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Jeff M · 30 May 5
Back to work. Stressed all morning that I had training today, but was smart enough last week to schedule for tomorrow, so I have time to prepare. Rain's back again. Legs are sore. Mondayish blues.
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Sean H · 30 May
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Christina E · 30 May
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Natalia W · 30 May
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Claire M · 30 May
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Reba C · 30 May
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Silke V · 30 May 5
Thinking what would be best. Give the relationship another try or not. For months, one minute I can think this and half an hour later I can think something else, and it constantly changnus. Drives me
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Silke V · 30 May
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Silke V · 30 May
Nuts. Well yeah hug yourself, idiot!
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Stephen C · 30 May
Well personally (& this is only what I would do myself) yes try again and give it another go Silke but its your relationship and you call however if it was me try again
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Stephen C · 30 May
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Stephen C · 30 May
Personally having followed your thread for the last week and inspite of what you said about you having doubts - I think you really love this guy & splitting up is not what you really want but that is just how I see it. You may feel completely diff
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Sean H · 30 May
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Stephen C · 30 May
So if it was me - forgive & forget the issues and try again but that's only my impression and what I would do. The choice and decision must be yours and his. Good luck. Thinking of you both
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Jeff M · 30 May
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Jeff M · 30 May
I guess I'd agree with Stephen. If you don't know for sure how you feel (and, of course, if this isn't an abusive relationship), why not try again? If it doesn't work, you did what you could and moved on. If you don't try, you'll wonder...
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Christina E · 30 May
If you aren't sure then just try a few dates, take it slow and see how you feel then. Like Jeff says if you don't try you will always wonder 'what if?'.
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Silke V · 30 May
Guess I'm just scared, what if it doesn't work, it'd be worse for him.
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Silke V · 30 May
I just don't know if I miss the company or him
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Christina E · 30 May
Do you miss having someone around in general or do you find yourself missing him as a person for example something he used to do or say?
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Stephen C · 30 May
Try it and see Silke. Just take small steps. Let him decide what's worse for him and just worry about yourself. If he loves you he will work with you to overcome this
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Christina E · 30 May
I agree with Stephen, explain to him you aren't sure and let him make his own mind up if he wants to give it another try.
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Stephen C · 30 May
You say you are not sure if you miss him or the company - well I think you still love him and that is a very different thing so try it. You have nothing more to loose but everything to gain because if doesn't work at least you will know 4 definite
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Stephen C · 30 May
And you will have closure to enable you to move on in life. Giant Pandy Cuddles
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Jeff M · 30 May
Even if you don't work out as a couple, you can stay friends. And don't worry so much about hurting him...just be honest with him if you do decide it won't work as a relationship.
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Claire M · 30 May
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Claire M · 30 May
I think I also agree with the other pandas. Why not to try? You just need to explain that to him very well, otherwise it's not fair. Maybe you just feel like you're stuck? Maybe you'd just need something new into the relationship? You could try going
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Claire M · 30 May
on a first date, like date as you would just be getting to know each other. Or something like that. I hope things work out for you x
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Nathan P · 30 May
If the relationship itself is harmful to you or making you unhappy then it's usually best to walk away. But the strongest relationships are made when you communicate your feelings and get through the rough times together.
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Claire M · 01 Jun
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Tiikeri N · 30 May 4
Kinda depressed and still lonely this morning, up late, not getting much done
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Daniel S NEW · 30 May
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Doodles B · 30 May
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Sean H · 30 May
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Nathan P · 30 May
Stay strong! I know the empty feeling is lonely and horrible but you're not alone. I'm going through the same atm. Keep posting!
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Tiikeri N · 30 May
Thank you all x
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Victoria A · 30 May 1
A good friend delete me on social media. Having panic attacks and heart palpitations constantly with worry about why everyone dislikes me. Wish I was someone else.
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Daniel S NEW · 30 May
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Stephen C · 30 May
Victoria stand back and breathe deeply. If a friend has deleted you without giving you an explanation or a chance of you giving an explanation of what you MAY & I stress MAY or may-not have done
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Stephen C · 30 May
Then she's not really worthy of your friendship to start with is she? Please don't panic. I know have done this myself only a few weeks ago cos I offended someone 'a friend' at work because I had an extended bout of mania but even when I tried to
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Stephen C · 30 May
Explain my illness they would nt accept my explaining and just think I was being an arse & that really made me cry (at work) because I didn't know I was having a manic episode until too late & now they have blanked me & snubbed me. Take care big hugs
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Stephen C · 30 May
Please take care Victoria and try not to worry or panic. You're a lovely person so remind yourself that
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Sean H · 30 May
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Jeff M · 30 May
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Jeff M · 30 May
In addition to Stephen's wise words, I'll add that social media is not real life...even if it feels so important. People do stupid things online, but it's not that important. Life gets better when you minimize social media (except here).
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Stephen C · 30 May
Jeff: Hear Hear. I absolutely agree with your input. Social media can be as destructive to a persons life as good. Please don't let one 'deleting' destroy your self-confidence, your mental health and physical wellbeing Victoria. We are all here 4u
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Natalia W · 30 May
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Victoria A · 30 May
Thank you pandas it's so hard not to let these things affect me
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Stephen C · 30 May
I know it is. I cry cry cry at times and I am so embarrassed and ashamed of doing this being a 49 year old man but I get so upset being treated how you are. So I understand. Please take good care
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Nathan P · 31 May
Panic attacks are not fun... hope you're feeling better x
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Daniel S NEW · 30 May 4
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Sean H · 30 May
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Doodles B · 30 May
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Chris T NEW · 30 May 7
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Sean H · 30 May
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Sean H · 30 May
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Sean H · 30 May
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Mike K · 30 May
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Shaun K · 30 May 5
Awake, don't want to go to work but have to, feeling good otherwise
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Sean H · 30 May
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Laura P NEW · 30 May 8
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Jamie F · 30 May 2
Couldn't sleep. Now woken by dirt and seeds being thrown at my head by cat. Already grinding teeth.
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Sean H · 30 May
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Simon J · 20 May 7
vERY HAPPY I bought NOWTV so I can watch the new Twin Peaks tomorrow, it's got Veep and loads of other stuff too.
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Stephen B · 20 May
Cool!
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Sean H · 20 May
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LUVRNH8R X · 20 May 4
My feelings are hurt and I can not tell you why!
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Sean H · 20 May
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Kyrie D NEW · 20 May
Sometimes talking to someone unbiased can help so much x
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Sean H · 20 May
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Sean H · 20 May
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Kevin C NEW · 11 May 6
I'm off work today and the sun is shining. My body aches and I'm tired after a week back at the gym but feel ok otherwise.
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matt . · 11 May
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Claire M · 11 May
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Claire M · 11 May
Better sore than sorry!
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Sean H · 11 May
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