I'm afraid this connection will take me down again. That I could be without work and in difficult situations. And alone. I'm afraid it will ruin my life.
That he had hurt me and that I would never forgive him.
I can't talk to him now either. Because he is at the event and he is putting other things before me.
And that's one of the reasons I can not be with him.
I think that H is connected to this situation, that I am less optimistic.
have to go out to the arrangement from time to time.
In addition, the next week will be very busy. So I will not have time to rest. And clean the house.
I don't want to go through it. This is one of my nightmares.
Thanks Anna! I feel better! This too will pass and everything is happen for the best.
Should I renewed my passport anyway in any case of need?
I don't like any of these neither and I go abroad to see the sights :) But if you don't want to go abroad: have you ever needed the passport? For any reason - to show your identity, your age... Have you ever needed to go abroad? How is it likely you
go to study or for a business trip abroad? If you have no reason, I wouldn't renew the passport,there is usually some fee and the procedure of taking a new one is not much complicated (but don't know how it works in your country).
Thanks Anna! My sister wants me to go abroad with her on vacation and sometimes I do need a passport..The problem is that I don't like to go abroad and in our country they take a fingerprint and I don't know if it is safe..
If you really need your passport sometimes, it's better to renew it.
What exactly are you afraid of concerning the fingerprints?
I read an article that it puts you in an unsafe situation. Hackers can break into the database. And to use it for the bad
Well, if you already have one, your fingerprints are in the database and they won't delete them immediately, I guess. So if you renew it or not, nothing big changes for instance. But I understand your feelings. However, I don't know what are the
IT safety rules of your government, but usually, these data are the best protected ones as they are stocked by ministry of interior or the intelligence service.
It's a good point!. Well, I guess I've been less afraid that anyway they already have the fingerprint .. Now what's left is to find force and time to go to their office far from my home and do it.
I already have an appointment, but you can just come in without a line. My sister suggested that I come with her so I'll try to get it over with
I understand you...
Don't give up!
Meaning, Lack of sleep at night, changing the biological clock and more suffering
.... Is H the abusive ex who treats you like *** and lies then gets with other women? You don't have to do either thing. Just be open and honest. Be strong. Do what you need to do. Look after yourself. Take care
Thanks John ❤️
He gives me the feeling that He does not give up. And continues to try. Not because he really loves me.
I can call him for another week and he'll be cold. If he knew someone better than me he could just be mean and cruel. He gave me a lot of promises and in one second he can throw them all away.
I said goodbye to him once, he promised to wait patiently for me and then a week later he called and said he knew someone else. That he is in a happy relationship with her.. I could not understand how a week ago he promised things
Then he decided he did not like her and tried to come back to me. While he was in touch with her
Stay strong. You deserve better.
Hey lovely. I'm sorry to hear you are being messed around. You deserve better
Thank you deares. Maybe I deserve better, But apparently God does not think so. According to the situation. I tried everything and nothing helped.
God does think so, (s)he's testing your resolve.
I don't even have a valid passport.
I have nothing to look for
A woman at work offered me to introduce me to someone she know to meet with him. I don't have the strength to meet anyone. I need someone to make me feel comfortable from the beginning
So I told her I don't know, I'd think about it
Eat some of your favourite food 👍
Yesterday things did not work at home. Stop working. Suddenly, after a few hours, they returned to work
I'm sure I need a long vacation. I have no more strength to suffer, If something does not change. I know I'll have to get up and start over like I always do to get back into balance But I'm tired of it
I'm learning myself. Things that make me happy to keep. Things that don't make me happy to throw. All aspects of life. But it takes time and it involves mistakes and learning.
Somethings are hard to throw even when we know it makes way for more
But still strong not Contact him. I'm not sure if I'll succeed later.
But I will try to do positive things and think positive thoughts
exercise and eat healthy. Because it helped me feel better and be energetic. also suddenly I have new desires that I did not have in the past
I stay strong. I would very much like to travel far away from here for a vacation but the financial situation really does not allow it right now.
I have to meet with people( so that these desires will happen), and all the people who suggested I go on a date so far, I refused them. I really want to be with someone who loves me and appreciates me and understands me. Patient and kind to me.
I do believe in myself and have good thoughts about myself, my looks and my character, but I am too picky and do not easily open up to new people. Maybe I should still work more on loving myself but if I look back I see progress,
I appreciate myself more today, but it all comes down to luck, you need to have luck in life.
But maybe I do not appreciate myself enough. There is more work to do.
I still feel sad, hoping it will pass
You did a big progress!! It's great! 🎊 don't worry, it'll be better and better!
Thank you Anna! :)
Thank you all! :)
Or because of everything. That nothing really happens or change.
Thank you all
I try to return to the focus of myself and restore my energies and joy. And do not succeed.
I feel like there's no hope anymore. How cruel can be a person who knows that he makes me sad by making contact and yet does it to satisfy his own self
I think that the best thing would be to block him on fb, email and phone if any contact with him makes you sad. But I know it would be difficult. Hang on!!! Big hugs!
That's why you need to leave him behind. You're staying strong and doing great even if you don't feel it. We see it.
Thank Anna And Brandt. Anna, He is already blocked everywhere... but I know that as long as I respond to him with emotion it will not end, my ambition is to be without feeling when he makes contact, and not respond emotionally to it.
I had a few busy days but with less energy. My girlfriends are calling to cheer up but I really want to forget about him.
Don't know about where you are but it seems everyone in the city I live in has one at the moment! Good luck.
Thanks John! I'm in a hoter area so less I've come across such cases, hope my sister will be healthy soon, and that I did not catch up :)
I was careful not to catch up , but I felt a bit like a crazy hypochondriac :)
He remembers, he manipulates. I go back to the beginning.
I didn't sleep at night at all
Of course I feel like writing to him and calling to ask not to do it again, but it will only take me back. I feel like writing to him that he is not care my request not to contact me. That he ruined my life.
Maybe I give him hope in my answers. But I tried everything. I have noting to do. I'll try to get stronger and forget again
Thank you all for the hugs <3
It's recommended to say that you don't want to be contacted again and then not to answer, if possible to block him (social networks, block his number on your phone, put his e-mail adress on the spam list). As you say, he wants you to answer because
any contact is good for him.
Thank you all for your hugs and support
You're welcome :) I hope you feel a bit better...
He may try to manipulate. You have the option of not responding. I know it's hard but you can not respond to it. We believe in you, m'dear.
Thanks Brandt! and all for your support and not giving up:) but it's really hard /:
I wish I could go somewhere far away to forget, but I'm currently in the place where I'm most comfortable right now, and I feel secure where I am that he will not come here.the easiest thing is to talk, but for the time being I'm holding on.