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2 John S
16 Jul 2020 · 4+ YEAR
Signed off for the rest of the week with stress. On my way home got a call from wife to say she's apparently not eligible for a whole lot of jobs she applied for recently (citizenship). #work #stress
John S
16 Jul 2020 · 4+ YEAR

That's given me a spike of stress on top of what I already had. I am juggling full-time work in a really relentless admin job, helping her look for work, responsibility for all house-related stuff, trying to contribute to housework fairly

John S
16 Jul 2020 · 4+ YEAR

Also having to be amateur counsellor for my wife because her mental health is too bad to face COVID fears to start counselling or to try it online T_T it is exhausting, utterly exhausting. I know she needs my support and I want to give it!

John S
16 Jul 2020 · 4+ YEAR

Just feeling like I am stretched so thin, and never really able to rest. I am also trying to develop alternative work options but that requires time and energy I don't have :(

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John S
16 Jul 2020 · 4+ YEAR

My life has been taking jobs I could get even when I didn't want them, so I have to admit it's frustrating to see my wife wanting a job but so reluctant to even look at temping, freelancing online etc. to at least fill some time during COVID

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16 Jul 2020 · NEW

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Penelope P
16 Jul 2020 · LEGEND

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Penelope P
16 Jul 2020 · LEGEND

So frustrating and tiring, I get where you're coming from.

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4 John S
03 Jun 2020 · 4+ YEAR
Trying to enjoy my gaming night but distracted worrying about my wife. Also have a headache. #family #gaming #stress
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3 John S
03 Jun 2020 · 4+ YEAR
Wife is in tears, stressed out by the intensive training course she's doing. Trying to comfort her. #family #stress
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4 John S
31 May 2020 · 4+ YEAR
Spent hours on tech support for my wife. She is stressed and keeps changing her mind. I don't blame her but it's still stressful #stress #computers
Shelley H
31 May 2020 · HERO

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5 John S
31 May 2020 · 4+ YEAR
So hot ugh and shopping is so heavy #hot #weather
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4 John S
30 May 2020 · 4+ YEAR
So hot ugh #hot #weather
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8 John S
30 May 2020 · 4+ YEAR
Having a great one-on-one RPG session and my player is super enthusiastic #gaming #rpg #creative
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3 John S
14 May 2020 · 4+ YEAR
Motivation just broke as I filed yet another email and realised I can't face dealing with anything else in the inbox. Everything is messy and frustrating. So #tired of #work
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14 May 2020 · HERO

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Spacekitten V
14 May 2020 · 1+ YEAR

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Anonmous A
28 May 2020 · HERO

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6 John S
13 May 2020 · 4+ YEAR
Very #tired. Going to have a lie down.
Shelley H
13 May 2020 · HERO

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Shelley H
13 May 2020 · HERO

Sweet dreams John

K T
13 May 2020 · 6+ MONTHS

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28 May 2020 · HERO

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7 John S
13 May 2020 · 4+ YEAR
Having a nice walk and wife's group session went well, great news since counseling isn't viable for now
Shelley H
13 May 2020 · HERO

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K T
13 May 2020 · 6+ MONTHS

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Anonmous A
28 May 2020 · HERO

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5 John S
13 May 2020 · 4+ YEAR
Trudging through emails #work
Shelley H
13 May 2020 · HERO

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K T
13 May 2020 · 6+ MONTHS

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4 John S
13 May 2020 · 4+ YEAR
Boss hasn't read a word of the document I spent the morning writing to get her up to speed on this crisis. Great #work
Shelley H
13 May 2020 · HERO

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K T
13 May 2020 · 6+ MONTHS

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5 John S
13 May 2020 · 4+ YEAR
Fairly satisfied with my work this morning
Shelley H
13 May 2020 · HERO

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K T
13 May 2020 · 6+ MONTHS

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8 John S
12 May 2020 · 4+ YEAR
Thoroughly enjoying being a rotund elf with like-minded idiots #rpg
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5 John S
12 May 2020 · 4+ YEAR
Work is dull
Shelley H
13 May 2020 · HERO

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4 John S
15 Apr 2020 · 4+ YEAR
Started work again and I just... how to motivation? I just want to go and lie on the settee. I can't focus on these emails at all, let alone actually solving them.
Shelley H
15 Apr 2020 · HERO

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3 John S
03 Apr 2020 · 4+ YEAR
Tried to have a nap and I finally dozed off for a bit. Woke up completely exhausted and missed the chance to get takeaway for my wife as promised :( feeling a bit guilty too
Shelley H
03 Apr 2020 · HERO

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Michelle H
03 Apr 2020 · NEW

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Robert H
04 Apr 2020 · GUARDIAN

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K T
04 Apr 2020 · 6+ MONTHS

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5 John S
03 Apr 2020 · 4+ YEAR
Finished a long talk with my wife and we're okay about the job delay for now. Financial responsibility remains on me until the virus is over it looks like :( despite her heroic efforts.
Shelley H
03 Apr 2020 · HERO

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3 John S
03 Apr 2020 · 4+ YEAR
They finally called my wife back about the job she was offered (3 wks ago!), and now it's on hold indefinitely because of the virus :( she is doing better than expected but it's tough
Shelley H
03 Apr 2020 · HERO

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03 Apr 2020 ·

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Penelope P
03 Apr 2020 · LEGEND

My new job is on hold too John, it's not easy when you have to ensure you can keep a roof over your head. Difficult times.

Penelope P
03 Apr 2020 · LEGEND

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Michelle H
03 Apr 2020 · NEW

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K T
04 Apr 2020 · 6+ MONTHS

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John S
15 Apr 2020 · 4+ YEAR

Sorry to hear that Penelope, hope things will work out for you soon *hugs*

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2 John S
26 Mar 2020 · 4+ YEAR
Just turned out my wife has been trying to get me for 30 mins but I couldn't hear and didn't see phone notifs. And earlier unhappy about me being in the kitchen. Feeling rubbish :(
Shelley H
26 Mar 2020 · HERO

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Robert H
26 Mar 2020 · GUARDIAN

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