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John S · 9h 4
Back home. Was looking forward to relaxing and finishing some reading, but now stuck in awkward reassurance-convo with date. I'm not good at this #relationships #stress #tired
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Stephen C · 2d
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John S · 2d
I don't like the always-on thing that messenger & texts create anyway. I find it stressful because I must prefer to compartmentalise things. Social time and me time. Worse coupled with date.
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John S · 2d
Unfortunately not responding to date isn't really an option. She isn't good at handling that cos she's very different; starts second-guessing and worrying something is wrong :(
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Stephen C · 2d
Poor you. Please take extra special care of yourself. Big Hugs
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John S · 2d
Very fond of her, but I am concerned that our very very different needs in communication, space etc. are going to be a long-term problem :(
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John S · 2d
Was going to wind down by doing dishes but have stayed up hour later than intended :(
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John S · 2d
Ah, finally! Managed to find that gap between having resolved a problem and a new topic arising that absolutely must be thrashed out... time for bed at last.
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Tasha S · 2d
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Cindy M · 9h
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Patty D · 9h 5
Spent a lovely evening with my adopted Ma, eating salmon and watching Of Mice and Men. Feeling a bit melancholic now but probs because I'm tired.
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Victoria A · 2d
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Cindy M · 9h
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Cindy M · 9h
What a nice evening. Much as I love Of Mice and Men (and Steinbeck generally), it's pretty melancholic stuff :) hope you're feeling better
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Patty D · 7h
Thank you Cindy, I do! X
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Noel L · 9h 7
Day 89: In London which is such a contrast to Eype. Mood is good, it is OK to feel accepting bit lost. Feel more accepting of people and willing to engage with them. Best wishes to all fellow Pandas
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Victoria A · 2d
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Love 1 · 2d
People crave acceptance and connection (engagement).
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Sean W · 2d
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Manda P · 2d
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DesBear D · 2d
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Cindy M · 9h
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Luna G · 9h 0
Why can't people just leave me the fuck alone?! I never do anything to hurt anyone and yet everyone constantly attacks me.
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Annamaria B NEW · 2d
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Moonlight E NEW · 2d
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Stephen C · 2d
Oh poor you how awful. People can be horrible don't ask me why just human nature like pack animals - pick on the weakest but other people can be really lovely. Please take care big big big hugs
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Manda P · 2d
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Cindy M · 9h
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Annamaria B NEW · 9h 3
Feeling like shit cause I'm jobless. Always feel not confident at interviews because I feel worthless. Hoping to feel worthy one day.
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Moonlight E NEW · 2d
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Jamie F · 2d
Affirmations. At every mirror it door way available. You are worthy, you are good , you can get work and can do it well. Good luck *hug*
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Stephen C · 2d
Poor you. There's no way you're worthless because because you're jobless. Jobs are hard. I know this will make you feel awful. You are worthy every day. Big hugs
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Stephen C · 2d
Feeling confident is always tricky - its part of someone's persona - I struggle alot with confidence especially with other people but I did it eventually although it tool best part of 30 years!
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Stephen C · 2d
I know being jobless will effect almost everything because you don't feel independant and a job means money means you are free to be independent but you are NOT worthless in any shape or form that's just your depression making you feel like that
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Stephen C · 2d
Jobs are hard - my daughter hasn't had a job since she left school but she tries & tries every week & she's 26 now. I'm so sorry you feel low I understand how you feel but please don't blame yourself this is not your fault
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Stephen C · 2d
You have worked so hard Annamaria that means you are NOT worthless BUT PRICELESS! you have been under do much stress with finals & study factored with stress will make you feel low. Take care & look beyond getting a job live your life & be
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Stephen C · 2d
Confident because I can asure you alot of people arnt confident they are just faking it to give that impression knowing less than you do and have never worked as hard as you so please take care & remember you're special
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Stephen C · 2d
You will find work. Believe it
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Annamaria B NEW · 2d
Awww thanks guy!! Really everyone here makes me feel better! It's hard to understand that other people go through this when I can't see it. I do feel a lot better and will keep trying :)
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Stephen C · 2d
You're never alone on MP. I promise no matter how bad you feel, how alone & isolated you may feel or how individual you feel there's always a Panda who has been there before to help you through this Annamaria
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Stephen C · 2d
Remember Annamaria there's only two rules when you feel like this: Rule 1) Never ever put yourself down. Rule 2) Never ever let anyone else put you down. And always think: I can do this. I will do this. I am a winner
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Claire M · 2d
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Cindy M · 9h
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Cindy M · 9h
I'm in the same boat, Annamaria - and being jobless/without money affects every aspect of your life. We'll get thru this together - fingers crossed that your luck will change. Big hugs x
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Stephen C · 8h
Take care both Annamaria & Cindy. You will both find work honestly. Lots of Panda love & big cuddles to you both
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Jamie F · 9h 6
Rough day. Patched with Chinese food and soaking my feet while reading.
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Cindy M · 9h
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Silke V · 9h 4
Think he'll be 'drinking the problems away'. I really have a problem when people do that ;s. Hope sisters bf takes good care of him. I went to Julie and sis. Talked about it, and about other things.
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Silke V · 2d
Took my off of it for a bit. I feel really bad for him. I should be selfish and take good Care of myself to prevent depression and all of that, but he's such a good guy. Why did I hurt him so much? Why did my feelings dissapear???
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Annamaria B NEW · 2d
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Annamaria B NEW · 2d
We can't help how we feel and sometimes the things we do are the opposite of our intent. All we can do is show how much we love them when we feel like it. If they love us, they will understand and accept our flaws like we try to do for them.
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Claire M · 2d
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Claire M · 2d
Oh my dear, I understand you feel this way but it's not your fault. You clearly care for him a lot still. Maybe your feelings are just bit confused and need some time to know what they want?
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Manda P · 2d
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Christina E · 1d
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Cindy M · 9h
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Silke V · 9h 2
Scared that I might regret my dessicion later. But I don't know how long I'd have to pauze our relationship till my feelings would come back, if they'd ever come back. Keep going felt like lying
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Stephen C · 2d
Please don't be too hard on yourself - its obvious you are suffering bad depression and that's hard enough itself and depression can really you feel responsible for everything
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Rikke B · 2d
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Annamaria B NEW · 2d
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Annamaria B NEW · 2d
Some relationships we outgrown. they're meant to teach us about ourself and life. That knowledge and those memories weren't a waste. Besides, living a lie would've been more of regret than being true to yourself.
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Claire M · 2d
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Christina E · 1d
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Cindy M · 9h
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Silke V · 9h 1
Feel lonely. And now there's no on in my life anymore to give me a hug or lie , with me for a minute.
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Rikke B · 2d
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Kyla W · 2d
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luna S · 2d
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Stephen C · 2d
This feeling is normal Silke. & from what you have said in previous threads over the last few days I really think your feelings for your BF are lot stronger than you may realise. If he loves you he will fight for you I know because I have been there
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Stephen C · 2d
Once 'the initial shock of splitting up' has settled - from what you have said about him - I get the feeling he maybe back stronger than ever because if he truly loves you he ain't gonna give up this easy because he will fight to keep you
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Stephen C · 2d
I still think he knows he made a mistake and he will do everything in his power to rectify that even if means giving you time and space to look at the bigger picture in the hope you may feel different later & change your mind. Take care big Pandy hug
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luna S · 2d
We have lots of hugs for you here (I know it's not the same). I'm sorry you're going through a rough time
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Margot L · 2d
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Claire M · 2d
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Cindy M · 9h
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Love 1 · 9h 8
Longed for do-nothing weekend begins. May those who seek, find. May those who suffer be comforted and find peace. Where there is discord, may there be harmony. May those who hunger be fed.
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Annamaria B NEW · 2d
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Margot L · 2d
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Claire M · 2d
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Manda P · 2d
Enjoy your weekend, Love.
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DesBear D · 2d
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Richard E · 23h
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Wendy A · 9h 4
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Wendy A · 2d
I'm just feeling a little lonely tonight...bed soon...so I'll get over it...
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Sean W · 2d
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Annamaria B NEW · 2d
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Ali H · 2d
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Richard E · 23h
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Cindy M · 9h
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Cindy M · 9h
Hope you're feeling a bit better Wendy
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John S · 9h 4
Awake in small hours again... #sleep #tired
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Ly R · 2d
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Shelley H · 2d
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Shelley H · 2d
That's how I sleep too
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Stephen C · 2d
Poor you. I spent years of waking in the night and everything seems so surreal in the night and 10x worse. Big hugs
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John S · 22h
Thanks, sorry you're struggling too
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Shelley H · 18h
Huge hugs my friend
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Cindy M · 9h
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Margot L · 9h 6
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Shelley H · 2d
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Shelley H · 24h
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Cindy M · 9h
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Ali H · 9h 7
Woke up early and feeling good looking like a hot day again
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Stephen C · 2d
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Sean W · 2d
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Sean W · 2d
You are Not the only One. We lost are AC. It going to 90 for today. With a High dew Point
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Tasha S · 2d
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Cindy M · 9h
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Claire M · 9h 7
Alone at work. Short day. Tired. Editing & planning & cooking all evening.
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Stephen C · 2d
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Cindy M · 9h
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Manda P · 9h 5
Slept till 3:30PM. Now not tired at all. Watching Netflix even though I should be reading. Gotta help BF put IKEA bookcases tomorrow. I have a feeling it won't go good. Might just stay up all night.
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Stephen C · 2d
If you are assembling the book cases generally Ikea is very well thought out so it shouldn't be too much hassle
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Sean W · 2d
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Manda P · 2d
Thanks, Sean. I hope you're right. First we've gotta move them from one end of the house to another. And they are BIG!! Just don't want to screw something up on my responsibility.
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Manda P · 2d
I meant Thanks, Stephen. And thanks for hug, Sean. =)
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Stephen C · 2d
You wont screw anything up - just take your time and if the bookcases are to made up try things slowly don't force anything because if doesn't fit easily somethings not quite right so stop and investigate don't force it
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Stephen C · 2d
If they are already made then when you move them keep the weight balanced between you and your BF and makesure you grasp the sides firmly and tip gently horizontally distributing the weight between you both as you go. Good Luck Both!
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DesBear D · 2d
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Claire M · 2d
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Claire M · 2d
Have you watched the new season of unbreakable kimmy schmidt yet? I'm watching it atm! Also, I'm going to Ikea tomorrow :D Big hugs dear x
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Tasha S · 2d
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Christina E · 1d
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Manda P · 1d
Thanks for the tips, Stephen. I am letting my BF do all the putting together. I'm just holding stuff. No clue on how we'll get them upright. They are gigantic! No, Claire, haven't watched it yet. The whole family likes it so we are going to sit...
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Manda P · 1d
...down & binge together. =) Thanks for the hugs, Pandas. xx
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Natalie C · 1d
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Cindy M · 9h
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Patrick A · 9h 10
Felt extremes in both directions today. I feel alive, out feels good.
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Manda P · 2d
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Stephen C · 2d
Great! So nice to 'Feel Alive'! So pleased for you
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Cindy M · 9h
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nixiblu . · 9h 8
Perhaps its the sun...
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Ali H · 2d
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DesBear D · 9h 6
insomnia after work but had a fun time with coworker. things are looking up.
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Stephen C · 2d
That's really nice to hear. I am pleased for you. Enjoy it
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Stephen C · 2d
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Richard E · 23h
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DesBear D · 14h
thanks Pandas <3
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Cindy M · 9h
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Cindy M · 9h
Good to see,Des xx
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Nick H · 9h 7
Sore Head tension and mild anxiety
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