oh no :( i'm sorry
Thank you Love ! , Nat ! and Silke V for your kinds words. Sending big hugs back🤗
I've already visited a centre attached to hospital, but now because where I live, I'm forced to go locally! Angers me so much. 😢
Then, my case is discussed without permission! A room full of professionals have stated go ahead but the surgery can only go ahead if they have no concerns im mentally fit.. its a leg even if I wasn't OK, sure won't tell them! 😡
All that must be so hard on top of such an awful choice to have to make - so sorry Natalie. It's been such a long road for you to get here - thinking of you
We've got your back Nat. Reach out if you want to talk. You know where I am
Thank you pandas for the hugs. Sending big hugs to you all! xx
Thanks Albertine. I hope you are keeping well xx
Thanks John, that means a lot. Always here if you want to chat too xx
Welcome back Nat
Hi John, thank you! 🙂 It's good to hear from you, how are you?
I'm getting ready for bed. I'm a bit achey despite barely moving today
Nice to hear from you, Natalie! Wish it was under better circumstances. Hope your decision works out. ❤️
Hello Manda, how are you?❤ thank you i really appreciate it
Hope you're feeling better today, John!
Yes thanks nat
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Welcome Back, Natalie! You were missed! 💖
Thanks x missed you too Manda 😘
Thanks Laura and Ann. Sending you big hugs back! (I apologise its two months late)
Have question -have answer. I walk with my cat today in mask, everybody with dogs,and i with my cat,so I don't ask him if he want to go outside or not,I want to go there,strange picture me and my cat among the dogs) people smile so do l and my cat)
It sucks that your team is turning against you over being ill.
Hi Natalie hope your ok xx haven't heard from you in a while and also just ignore them pathetic people they are xx
Sorry that's happening. The last thing you need to be worrying about is your job. Sending love! ❤️
Thanks Nat ❤
Thanks Natalie you take care as well and look after yourself ❤️
Thanks, Natalie. Hope you are well! xx
I can so relate. This has literally just happened to me reanother difficultyrestlesslegsyndrome. Doctors tell you it's à discussion and the do exactly what they want. Massive changes in NHS last 7 years I can see in this direction. Cuts or attitude?
Sorry to hear Bipolar Pandy J you have experienced this too☹ restless leg syndrome is awful. I hope you got your medication sorted. Your right there is so many cuts now to the NHS, but GP is ignoring Hospitals post op advice! 😥
Tried lowering medication (work wants that, not me). So many side effects and generally feeling rubbish.
I'm on sumatriptan injections for my headaches and migraine they are great once you take one of them your headache or migraine is completely fine
Sorry you aren't feeling well, Natalie. I don't think work should have a say on meds.
Thanks Aiden, I will have a look into them :) I'm hoping they will ease soon without anything but that's just me wishing thinking. How are you doing?
Thanks Manda, I know they shouldn't but they are arguing the medication affects my performance and decision making. I'm also allowed no absences in the next 12 months so delays all my treatment 😩. I'm still fighting my employer
Thanks all for the hugs x
In fine Natalie thank you for asking just getting on with life I have my up and down days nothing I can't handle how are you doing 🙂🙂🙂
Thank you all for your supportive hugs and comments,*** sending you all big hugs***
Trying to sit in a room, with the union, my boss & HR telling them. 'I'm not lazy, I've had the operation thinking it would improve my life/my work performance'. I was doing well, I'm trying! I really am trying! Told them if it fails I'm facing..
Amputation, left meeting so 😪😪. Union rep was so good though and is fighting with me. It's one of them days I've had enough.
Sorry to hear things are so rough. Worrying about work should be the last thing on your mind. I'm glad you have someone on your side.
Union is good, hopefully they back off. Keep fighting.
Oh, Natalie. 😢 I'm so sorry you have to go through this. You must be absolutely exhausted! Sending lots of hugs & kisses. 💞
Bless you sweetheart 😪can't imagine the pain you must be go threw keep strong ❤️
Sad that I miss working, but I'm doing what I feel is best.. I feel guilty for looking after myself. 😨 Just want to feel better 💦
Thank you Penelope *big hugs back*
Don't feel guilty for looking after yourself. That's what you are supposed to do.
Hope you get nice & snuggled in tonight.
Thank you Manda!🙂
*big hug* You definitely aren't a burden & you're doing the best you can. That's all that matters. Be kind to yourself. You are worth it! xx
Enjoy your new bed. Sorry to hear that you'll have to return to work while still recovering. You are so tough though. I know you can do it! 💋
Thank you Ian, Manda & John 🙂 big hugs to you all!
Aww, thanks Manda ❤. That's really kind of you, thanks so much for the support! X