I'm so close to calling my driving instructor and cancel tomorrow's driving lesson and then never call him again.

Well, I think both of you are right. I have a licence, and think it's good to know how to drive a car since circumstances can always appear, but I also haven't driven a car since moving to Berlin. I'm trying to get back into it after almost 10 years,

01 Apr 2019

but I haven't regretted getting my licence.

01 Apr 2019

If you've got decent public transport in your country I disagree with Brandt. You don't need to drive. At all. Also walking and cycling the shorter journeys will make you healthier.

01 Apr 2019

Brandt is right to say believe in yourself, though. You can do it if you want to.

01 Apr 2019

You do need to drive. See if you can find a way to let that negativity bounce off your self-protective shell. Believe only what you feel within and try not to take on board hurtful words of others. We must be the better person even when it's hard.

31 Mar 2019

Think “I will succeed despite you” and then believe you can do it. Practice

31 Mar 2019

And visualize your success and the actions that will take you there. You can do this Kati. We out here in the ether believe.

31 Mar 2019

Some criticism given constructively helps. It's riding a fine line between constructive and hurtful as I discover with my teenage son. A balance I strive to ride to assure him of his abilities with reminders to his accountability.

31 Mar 2019

Oh and BTW I have been spending plenty of time guiding my son as he recently got his learner's permit. I'm trying to take my advice. Even...no, *especially* when it's hard.

31 Mar 2019

John T has a good point. You don't have to drive. I do encourage learning to drive as it is a great thing to know and will give you added flexibility and versatility down the line. Most importantly, believe in yourself. You can do this.

01 Apr 2019
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Need to give a speech at school. I can't stand being the centre of attention. My heart rate is currently 122. Hopefully I can calm myself down.
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Had dancing lessons at school today. No one wanted to dance with me. Last week happened the same thing.

I'm sorry, Kati - I had similar experiences in school and it was very hurtful. Big hugs xx

13 Feb 2019
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Why can't I socialise? Why can't I make new friends? I don't want to be shy. I want to have many friends. But instead I am a ***ing loner. I don't even know how to talk to my old friends.
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Mom always knows how to make me feel bad.
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Had a few bad moments but managed to be happy and positive this week
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I challenge myself to be positive this week
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Does someone knows what to do to stop late night mental breakdown??

Try to distract yourself by doing anything else ...okay video games or leave the house. It's just go to sleep...things are usually better in the morning. Call someone if you're in a really bad place!

18 Mar 2018

There's also medication, PRN sleeping tablets or anxiety pills could help used in moderation.

18 Mar 2018

I don't trust myself with medication

18 Mar 2018

Yeah PRN medications suit some people better than others, I hope you find a solution to your night problems though!

18 Mar 2018
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A 36 year old guy flirted and tried to kiss me. Luckily I escaped before he kissed. I feel so grossed out right now.
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I'm kinda tired of lying my mom that I'm okay but I need to. She doesn't have to know that she has another Fukced up kid.

I'm sure she would want to know how you're feeling & would do anything to help you.

16 Mar 2018
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I need to talk about an article in English lesson. I chose an article about SuIcide. Some boys made fun of this topic. I wish I had balls to say something. I ***ing hate this class.

ugh did the teacher not respond?

15 Mar 2018

Nope. She just said that everyone has right to their opinion.

15 Mar 2018

And now he made a joke about rapelng😡😡

15 Mar 2018

that's terrible. i have boys like that in my classes too. try to ignore them, they just want attention <3

15 Mar 2018
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There was an article about suicide with suicide notes in a newspaper. Damn, it brought back some memories. I hope that I will NEVER feel like this again.
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I told my friend about my plan (after graduation I will buy a van and go on a trip) and she wants to join. But we want different things. I wanna be surrounded by nature. She wants be in the city...

She calculated how expensive this trip could be and told me that we should go by bus cuz it's cheaper. But it's not how I planned it. And now she wants to talk more about this trip and I'm trying to avoid talking about it.

07 Mar 2018

Ugh do your dream. Buying a van and travelling nature is an adventure. Going by bus to cities is a very different adventure. Do your adventure

07 Mar 2018
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Just hurt my dads feelings because I told him that I don't want to talk to grandma. Why should I fake that I love her when I have no feelings for her...

... she is just a person who I call grandmother and that's all.

28 Feb 2018
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