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2 Käti E
31 Mar 2019 ·
I'm so close to calling my driving instructor and cancel tomorrow's driving lesson and then never call him again.
Lydia R
31 Mar 2019 · HERO

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Lydia R
01 Apr 2019 · HERO

Well, I think both of you are right. I have a licence, and think it's good to know how to drive a car since circumstances can always appear, but I also haven't driven a car since moving to Berlin. I'm trying to get back into it after almost 10 years,

Lydia R
01 Apr 2019 · HERO

but I haven't regretted getting my licence.

John T
01 Apr 2019 · LEGEND

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John T
01 Apr 2019 · LEGEND

If you've got decent public transport in your country I disagree with Brandt. You don't need to drive. At all. Also walking and cycling the shorter journeys will make you healthier.

John T
01 Apr 2019 · LEGEND

Brandt is right to say believe in yourself, though. You can do it if you want to.

Gabrielle H
31 Mar 2019 · 6+ MONTHS

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Brandt B
31 Mar 2019 ·

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Brandt B
31 Mar 2019 ·

You do need to drive. See if you can find a way to let that negativity bounce off your self-protective shell. Believe only what you feel within and try not to take on board hurtful words of others. We must be the better person even when it's hard.

Brandt B
31 Mar 2019 ·

Think “I will succeed despite you” and then believe you can do it. Practice

Brandt B
31 Mar 2019 ·

And visualize your success and the actions that will take you there. You can do this Kati. We out here in the ether believe.

Brandt B
31 Mar 2019 ·

Some criticism given constructively helps. It's riding a fine line between constructive and hurtful as I discover with my teenage son. A balance I strive to ride to assure him of his abilities with reminders to his accountability.

Brandt B
31 Mar 2019 ·

Oh and BTW I have been spending plenty of time guiding my son as he recently got his learner's permit. I'm trying to take my advice. Even...no, *especially* when it's hard.

Brandt B
01 Apr 2019 ·

John T has a good point. You don't have to drive. I do encourage learning to drive as it is a great thing to know and will give you added flexibility and versatility down the line. Most importantly, believe in yourself. You can do this.

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3 Käti E
20 Mar 2019 ·
Mentally tired
Maria K
20 Mar 2019 · 6+ MONTHS

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John T
22 Mar 2019 · LEGEND

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3 Käti E
23 Feb 2019 ·
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Lydia R
23 Feb 2019 · HERO

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Ian D
23 Feb 2019 · 6+ MONTHS

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Albertine M
24 Feb 2019 · LEGEND

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4 Käti E
16 Feb 2019 ·
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Albertine M
16 Feb 2019 · LEGEND

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Tim S
16 Feb 2019 · 6+ MONTHS

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Robert H
16 Feb 2019 · GUARDIAN

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3 Käti E
15 Feb 2019 ·
Need to give a speech at school. I can't stand being the centre of attention. My heart rate is currently 122. Hopefully I can calm myself down.
Gabrielle H
15 Feb 2019 · 6+ MONTHS

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John T
15 Feb 2019 · LEGEND

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Albertine M
15 Feb 2019 · LEGEND

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2 Käti E
13 Feb 2019 ·
Had dancing lessons at school today. No one wanted to dance with me. Last week happened the same thing.
Tim S
13 Feb 2019 · 6+ MONTHS

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Albertine M
13 Feb 2019 · LEGEND

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Albertine M
13 Feb 2019 · LEGEND

I'm sorry, Kati - I had similar experiences in school and it was very hurtful. Big hugs xx

me M
13 Feb 2019 · 6+ MONTHS

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Lydia R
13 Feb 2019 · HERO

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2 Käti E
06 Oct 2018 ·
Why can't I socialise? Why can't I make new friends? I don't want to be shy. I want to have many friends. But instead I am a ***ing loner. I don't even know how to talk to my old friends.
John T
07 Oct 2018 · LEGEND

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John T
07 Oct 2018 · LEGEND

I relate to this.

Simon J
07 Oct 2018 ·

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3 Käti E
09 May 2018 ·
Mom always knows how to make me feel bad.
Robert H
09 May 2018 · GUARDIAN

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Ezra Z
09 May 2018 ·

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Mark W
09 May 2018 · GUARDIAN

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09 May 2018 ·

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5 Käti E
26 Mar 2018 ·
Had a few bad moments but managed to be happy and positive this week
Patricia S
26 Mar 2018 ·

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26 Mar 2018 ·

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6 Käti E
20 Mar 2018 ·
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5 Käti E
19 Mar 2018 ·
I challenge myself to be positive this week
Alicia B
19 Mar 2018 · LEGEND

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anon u
19 Mar 2018 · NEW

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Odie W
19 Mar 2018 ·

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2 Käti E
18 Mar 2018 ·
Does someone knows what to do to stop late night mental breakdown??
Jeff M
18 Mar 2018 · LEGEND

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Jeff M
18 Mar 2018 · LEGEND

Try to distract yourself by doing anything else ...okay video games or leave the house. It's just go to sleep...things are usually better in the morning. Call someone if you're in a really bad place!

Michelle W
18 Mar 2018 · HERO

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John T
18 Mar 2018 · LEGEND

There's also medication, PRN sleeping tablets or anxiety pills could help used in moderation.

John T
18 Mar 2018 · LEGEND

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Lydia R
18 Mar 2018 · HERO

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Käti E
18 Mar 2018 ·

I don't trust myself with medication

Mark W
18 Mar 2018 · GUARDIAN

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John T
18 Mar 2018 · LEGEND

Yeah PRN medications suit some people better than others, I hope you find a solution to your night problems though!

Lieteke G
18 Mar 2018 ·

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Odie W
18 Mar 2018 ·

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2 Käti E
18 Mar 2018 ·
A 36 year old guy flirted and tried to kiss me. Luckily I escaped before he kissed. I feel so grossed out right now.
Michelle W
18 Mar 2018 · HERO

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Odie W
18 Mar 2018 ·

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2 Käti E
16 Mar 2018 ·
I'm kinda tired of lying my mom that I'm okay but I need to. She doesn't have to know that she has another Fukced up kid.
anon u
16 Mar 2018 ·

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Michelle W
16 Mar 2018 · HERO

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Michelle W
16 Mar 2018 · HERO

I'm sure she would want to know how you're feeling & would do anything to help you.

Sydney P
16 Mar 2018 ·

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16 Mar 2018 ·

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16 Mar 2018 ·

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3 Käti E
15 Mar 2018 ·
I need to talk about an article in English lesson. I chose an article about SuIcide. Some boys made fun of this topic. I wish I had balls to say something. I ***ing hate this class.
Jake G
15 Mar 2018 · CHIEFPANDA

ugh did the teacher not respond?

anon u
15 Mar 2018 ·

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Käti E
15 Mar 2018 ·

Nope. She just said that everyone has right to their opinion.

Käti E
15 Mar 2018 ·

And now he made a joke about rapelng😡😡

Michelle W
15 Mar 2018 · HERO

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Odie W
15 Mar 2018 ·

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Odie W
15 Mar 2018 ·

that's terrible. i have boys like that in my classes too. try to ignore them, they just want attention <3

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5 Käti E
13 Mar 2018 ·
There was an article about ***e with ***e notes in a newspaper. Damn, it brought back some memories. I hope that I will NEVER feel like this again.
Janine S
13 Mar 2018 · 1+ YEAR

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Jake G
13 Mar 2018 · CHIEFPANDA

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5 Käti E
09 Mar 2018 ·
No Reason Given
Odie W
09 Mar 2018 ·

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anon u
09 Mar 2018 ·

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2 Käti E
07 Mar 2018 ·
I told my friend about my plan (after graduation I will buy a van and go on a trip) and she wants to join. But we want different things. I wanna be surrounded by nature. She wants be in the city...
Käti E
07 Mar 2018 ·

She calculated how expensive this trip could be and told me that we should go by bus cuz it's cheaper. But it's not how I planned it. And now she wants to talk more about this trip and I'm trying to avoid talking about it.

anon u
07 Mar 2018 ·

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Jake G
07 Mar 2018 · CHIEFPANDA

Ugh do your dream. Buying a van and travelling nature is an adventure. Going by bus to cities is a very different adventure. Do your adventure

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2 Käti E
28 Feb 2018 ·
Just hurt my dads feelings because I told him that I don't want to talk to grandma. Why should I fake that I love her when I have no feelings for her...
Käti E
28 Feb 2018 ·

... she is just a person who I call grandmother and that's all.

Valeria P
28 Feb 2018 · 6+ MONTHS

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6 Käti E
15 Feb 2018 ·
No Reason Given
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