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2 Erin S
24 Oct 2015 · GUARDIAN
I have serious concerns about my wellbeing. My best friend doesn't really care. Put on that smile. You're good.
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24 Oct 2015 ·

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24 Oct 2015 ·

ugh- it's rough when our friends don't know how to support us

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24 Oct 2015 · 6+ MONTHS

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24 Oct 2015 · 1+ YEAR

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24 Oct 2015 · LEGEND

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3 Erin S
19 Sep 2015 · GUARDIAN
I have a desire to cut so badly. I don't want to. It's been nearly a year. My best friend doesn't want to hear about it, which makes it that much worse. He's busy at a party.
diane D
19 Sep 2015 ·

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19 Sep 2015 ·

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19 Sep 2015 · 1+ YEAR

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19 Sep 2015 · GUARDIAN

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19 Sep 2015 ·

Stay strong! We're here for you! *Big Hugs*

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19 Sep 2015 · 1+ YEAR

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19 Sep 2015 · LEGEND

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5 Erin S
19 Sep 2015 · GUARDIAN
I've never told my parents about my sexual assault. As a voice for SA survivors, I feel like a fraud. I'm afraid my honesty would break them.
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19 Sep 2015 ·

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19 Sep 2015 ·

God bless, Erin.

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19 Sep 2015 · GUARDIAN

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20 Sep 2015 · LEGEND

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5 Erin S
05 Sep 2015 · GUARDIAN
Not depressed...just...a friend of mine from years ago contacted me in what appears to be an attempt to get some kind of sexual release. I am sick about it. That's what he thinks of me?
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05 Sep 2015 ·

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anon u
05 Sep 2015 ·

That is terrible, you deserve to be treated much more than some sick release of pent up frustration. I apologize that this happened to you.

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05 Sep 2015 · HERO

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05 Sep 2015 · GUARDIAN

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05 Sep 2015 · LEGEND

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07 Sep 2015 ·

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07 Sep 2015 ·

Hang in there :)

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9 Erin S
05 Sep 2015 · GUARDIAN
I just want to thank the community that has helped keep me afloat for the past year. I trust all of you with my concerns and faults, and I have been met with the utmost compassion. Thank you!
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05 Sep 2015 ·

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05 Sep 2015 · 6+ MONTHS

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7 Erin S
29 Aug 2015 · GUARDIAN
I finally got the courage to write about my sexual assault. I haven't shared it yet. I hope I get that courage too.
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29 Aug 2015 ·

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29 Aug 2015 · 1+ YEAR

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29 Aug 2015 · LEGEND

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Albertine M
29 Aug 2015 · LEGEND

That is so brave, regardless of whether you share it - well done. Hope you will be able to share it, but take your time. So proud of you! x

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29 Aug 2015 ·

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Erin S
29 Aug 2015 · GUARDIAN

Thank you Pandas. This is one of the few forums in which I feel comfortable expressing everything fully.

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29 Aug 2015 ·

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29 Aug 2015 · HERO

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30 Aug 2015 · LEGEND

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30 Aug 2015 · LEGEND

You're strong, well done.

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Tasha S
02 Sep 2015 · GUARDIAN

Proud of you :) You are very brave and I'm sure you will have the courage to share it when you are ready to :) x

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02 Sep 2015 · GUARDIAN

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5 Erin S
05 Aug 2015 · GUARDIAN
A friend who hurt me very deeply reached out today. I almost felt the need to re-connect. I already know his move before he makes it. I can't describe the anger.
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05 Aug 2015 · 6+ MONTHS

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05 Aug 2015 · NEW

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05 Aug 2015 · GUARDIAN

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05 Aug 2015 · 6+ MONTHS

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05 Aug 2015 · LEGEND

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Manda P
05 Aug 2015 · LEGEND

Sounds like you need to stay far away from him!

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05 Aug 2015 · LEGEND

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06 Aug 2015 · HERO

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Erin S
29 Aug 2015 · GUARDIAN

I never reached out to him. I know how harmful he is. I need supportive influences in my life. Thanks Pandas!

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4 Erin S
24 Jul 2015 · GUARDIAN
I wish I knew how to talk to my dad about my mental illness. I know he supports me as a person, but I don't feel like the baggage fee is included.
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24 Jul 2015 · SUPPORTER

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24 Jul 2015 · LEGEND

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24 Jul 2015 · HERO

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Erin S
29 Aug 2015 · GUARDIAN

We're getting there. There is a lot he doesn't know. I think it's important that I tell him when I'm ready...when we're both ready.

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29 Aug 2015 ·

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5 Erin S
27 Mar 2015 · GUARDIAN
Sorry I haven't been around in so long Pandas. I, myself, have been quite well. Tonight, I'm struggling on how to approach a conversation with a coworker who is struggling with an ED and depression.
anon u
27 Mar 2015 · 6+ MONTHS

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anon u
27 Mar 2015 · 6+ MONTHS

You need to let them know you're there for them and that they should never feel like a burden to you. Make sure they feel appreciated, that they'll get the support they need at work and to be open

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27 Mar 2015 ·

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27 Mar 2015 · HERO

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29 Mar 2015 · SUPPORTER

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27 Mar 2015 · LEGEND

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27 Mar 2015 · GUARDIAN

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27 Mar 2015 · LEGEND

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4 Erin S
22 Jan 2015 · GUARDIAN
Thinking so much about an ex that I want to send an 'I'm sorry' letter...it's been 10 years. Embarrassed, but truthful.
Sarah M
22 Jan 2015 · HERO

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Debi C
22 Jan 2015 · LEGEND

If U must rite it... Do it, den toss it out afta! No need 4 embarasmnt!Minds R unendinly unusual! Hugs!

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22 Jan 2015 ·

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22 Jan 2015 · GUARDIAN

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22 Jan 2015 · LEGEND

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23 Jan 2015 · HERO

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23 Jan 2015 · LEGEND

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Erin S
24 Jan 2015 · GUARDIAN

Thanks Pandas. I wrote it and promptly tore it up. I need only to look forward.

Lauren I
29 Jan 2015 · LEGEND

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2 Erin S
09 Jan 2015 · GUARDIAN
I've experienced setbacks, and I'm not sure I'll get better. I don't have anyone in my life that fully understands. I cut myself again two days ago. Don't have a confidant. Character constraints.
Darren G
09 Jan 2015 · SUPPORTER

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09 Jan 2015 · 6+ MONTHS

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09 Jan 2015 · LEGEND

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09 Jan 2015 · LEGEND

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09 Jan 2015 · LEGEND

It always gets better. It's just a matter of time. You have Pandas until you can find the right person you need. <3

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16 Jan 2015 · 6+ MONTHS

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29 Jan 2015 · LEGEND

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0 Erin S
07 Jan 2015 · GUARDIAN
I accidentally found out I'm going to be demoted....just in time for the company party. Good luck everyone else.
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07 Jan 2015 ·

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07 Jan 2015 · NEW

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Debi C
07 Jan 2015 · LEGEND

Oh Dear! Dat Mst B DIFICULT. Hang in Dere! Hugs!

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07 Jan 2015 · LEGEND

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07 Jan 2015 · LEGEND

so sorry, Erin - big hugs

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07 Jan 2015 · LEGEND

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Manda P
07 Jan 2015 · LEGEND

Aw, I'm sorry, Erin. =(

Erin S
09 Jan 2015 · GUARDIAN

It appears to be a possible misprint. I've worked my ass off to compensate for my time off when I was hospitalized. I think my boss sees me as a detriment. I'm emotionally 'unstable'. I don't think everyone else needs to know.

Erin S
09 Jan 2015 · GUARDIAN

In other words, I'm angry as *** and I don't know how to proceed.

Lauren I
29 Jan 2015 · LEGEND

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5 Erin S
09 Dec 2014 · GUARDIAN
I'm desperately struggling with Rolling Stones' retraction and backpedaling the article of the UVA case. I do know what questions will be asked. I know that the answers won't necessarily be believed
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09 Dec 2014 · HERO

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29 Jan 2015 · LEGEND

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5 Erin S
01 Dec 2014 · GUARDIAN
Had my first manic episode in 10 years this Thanksgiving weekend. Feeling tired and foggy.
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01 Dec 2014 · GUARDIAN

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01 Dec 2014 · 6+ MONTHS

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01 Dec 2014 · HERO

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01 Dec 2014 · GUARDIAN

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29 Jan 2015 · LEGEND

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6 Erin S
23 Nov 2014 · GUARDIAN
Sorry to disappear for so long, Pandas. I'm ok, just feeling numb. I don't remember what it's like to have a passion for anything anymore.
Juno J
23 Nov 2014 · HERO

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23 Nov 2014 · GUARDIAN

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23 Nov 2014 · GUARDIAN

<3

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23 Nov 2014 ·

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anon u
23 Nov 2014 ·

i hear yah! stay strong! xo

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23 Nov 2014 ·

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23 Nov 2014 · LEGEND

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Manda P
23 Nov 2014 · LEGEND

Missed you, Erin. Hope you find your passion again soon. <3

Esther B
23 Nov 2014 · LEGEND

Hope you will find some of them back real soon Xo

Erin S
01 Dec 2014 · GUARDIAN

Love you guys

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29 Jan 2015 · LEGEND

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6 Erin S
04 Nov 2014 · GUARDIAN
I struggle with the idea that I have to prove to people in my life that I'm 'better' now. I'm not 'better'. I'm just me.
Mika N
04 Nov 2014 · HERO

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04 Nov 2014 · HERO

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04 Nov 2014 · HERO

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04 Nov 2014 · GUARDIAN

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29 Jan 2015 · LEGEND

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6 Erin S
04 Nov 2014 · GUARDIAN
In the words of Tori Amos: 'I'm just having thoughts of Marianne'
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04 Nov 2014 · HERO

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29 Jan 2015 · LEGEND

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4 Erin S
30 Oct 2014 · GUARDIAN
Even my fingertips are unattractive. I hate having my ex as a client. I have to be nice. I can only pretend this never happened.
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30 Oct 2014 · NEW

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Debi C
30 Oct 2014 · LEGEND

Tell me aain Y UR ex HAS 2B Ur client!? Isn't dis conflict of intrest?MayB tell boss dat its conflict? Possibl? Luv U, BEUTIFL, ERIN!Hugs!

Erin S
30 Oct 2014 · GUARDIAN

Thanks Debi! It's a long story...I went into the relationship knowing it had consequences. It didn't work out, so I have to shoulder the crap of the aftermath. It just sucks sometimes

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30 Oct 2014 · GUARDIAN

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30 Oct 2014 · LEGEND

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Manda P
30 Oct 2014 · LEGEND

Ugh, anything to deal with an ex, yours or your significant other's just sucks. Hope you get a break from them.

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29 Jan 2015 · LEGEND

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5 Erin S
26 Oct 2014 · GUARDIAN
I am dreadfully caught up in the past.
Lauren I
29 Jan 2015 · LEGEND

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26 Oct 2014 · LEGEND

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26 Oct 2014 · LEGEND

I cling to the past like my life depended on it. Just can't seem to let go. Hope you were able to slip away for awhile.

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26 Oct 2014 · NEW

I agree it is so easy to get caught up in ones past mine still haunts me to this day .. Sending u a big hug (x)

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6 Erin S
25 Oct 2014 · GUARDIAN
Sorry to disappear for so long. Doing well, I suppose. Though, I've been very much stuck in my head this week...always a dizzying place to be.
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25 Oct 2014 · 2+ YEAR

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29 Jan 2015 · LEGEND

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