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5 paul M
22 Jun 2020 · 1+ YEAR
Had incredibly good luck last months. So. Soon. Very soon. June 30, eight more days. I will repay my debts. And first time since 1998 I will finally be out of debt. Then, maybe lose some weight?
paul M
22 Jun 2020 · 1+ YEAR

I can lose 50 kilograms and still be fat. Good. That will take most of my remaining life. Not much after that, I think. Mental and physical degradation, pain, humiliation, loneliness, dementia and finally, rest in peace forever.

Laura B
22 Jun 2020 ·

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Max T
22 Jun 2020 · 1+ YEAR

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22 Jun 2020 ·

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Manda P
22 Jun 2020 · LEGEND

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Manda P
22 Jun 2020 · LEGEND

Congratulations on the no debt thing! That's awesome! You should be so proud of yourself!

nixiblu .
22 Jun 2020 · HERO

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nixiblu .
22 Jun 2020 · HERO

Covid weight creeping up, so is the debt. But both are manageable once things b

nixiblu .
22 Jun 2020 · HERO

Normalize.

nixiblu .
22 Jun 2020 · HERO

Well done on the debt Paul. That's a Biggie

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3 paul M
30 May 2020 · 1+ YEAR
Netflix suggested Total Drama Island series. I didn't know about them. That's kids' TV. Now I'm crying over Lindsay finally remembering Tyler in 3rd season.
Shelley H
30 May 2020 · HERO

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Shelley H
30 May 2020 · HERO

Netflix has become my true love 🎥

paul M
30 May 2020 · 1+ YEAR

I'm not ready for it yet. Now, when I'll retire, that will be it. Netflix till I die.

Shelley H
30 May 2020 · HERO

Oh yeah!

Manda P
31 May 2020 · LEGEND

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3 paul M
30 May 2020 · 1+ YEAR
Plus. Virus so far has reduced my expenses, and there were some windfalls, and I am repaying my debts as crazy. I'm worried, because what will I do, when I finally will have money? I'm afraid to...
paul M
30 May 2020 · 1+ YEAR

I'm afraid to have it.

Shelley H
30 May 2020 · HERO

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Shelley H
30 May 2020 · HERO

Too bad you're not in the US. We got stimulus payments from the IRS this year because of the pandemic.

nixiblu .
31 May 2020 · HERO

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31 May 2020 · LEGEND

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3 paul M
29 Apr 2020 · 1+ YEAR
I am tired and I am a coward. And tired.
Spacekitten V
29 Apr 2020 · 1+ YEAR

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Shelley H
29 Apr 2020 · HERO

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29 Apr 2020 · LEGEND

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nixiblu .
02 May 2020 · HERO

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28 May 2020 · HERO

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4 paul M
16 Apr 2020 · 1+ YEAR
Repaid one motherloving credit card. 3 more loans to go. Whee. I need to celebrate it somehow, not sure, how. I don't feel anything. I don't know.
nixiblu .
16 Apr 2020 · HERO

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16 Apr 2020 · HERO

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17 Apr 2020 · LEGEND

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4 paul M
08 Apr 2020 · 1+ YEAR
Trying to concentrate for work. Don't like phone calls. Nobody calls with good news. At best, will ask for money. Or call me names, because I am so lucky and don't deserve it.
Manda P
08 Apr 2020 · LEGEND

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08 Apr 2020 · LEGEND

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08 Apr 2020 · HERO

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3 paul M
06 Apr 2020 · 1+ YEAR
Long time away. Sitting in isolation, same as half of the planet. Can work remotely, that's a blessing. Had a chat with friends, laughed. Saw D. Felt lonelier than ever. Have no idea what to live for.
Ethan T
06 Apr 2020 ·

we all experience those days where we feel like we are all alone in this and that we should have a solid idea of how to live and what to do . but loneliness is not permanent and we can always find people

Ethan T
06 Apr 2020 ·

there is support and you can find people around you . and please don't worry about not having a solid plan about life you can always think about what to do next .you can put things into perspective and find meaning .

Ethan T
06 Apr 2020 ·

In those days trying to see this empty feeling as a starter for a rational conversation with yourself might me hard . maybe you should try mediation . i'm so sorry if i sound like i'm making no sense just wanted you to know that you are supported.<3

paul M
07 Apr 2020 · 1+ YEAR

Thanks, Ethan.

nixiblu .
07 Apr 2020 · HERO

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07 Apr 2020 · LEGEND

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5 paul M
12 Jan 2020 · 1+ YEAR
Repaid largest of my loans. 4 more left. IF my health, home and employment and family holds on, THEN in about 1.5 years I'll be done. Celebrating with a cold beer and Conquest of Paradise (Vangelis).
paul M
12 Jan 2020 · 1+ YEAR

In year 2022, after 24 years living on credit cards, I will finally won't have less than nothing.

paul M
12 Jan 2020 · 1+ YEAR

In year 2022, after 24 years living on credit cards, I finally won't have less than nothing :)

paul M
12 Jan 2020 · 1+ YEAR

Frankly, I have no real idea what to do with money, except save for some emergencies. Saving I can do. Spending, that becomes a problem. I mean, spending for myself.

nixiblu .
12 Jan 2020 · HERO

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nixiblu .
12 Jan 2020 · HERO

Wow. I wish I could see myself debt free. Most is in a mortgage thought and that's another 18+ years

Manda P
12 Jan 2020 · LEGEND

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Manda P
12 Jan 2020 · LEGEND

Well done, paul! That's gotta feel so good.

paul M
12 Jan 2020 · 1+ YEAR

Not THAT good :) But better :)

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5 paul M
26 Dec 2019 · 1+ YEAR
Games on a phone are taking too much time. 2-3 hours every day.
Manda P
26 Dec 2019 · LEGEND

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5 paul M
25 Dec 2019 · 1+ YEAR
Walked 15 000 steps today and yesterday. Good.
Albertine M
25 Dec 2019 · LEGEND

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Albertine M
25 Dec 2019 · LEGEND

Merry Christmas Paul - hope you have a quiet day. Well done on the steps!!

nixiblu .
25 Dec 2019 · HERO

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25 Dec 2019 · HERO

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25 Dec 2019 · 6+ MONTHS

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26 Dec 2019 · LEGEND

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5 paul M
24 Dec 2019 · 1+ YEAR
Merry Christmas, if you feel like it :) I am alone this evening and I hope nobody will invite me in the last moment. Quite nice and peaceful in my home.
Shelley H
24 Dec 2019 · HERO

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Shelley H
24 Dec 2019 · HERO

Merry christmas paul. Xxx

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me M
24 Dec 2019 · 1+ YEAR

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24 Dec 2019 · LEGEND

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Manda P
24 Dec 2019 · LEGEND

Merry Christmas, paul! Enjoy your holiday.

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5 paul M
22 Nov 2019 · 1+ YEAR
Friday and slightly uncomfortable amount of socializing in weekend.
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22 Nov 2019 ·

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22 Nov 2019 · LEGEND

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Manda P
22 Nov 2019 · LEGEND

Hope it turns out to be a good time, paul!

Jen B
23 Nov 2019 · HERO

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nixiblu .
25 Nov 2019 · HERO

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4 paul M
17 Nov 2019 · 1+ YEAR
In two months I, hopefully, will pay back one of my loans. Took 3 years. Three more to go.
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17 Nov 2019 ·

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17 Nov 2019 ·

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Manda P
17 Nov 2019 · LEGEND

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Manda P
17 Nov 2019 · LEGEND

Grats! Paying off debts feels great!

Jen B
17 Nov 2019 · HERO

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Albertine M
19 Nov 2019 · LEGEND

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Albertine M
19 Nov 2019 · LEGEND

Well done Paul! That represents a lot of hard work and sacrifice x

sonny S
20 Nov 2019 · 1+ YEAR

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sonny S
20 Nov 2019 · 1+ YEAR

Congrats! It's a good feeling

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5 paul M
16 Nov 2019 · 1+ YEAR
Saturday morning, who knows, maybe I will even clean up my apartment. Maybe. Or tomorrow.
Manda P
16 Nov 2019 · LEGEND

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Manda P
16 Nov 2019 · LEGEND

Hope you are enjoying your weekend, paul!

Johnya T
17 Nov 2019 · LEGEND

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paul M
17 Nov 2019 · 1+ YEAR

I am, Manda, in a quiet sort of a way :)

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5 paul M
15 Nov 2019 · 1+ YEAR
Dancing is fun. For a few hours.
Spacekitten V
15 Nov 2019 · 1+ YEAR

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15 Nov 2019 · LEGEND

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16 Nov 2019 · HERO

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16 Nov 2019 · LEGEND

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Manda P
16 Nov 2019 · LEGEND

Oop! Two hugs for you! Where is everyone?!

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5 paul M
09 Nov 2019 · 1+ YEAR
Was contemplating the importance of being polite and respectful to myself. I have trouble with this concept.
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09 Nov 2019 · HERO

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5 paul M
03 Nov 2019 · 1+ YEAR
Monday approaches. I like Mondays, then I am more or less rested and can work. I'm tired for the rest of the week.
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03 Nov 2019 · 6+ MONTHS

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5 paul M
02 Nov 2019 · 1+ YEAR
Weekend OK so far. I made a list of tasks at Friday and now I have something to do. Good because at weekends I have no idea what to do. Brain sort of grays out.
Manda P
02 Nov 2019 · LEGEND

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02 Nov 2019 · GUARDIAN

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5 paul M
01 Nov 2019 · 1+ YEAR
Friday evening. Me and a can of beer.
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01 Nov 2019 · GUARDIAN

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01 Nov 2019 · LEGEND

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01 Nov 2019 · LEGEND

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Manda P
01 Nov 2019 · LEGEND

Have a good weekend, paul!

paul M
02 Nov 2019 · 1+ YEAR

Thanks, Manda :)

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4 paul M
27 Oct 2019 · 1+ YEAR
Yesterday was fun evening. Today is very quiet and alone.
Manda P
27 Oct 2019 · LEGEND

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