It's a common condition psychologists call normal.
Yes, it's common. All you can do is apologize if you said anything hurtful or let these things go. These little things are always far bigger to you than to the people you were talking to!
thank you >~< honestly it's all in my head and i know it is, things that i highly doubt would be hurtful, but for some reason i don't know how to stop worrying so excessively!! i'm constantly worried i did something wrong when it makes no sense...
logic doesn't seem to have any effect whatsoever on my emotions.... u.u i don't know how to deal with them....
and they can be so invasive! how do other people let stuff go? :( i can distract myself but then every single time something reminds me of the past the surge of anxiety comes right back! >.<
and i can't get myself to stop doing the things i regret! like i never learn!! i don't know why!! it always feels like i'm doing whats right in the moment but that right feeling always turns to wrong shortly after!! e.e
I understand the feeling, I'm both to shy and paranoid that people don't like me. But I believe you can, it can be hard to find the right ones
thank you! ^^ i'm that way too... i have no idea how to talk to people or get people interested in talking to me... it seems like it was so much easier to make friends when i was younger >.< i've tried talking to a dozen people already and nothing
Join a Club or an activity that you are interested in. That way you will have like minded people to mix with. Your shyness will soon dissolve.
thanks! i'm sort of limited to online friendships, i've been trying to befriend people in circles of common interest, it doesn't feel like people are interested in getting to know me, conversations always drop, i just don't know how to keep one going
It's hard to get friends when you get older. I just feel like I'm in the way when I talk to new people. But just try, even if you feel awkward and silly, sense I started school I think “what Am I going to loose”, and just go with it even if it's hard
thank you, you're right, it's always worth trying ^-^