disappoint my family, they can not look me in the eye
They expected so much from me and I gave them nothing
Just remember that THIS (this moment, where we all live and are focused) is not the life that God has planned for you. It's the moment. You learn from the past and strive for the future. You don't know God's plan.
Learning from difficulties and sadness may lead you somewhere wonderful. I hope it does...
This is the patience of two weeks since our return to the contact that is about to end.
I feel stuck with him.I'm not in a relationship. Not in any commitment but feeling trapped, strangled. Can not meet others, must answer, taken away my freedom
Perhaps it's time to cut him out of your life? Block his number and delete it from your phone. Block his email. Learn how to be without him in your life...
Thanks for the advise! It's complicated. I wish I could. I tried it before, and my fears won. and he made contact and found a way to get back to contact. and now I was trying to be on good terms with him, and made It clear Its just freinds
maybe It's all in me, and I have to change the way I response untill he understand I'm not giving him my power, sometimes he can be good and I maybe need focus on that times
It's not all in you, I don't think. I totally understand how difficult it is. I have friends who struggle with this too. But maybe if you cut him from your life completely for a time (3 months?) it might help. Maybe even tell him that...I don't know.
I guess you're right. He has moods, once he good and once bad time, once up and once down, even today there were ups and downs in this constant emotional pumping
and if I think more, You're absolutely right. Even in the best moments I will not forget the threats, curses and shouts that left me stunned, shivering, I do not know how to deal with people like that, but I dont deserve that, I deserve to be respect
Yes, you deserve respect and caring, not abuse and threats and fear and hurt. We all deserve those good things!
Thank you Jeff
Wise words once again :)
and tried to calm him
I feel sorry for my mum, and if I could I would do anything to help her, and sometimes she would say hurtful things. And do not appreciate. and my sisters act like they not support, It affect me, I am stuck in my life because of their lack of support
I'm so sorry for that... Do you have some friends who could support you instead of your family?
Thank you Anna, I have some close friends but Its not like fameily and my family is still a family and I love them, and they sometimes help, but yesterday was a specific hard, for now trying to be with them on good terms.
to decide to control my feelings and not to give anyone my strength
I live to give, to give at the right time to the right people, to really help, to really give inspire, joy and health.
Wish I could get back to this point mebear <3
Thank you Penelope, You could and you will! Take time to yourself and go with your feelings you deserve the best, give it to yorself first, wish you have a better day with happy surprises *>