this is actually really serious. i know it's gonna be hard to do, but you should probably try to either get couples therapy or divorce them.
There are resources online that can help you safely and anonymously get help and figure out a plan. I bet Mood Panda staff would be happy to help you find something in your area!
holy shoot this is serious you need to get out of this relationship like now, you need to get yourself and your children away from him because he might become abusive to your children as well eventually. please please take this to court or get help
Did you speak about how many children you wanted before? Did he go back on his word? Both feelings/desires regarding children are valid. If he doesn't want children it would be bad to have one that he would then regret or resent. But it's not ok for
Him to disregard your feelings or talk to you like that. Ultimately, if you both want different things then maybe you need to have a serious talk about your relationship and where things are heading.
He totally disregards my feelings.
He thinks it's dumb I'm grieving because I already have a kid and shouldn't have more because of depression history
He uses my history of mental health against me even though I'm doing my best and my kid loves me
Yes I have panic attacks but I've never been a bad mom. Have always worked hard and provided for my kid and have never hurt them in any way
Perhaps he is just worried about you, that it would be overwhelming to look after more children? I know I couldn't handle the stress of it. But if he is really being horrible about it and doesn't respect you is he really worth being with?
No he's just selfish and wants to get his way. It's not about love for me. It's about him getting his dreams
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You know, do it not for people , enjoy the cooking, eat with pleasure, for yourself, for your family, don't wait reaction from people. When you waiting it you can't be free inside. You depend on other opinions and it is the worst cage in the world...
Good luck)and good job.👍✌
It might not be an option for you but I found that deleting social media apps from my phone helps with that stuff. It's very freeing!
Due to Covid
I'm so sorry,let's not let nutty abusive family members ruin our chances of happiness ay ? ! Each person deserves happiness and nobody has the right to try and sabotage it for another , mother ,sister, brother nor father ! Amen to that xx 🌈🤓🧘
I can appreciate how hard it gets with parents like that. It sounds like you've got a good perspective on it because you're right, some people never change. But you can be the better person. You can do this.
I am still struggling with money
I don't want to seem selfish. I know he doesn't owe me anything I just feel sad
You aren't selfish! And great to see you again, I was worrying about you!
Awww thanks Anna D!!