You must ignore your abuser and heal and make yourself aware all the hate and manipulation that went with him.
Life goes on. You can and will cope. Reach out to someone better when you need to.
Thanks Pandas. Hugs back.
So sorry to hear this, Sara - big hugs xx
Hello :) I don't know you, but I wanted to share something. I used to feel the same way. I'm 36 years old now, and in the last few years I've heard the words of pride and love from my mom quite a lot. You never know. Some things take a while.
Thank you; my mom is in hospice and is no longer verbal. I'm in a really bad head space. I appreciate your words so much. Thank you.
6 of the 14 small projects I wanted to get done before work are done. Over an hour left before I have to go to the office. I'm feeling pretty positive about this!
Great to see you - and a 7!
Thanks Cindy! Big hugs!
I Ignore this
I'd block him so he wouldn't see your posts and such. Not worth having that going on in your life.
I would agree but this seems to be a trend in my life. Eventually when I let someone in, they're not what they pretended to be. It's getting tiring and I'm extremely selective. It really seems that everyone I come across is toxic in some way.
In today's psychology there are no deviant sexual behaviors as long as it's between two consenting adults. As long as this person is not forcing you to do anything you don't want to do maybe just let them do whatever? I hope they are not forcing you
or pressuring you. That would be awful.
Alicia - he's doing things with horses, and sleeping with his daughter. Both are taboo. He has a thing for telling me the details even when I ask him not to and that bothers me tremendously.
Stephanie, she's an adult and consenting. It's incest; I'm looking into legality on both. Either way, he isn't someone that I need to be around. Neither one of the friends I mentioned yesterday are. He has gone off the edge a bit after his son di
*died. I should hear back today regarding the legality of what he's doing.
Good for you! Good luck in your next endeavor!
Hope it works out for you
Feel better soon - UTIs are the worst!
So sorry to hear that! It must hurt pretty bad. Sending you a huge hug
Thanks, Pandas. I just can't seem to let go of who I thought he was.