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I´m low because of his previous relationships. Because they were only a kind of sham. He wasn´t behaving like he is, when he showed fatigue or fear, she run away. But are these relationships that
Anna D
3d · 2+ YEAR

are worth the pain? Isn´t it better to show you how you are? I mean I´m able to change a bit for him, to cope with his problems, but one should be honest with each other. To say I don´t like this or that, you´re too fast with this... I liked on me

Anna D
3d · 2+ YEAR

and J that we were honest with each other. That he was able to show his feelings, that he was tired or didn´t like something. But for him, it meant we were only friends. I´m afraid he would like to have this sham in our relationship if we had one.

Anna D
3d · 2+ YEAR

Maybe better that he said no. But I would be happy if he understood that sham is no way for a happy life, that he should be assertive, but comprehensive on the other hand. Or try at least. But maybe he expects relationships are only for perfect

Anna D
3d · 2+ YEAR

people and wants this sham

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2d · GUARDIAN

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Decoupling is hard.Its like Brexit, takes months, sometimes years to disentangle from a relationship.

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Yesterday, I was watching a TV series, but now, I'm low again. A half of me says he's not the best man ever anymore, the second one still loves him and doesn't want to loose the nice stories I made
Anna D
4d · 2+ YEAR

in last 5 years. I can't understand it all was for nothing. For a love that isn't repeated. Mom doesn't help me, only tells 'to stop thinking about it'.

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4d · 2+ YEAR

It all hurts. I don't believe I'll find a guy like him, who respects me, as I am, who's kind to me, who makes me feel sure when I'm with him.

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4d · LEGEND

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4d · LEGEND

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I didn't sleep until I made another story how he tells me he had done a mistake and he wanted to be with me. I'll write him in two days. Maybe he answers. I know he doesn't sometimes. I don't know
Anna D
5d · 2+ YEAR

what I'll do when he doesn't. I'm afraid he doesn't want to be a friend of mine anymore. Maybe he really just needs a time to range his mind. Whatever it comes from it.

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5d · HERO

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Feeling better. I don´t know if I still hope... I don´t know if I feel anything. I prepared a message for J to send on Monday (I think he needs a week without me now) and it made me calmer. Maybe I
Anna D
6d · 2+ YEAR

still hope. That he tells me he wants me. It´s all the stupid covid time that makes us depressive.

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6d · HERO

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Feeling like the world has become a nightmare. The strange exam. J telling me he cares about me, but doesn´t want to have a relationship. Covid that makes people terrified. A lawyer that called to
Anna D
6d · 2+ YEAR

our office and cried when I told her the appointment hadn´t been cancelled. A former client to whom we believed he would behave better, but who takes drugs and drinks alcohol now. Minister not respecting his own rules. Will the world be normal again?

Anna D
6d · 2+ YEAR

(At 5pm, not now..)

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6d · HERO

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4 Anna D
22 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR
I spent the morning in my colleague's office helping her. She had a radio on, there were love songs. That hurts... I was so sure he loved me... He wrote me about his previous relationships. The girls
Anna D
22 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR

weren't respectful for his specific needs (Asperger's + ADHD). But I would, I'm the same like him... I wrote him, he didn't take it. I'm afraid he's so persuaded he's the bad one he will be like this forever. I would be happy to see him happy, better

Anna D
22 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR

happy with another girl than unhappy with me. But he's so depressive... I understand this, I know this feeling, I would support him as good as I could, but he doesn't want to come out of there. He thinks that all the relationships are the same...

Anna D
22 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR

Still hoping. We had 6 days of conversation about our point of view on the relationships, now 5 day's break. I'll wait until Monday, then I'll write him, to know if we're still friends. Hoping he says he will try. But rationally I know he won't...

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22 Oct 2020 · HERO

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22 Oct 2020 · HERO

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22 Oct 2020 · LEGEND

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6d · 2+ YEAR

Thanks Shelley and you all!

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2 Anna D
21 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR
I lost my hope for a life with J. Now I see it was everything to me. He was and is the ideal man that I could imagine. But he doesn't want to have any relationship. I'm so sad I lost this hope.
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21 Oct 2020 · GUARDIAN

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21 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR

I still tell myself what I could have done to please him, to persuade him our relationship would be other than his previous ones. I'm also sad because I see he's got too low self-esteem and very pesimistic point of view on the world. I know how it

Anna D
21 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR

hurts. He doesn't want to change it, he thinks it's just so. But he could be happy if he changes his mind... I'm so sad for him, I hurts me, because I know how it must hurt him. I don't want to force him to be with me, I don't want him to be unhappy.

Anna D
21 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR

But I don't want him to be unhappy, that's why I want him to be more optimistic. He hasn't written me since Saturday. I know it's nothing, but I feel so lonely. I was writing with my friend, but I just realized she doesn't have time for herself.

Anna D
21 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR

Because of me... I wouldn't be a good girlfriend for J. I would be too egoistic. It might be better he doesn't want to be with me. Even though he says I'm sympathetic and kind and that he likes being with me and he cares about me. He's kind, he had

Anna D
21 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR

been writing with me 6 days long even though I know he doesn't worry muc

Anna D
21 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR

that he doesn't write much. Every time I wrote him something that might look like I'm feeling bad, he tried to conciliate me. Hi isn't this love? Why I think he loves me... I'm still hoping he tells me it was too fast and that he changed his mind.

Anna D
21 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR

But I don't want to push him in a relationship he doesn't want to be in. It would hurt him and I would feel even worse...

Anna D
21 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR

I hope so much he will change his mind...

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21 Oct 2020 · HERO

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21 Oct 2020 · 1+ YEAR

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21 Oct 2020 · LEGEND

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21 Oct 2020 · LEGEND

Wear something that looks good on you and send him some photos.

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22 Oct 2020 · LEGEND

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22 Oct 2020 · LEGEND

Hope things work out for the best

Anna D
22 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR

@John: Thanks, but I don't think it helps... He doesn't want to have any relationship, because of his low self-esteem, because he thinks he only would be a kind of burden, because he thinks that a relationship is only for young and handsome people (I

Anna D
22 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR

@John: told him he's handsome for me, but he thinks an 'objective' beauty and perfectness and isn't able to understand that it doesn't exist). I'm worrying about him. I'm really afraid he'll ***e himself once... That's what hurts me much more than

Anna D
22 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR

@John: the fact he doesn't want to be with me, even though it hurts a lot.

Anna D
22 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR

@Albertine: Thank you... No change for now... I'm still hoping 😢

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20 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR
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21 Oct 2020 · GUARDIAN

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19 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR
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18 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR
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17 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR
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16 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR
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15 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR
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14 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR
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3 Anna D
13 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR
Feeling worse and worse. Tired. I´m thinking about a life I could have with J. A nice life. He´s so wonderful. I´m so sad he doesn´t want to be in a relationship and have children.
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13 Oct 2020 · 1+ YEAR

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14 Oct 2020 · LEGEND

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14 Oct 2020 · LEGEND

You are intelligent and desirable, Анна. There are over 7 billion people you can pick from. Enjoy trying them out first!

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14 Oct 2020 · 1+ YEAR

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4 Anna D
13 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR
Still thinking about J's yesterday's message. It hurts me that the reason is not me, but his feeling that I wouldn't like him if I knew him better and that having children is bad to them, because the
Anna D
13 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR

world is full of suffering. I

Anna D
13 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR

want to help him somehow to feel better. Not because of me or some idea that he would go out with me if he felt better, but because I know how much one suffer with these ideas in his head...

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13 Oct 2020 ·

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13 Oct 2020 ·

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13 Oct 2020 · 1+ YEAR

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4 Anna D
12 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR
J wrote me he doesn't want to be going out with me :(
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13 Oct 2020 · LEGEND

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6 Anna D
11 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR
Wrote J about how I love him. I set up that the mail will be sent tomorrow in the afternoon, so that I can sleep in calm. I will see what he´ll write me. If anything. All I hope is he won´t write me
Anna D
11 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR

he doesn´t want to see me anymore...

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11 Oct 2020 · LEGEND

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11 Oct 2020 · LEGEND

Oh, what a tough moment! He better be gentle with you. Big hugs

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10 Oct 2020 · 2+ YEAR
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