Sounds like you are the strongest link to me. You have no idea how strong you can be. You will get through this
You're not the weakest link. See how far you have grown in the last few years. ❤
Hello Anonmous I have missed you so much.
On & off on meds. Why cant I just be happy. Ffs! Down.
Oh Anon bear, so great to see you back! Big hugs x
Hey darling. You are back. And good scores.
So good to hear from you. Massive hugs
New profile pic obviously suits. X
Congratulations on your engagedment! That's exciting. Hope you are able to enjoy it soon. xx
Hi AA! So happy to see you check in, and congrats on the engagement and move! Very exciting. I'm sorry you're still struggling to find happiness. I know how that is. I think sometimes we have to appreciate the good things, but our...
...minds make us focus on and grow the bad things. I hope you manage to figure out how to embrace those good things and appreciate the moment. I also think that this idea of 'finding happiness' often makes us try to attain something...
...we don't understand. It's a concept. How do we know when we have it? We still feel bad, so we must not be happy, right? I think you have to appreciate the moments and not worry about attaining happiness. Looking back, you'll...
...likely realize you had it all along. *Big hugs*
I'm SO HAPPY to see you around. Was wondering about you. Congratulations on your engagement. Sounds lovely. ❤
Aww thanks guys. You are all in my mind even if I am not on here. All new things, abit scary but I am happy just wish the chest pains and anxiety stops xx
Thanks Jeff. I agree xx
Thank you to each one of you.
Way to go, Anon! :)
So happy to see green and positivity! :)
Good to see you in the green x
Go, go, Anon!!! Wishing you much success with your goals. Kick some ass! 💖
yaaay, go you Anon Bear! Love you <3
How you been anon, hope all is well
Hey Anon. Are you still here in the team. You are missed
Welcome back, Anon. Hate to see you are feeling so low though. You know the drill. It'll get better. Hang in there! xx
I've missed you around as always but you're on my mind. Sorry to see you this low. Lots of love
Welcome back.....Lyon are
You are missed
Hey Anon. Youve been doing so well recently. Big hugs. Xx
Thinking of you <3
Oh wow... your manager screamed in your face in front of their manager? That looks TERRIBLE on their part... if I was their manager they would be gone
Wow, that sounds crazy. Did anything result from this?
ugh, so sorry to hear. your manager sounds horrible. sending you lots of love - they are bad people, not you <3
Yeah, I don't think there are any job environments where that can be seen as appropriate. That's a hostile work place. In the US, that has HR and fireable offense written all over it! Look into your rights, A! You don't have to deal with that!
Try to discuss it with your manager when you feel better put these points across. Nothing worse than feeling undervalued
I'm so sorry, Anon - that is tough. xx
yes. it's frustrating when our efforts and contributions go unrecognized.
That's not very nice. Did you get some feedback about it (
Poor poor poor you!! Please take care. I know and understand exactly how you feel as do lots of other Pandas in Pandaland! Big Hugs
Ah I'm sorry R. Maybe you're a bit stressed from cast coming off? I don't know but I'll hope you feel better soon!
Sending you any strength I can muster up, A!
Thinking of you, Anon! xx
Not stupid! I hope he can help you feel better.
<3 <3 <3
you'll be happy again!
Don't feel guilt and shame over your emotions. Our brains make us feel ways regardless of whether logic says we should. Allow yourself to feel and see if you can find things that help you feel better! *Big Hugs*
<3 you girl!!! It's ok, you are allowed to be happy!!!
I also am scared to be happy. Big hugs x
Hi my Friend, well depression is often independent of outside circumstances... Love and Hugs
Thinking of you, Des! <3
A list of things won't make you happy and you can't guilt yourself for having the things that 'should make you happy' and not being happy. It's all valid
Thank you all it really helps that you take the time to support me. Thanks pandas xx
I've always been scared of being alone which is why I skipped from relationship to relationship until I found the one that stuck.
Thank you Pandas. Sorry to hear that Manda but thanks for sharing. Big hugs x
I'm sorry. I think it's just a phase people around us are in? My fiends are all living together with their bfs. At work it's the same. I'm the only single one. It's though. If it really bothers you I hope you can tell them.. lots of hugs
Yeah, that must be hard to deal with even if you don't want one. At least you & your BF agree on it. xx
Thanks Pandas xx
Thanks Esther, it sure us hard & im happy with them but just don't like it when they say I should have one or that they don't understand why I don't want one. I've already told them. Just dont like being pushed abt it. Hugs <3
Thanks Manda <3 Yes I'm glad we agree too.
I prefer dogs <3 though someday I want baby goats <3
I'm also surrounded by engagements, marriages, pregnancies, buying houses and babies. I'm living at my parents house just managing to get through each day.
Sounds like we're in the same boat. Lots to do here. Trusting whatever needs to fall into place will. If it's misplaced trust, may we remain resilient and equanimous.
I'm so curious how you and your bf look like as a couple <3 Cheering for him as well!
Aww thanks all <3
Thanks Esther <3. Well i have long black hair and im only 5ft lol. My partner is just under 6ft with brown hair. ive got big eyes and he doesnt. Erm i have wide smile and so does he.I have brown eyes and he has bluey/grey xx
I know bit how you look like from Kik :)
oh yeah lol :) xx
Wow, that's quite a height difference! I wish BF was taller. We are the same height. Well, he'll tell you he's, like, 3/4 of an inch taller. Your hair sounds pretty, Anon!
Hope your day went ok, A!
It went okay but shocked a lot was left to do from the 1st day of the start of my break. Does that mean I cant take any time off because they can't do anything without me & il have heaps to do on my return?! Oh well.
Thanks all x
At my last job, when I took time off, we planned who would keep up with my projects while I was gone and what they had to do. When I got back, about 25% of the work got done, so I'd spend three weeks just catching up. Ugh!
Yep same Jeff lol. :) why even plan, right?! <3
Thanks nixiblu xx
That must be a very painful process dear Anon. He was important to you. Xx
That's so hard sometimes - good for you to make the effort, Anon. Hope this mood lifts quickly xx
Thanks Pandas. Thanks Cindy i hope so too <3
Thank you friends x
Oooh honey! So glad your partner has turned out to be the real thing xx
so happy for you <3
I feel so blessed. I love him so much. Bless us xx
That's sweet Anon.
I know Shelley bear! It's so kind :)
Thanks Pandas x
Thanks Busty & Tasha <3
Happy for you. You deserve it. How did you guys meet? :)
That's wonderful, Anon! So happy for you! <3
Thanks all <3 Thanks Manda P :) & Esther, I met him whilst going through Guys death in a bar. He helped me heal & i realised how badly Guy had treated me. Starting to live again! X
Thank you Pandas.
I always miss home no matter how good of a time I'm having. Hope you are able to tell him. xx
Aww thanks Mandarin P <3 yep will try after breakie x
You need home...it's our safe place, where we can relax and recharge. Seems that would benefit you both!
Ohh I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you are able to tell him. Where are you staying atm? Lots of love
I'm sorry I just read where you are beneath this post. Happy to read you're out though. Look at how much progress you've made in the last few years?! I'm so proud of you.
Hope it goes okay xx
Thanks all xx
Thanks Esther. I sure have come a long way. I'm amazed x