4.6 avg
  417 days
  10133 hugs
  1(5) Have been offline - staying mainly at M's house, looking after him. Better than he was, tho won't know for 3 months whether medication to dissolve blood clots in his lungs is working.he is still off2(5) Doing some tidying, sitting reading with my cat. Should be doing more - there is a lot to be getting on with, including job search3(6) A neighbour left some beetroot on my front step - he knows how much I love it. Deserves a 6 of its own! Looking forward to cooking with it
(5) Had a really nice evening last night catching up with my neighbour/friend. He was away on holiday for a month and since then I've been away looking after M. Really missed his friendship and support.
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27(3) Finances. Been on the edge for a while, just about keeping it going, but delays with getting benefits and no job is finally catching up with me. Been applying for jobs, keeping check on processing of
(2) ...and another job rejection. What a day to arrive. Not doing much for my already high levels of anxiety....
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  1No Reasons2(6) Been invited to interview - 2 posts on offer (1 permanent, 1 year long). Happy just to have been shortlisted, it's some encouragement in itself. Interview in couple of weeks, so time to prepare.3No Reasons4No Reasons5No Reasons
6No Reasons7No Reasons8No Reasons9(4) Had to do online Excel and Word skills assessments for interview next week. Word was okay, but despite revising Excel that didn't go well. Sigh. I think I am better at it than the assessment will show10No Reasons11No Reasons12No Reasons
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20No Reasons21(6) Snow! The beauty of it deserves a 6, even though I'm not feeling that...22(2) So sad to see the incident at Parliament - tragic, whether it's terrorism or something else. I worked in London for many years, and was at work on 7/7, and my manager's son was killed in the attack.23No Reasons24No Reasons25No Reasons26No Reasons
27(3) Been feeling really down for about a week - lacking in motivation and confidence to do job applications, even tho I'm unemployed and on benefits so I need to be doing this, regardless of how I feel.28No Reasons29No Reasons30No Reasons31(2) Finance problems are immense - and no real solution in sight. That despair is seeping into everything, feeling pretty despondent and worthless. Yesterday I did get myself out of the house, and
     1(4) Period has arrived, which is misery but at least means that the high emotions of the last few days will eventually calm down a bit and I'll feel a bit more capable of managing the unmanageable. And2No Reasons
3No Reasons4(3) Had real difficulty getting out of bed today, would much rather wrap myself up in a cocoon than face my many problems, which I need to do something about or the consequences will be worse. Sat down
(4) Got showered and dressed, went outside (thank you, Jeff, for the reminder), did a couple of errands, ran into my kind neighbour. Made one of the ghastly finance related calls I needed to make.
5(4) Survived visit to JobCentre - signed on. Have 2 job applications due tomorrow and need to stop crying/worrying about future. Can't control it, must focus on stuff within my gift. Struggling. Sigh.6(4) 3am. Got a draft of the personal statement done and filled in most of the information on the online application form. Whenever I fill in a job application, I just want to shower afterwards - all that
(4) Up at 10, having tea, toast and meds, a little breathing space before I sit down to finalise job application which is due today. Phone rings - it's the chair of the interview panel, with the feedback
(5) Giving myself a 5 because I completed and submitted the damn job application. May not be very good, but it's done. Sometimes that's enough.
(5) Trying to keep that 5 going - washing up the unbelievable amount of stuff that has piled up over the last few days. Mainly I'm doing it because if it fell on me I'd be one flat panda
7(5) Had restless night of sleep - felt terribly cold even with duvet, hot water bottle, two extra blankets and my cat (who is like a 2nd hot water bottle). Cat woke me at 6 as usual and I fed her, did a8(4) Headache, sore throat, slept most of day. Got up to feed cat and myself. Throwing together a bit of dinner and then it might be back to bed. Need to get back to doing stuff tomorrow.9No Reasons
10No Reasons11No Reasons12(5) My bf sent me a story about the Queen needing to hire someone to break in her shoes. Have to be UK size 4 (like US 6), which I am - tho I Never thought that really small. Seemed to be commensurate13(6) Still not feeling 100% but definitely better.Had really helpful (free!) appointment with a careers adviser today. Not resolving financial problems but trying to focus on other necessary stuff too.14No Reasons15No Reasons16No Reasons
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24(5) Had email from M, who is on holiday in Spain this week, seems to be enjoying it. Need to do job search related stuff today and, I hope, some chores in flat. Having a strong cup of Earl Grey!
(5) Did get a bit of job search stuff done, and a bit in the flat, but not very motivated.Trying to end unhealthy friendship (relationship? Not sure) for umpteenth time, hope I don't backslide.Listening
25(4) Solely based on my feelings about cat's behaviour. I cannot play, or open and close the window every 2 seconds, because I am trying to apply for jobs to pay for your food!!Current food seems to be
(6) In the space of an hour I got invited to a job interview next week and had a call from an agency about a possible temp job starting on Tues! Never rains but it pours. Fingers crossed
26(5) Trying to stay positive - pleased about job search results yesterday, as it's a bit of hope, but don't know how I'm going to pay my rent in a few days. Managing anxiety is like a job in itself.
(4) Very hard to focus on anything, even reading - a lot of anxiety.Had hoped today I could catch up with other social media I use, including FB, as I haven't been on in quite a while.Not happening
(6) Had nice evening catching up with my neighbour/friend.
27(5) Very strange day - been asleep for most of it, completely unplanned. Feeling a bit under the weather, yet I'm sure I'm not ill. Whatever!28(5) Not sure how I'm feeling. This weekend will mainly be prep for my interview on Monday29(5) Slowly - very slowly - getting round to starting to do stuff. Making some lunch. Then must actually do something.30(5) Did do some interview prep yesterday, need to do some more today - and find some clean clothes :) Trying to focus just on this task, and not the personal and financial stuff that I need to deal with
1(2) Interview later this afternoon- trying to focus just on that and not myriad of other seemingly insurmountable problems. Thank you, dear Pandas, for all your hugs and messages of support for interview.
(5) Score just for interview: 5. Thought it went relatively well, certainly the best I've done while I've been unemployed. Felt their approach to work similar to mine. Will get decision in next couple of
2(4) 3(4) Letting agent discussed rent issue with me this morning - will do what she can to help me pressure council regarding my benefit appeal, but had to tell her that otherwise I'm way short of what I owe.4(2) Managed to get out of bed (1 pm) but very hard.Had that exhausted sleep when you have come to end of your resources and it feels like mind/body is trying to protect you.Could still sleep for hours.
(1) Spoke to council today - not good news, and emailed the letting agent. Obviously don't want to be evicted but not sure how I get more money together for this month's rent, or indeed, the following
5(4) Immediate panic over as between myself and R I have paid this month's rent, but of course I have no idea how I will pay beyond that so essentially eviction still hanging over me.
(6) Sat in sun in communal garden with my cat and talked with my neighbour/friend for a while - that rates a 6. Now back to reality, where everything is overwhelming me. Struggling to keep going.
(1) Haven't felt so low in....can't remember when. Went back to bed for a while, which I know wasn't good, but managed to get back up again. Trying to distract myself. Would put zero but scared to.
6(1) Not out of bed til 3pm (cat helped). Took meds, ate something, went out for a few essentials (eg cat food). Listless, drained, finding it hard to distract myself.7(2) Today was hard. Did do a few things tho - including taking my bin down to the streetSounds ludicrous, but means a high probability of seeing my neighbours and don't feel like talking/pasting on smile
8(2) Didn't get up til 1 pm, but at least I did get up. Made a dreaded phone call, ate, took meds. Didn't get the job I interviewed for - had guessed that, but confirmation was really discouraging. Tea.9(3) A lot of anxiety, tearfulness, feeling low - but think I am managing it a little better.10(3) Insomnia. Anxiety. 3 am. Great.
(3) Slept for well over 12 hours, unintentionally. Feel I could still sleep for hours. Struggling.
11(2) Slept so much over past couple of days, feeling cloudy headed during brief periods I am up. Got up at 1pm, determined that I must make some difficult calls about finances. Made one, ended in tears.12(3) Still not getting out of bed early enough, but making slow progess. Did job searching, tidying in the house. Waves of anxiety, even fear, some periods when I do little things, and of just feeling lost13(2) 14(4) 3 amish. Insomnia. Sitting here with book, cat, tea and my old friend Anxiety.
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22No Reasons23(8) Have been having a break from MP as feeling overwhelmed by situation - no job, no money, potential eviction, relationship of 4 years at breaking point because of something I did. 8 because I think24No Reasons25No Reasons26(6) Got myself out of the house - needed to collect prescription, it's a lovely day and I should go outside....My GP had written a note on my prescription hoping I was doing well. I know she's great but27No Reasons28No Reasons
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