Familiar trigger... I checked messenger's activity, but stopped, because it doesn't really give me the facts about what the other one is doing while being online. Only fuels bad thoughts. No facts.
In the end you have to choose what you believe is most likely, but that also isn't the fact, just probability..
Thanks Melody. You are totally right, it doesn't prove anything. Having these major trust issues is a major problem in itself...I think I now know what I have to do and follow my instinct, but actually doing it is a difficult thing!
I agree with Melody, although it is difficult
Thanks for the advice, very much appreciated 😀