getting fired hopefully things will be fine. Im always paranoid about losing my job ever since the first place I worked abruptly forced me to resign so I'm kinda nervous.
Hope everything turns out ok, BB.
Thanks Manda me too :)
Oooo! What's your tattoo?
I'm doing an outer space sleve on my upper arm with galaxies supernovas and nebulas :)
Omg! That sounds awesome!
I don't know if there's ways to post pictures on here but if so I will have to share :)
I'm not sure if you can. John T might know. He's posted links before.
You can post a link to the image and if you post it as a rating it gets a preview. The preview doesn't appear in replies but the link will still work.
Everything thing will work it's way out. I hope things get better
Sorry about your fish! I hate when my dog is sick...I mean, I hate cleaning up, but it makes me feel so bad for the poor dog. Can't really help him. They get over it quick, fortunately.
Thanks guys! 💜 I know exactly what you mean Jeff, I felt so bad for her!
heart to be able to help get her back home and see the owner 's face light up. She was so worried and upset. That dog bolted through traffic and almost got hit multiple times, she got super lucky and im so grateful she's safe. The owner was so sweet
It truly is a wonderful morning and im happy to be a part of helping people and animals.
Good for you!
her after everything she's been through
What game did ya get?
Its called Hellblade: Senua's Sacrifice. It is really good! I definitely recommend at least watching the trailers for it, there's no game that has touched me emotionally/mentally like this one has 💜
BF played that. About mental health, right? I will have to check it out. We got snow Indiana, nixi. Time to hibernate!
Great game for sure! I live in Colorado and we got quite a bit of snow. The roads were a nightmare
Ugh. Driving in snow stresses me out. Not ready for that. We only got a tiny bit of snow.
something to get super angry about. Basically it was about us leaving our mail for each other in a place where we will see it but many times we just set it aside for later. He accuses me of always doing it and I know I do sometimes
but so does he! Anyways all I said was 'isn't it funny how we always do that to each other?' And it apparently really pissed him off because he thought I
disregarded his feelings for him caring about something important for me like a credit card bill. He raised his voice and caught me off guard. His words and tone dig into me like little knives and my feelings hurt.
I got angry at him, i got angry at myself more, and I thought to myself 'maybe I should just shut the fck up forever.' All my anger and sadness towards myself welled up and
I wanted to hurt myself. I felt completely triggered and enraged. The straw that broke the camel's back so to speak...I seriously thought about downing my whole bottle of xanax, I just wanted the feelings to stop! This stupid interaction hit me harde
... Harder than it should have. It compounded with all my frequent negative feelings into one giant bombshell and its like it finally went off inside me.
Aw, I'm sorry that happened, BB. Maybe he doesn't realize he hurt you? BF hung a mail holder in the kitchen so I just put it there & know it'll get seen. Don't let those icky feelings overtake you. Nothing is bad enough to swallow a bunch of pills. 💖
Thank you everyone ❤❤ and thank you Manda I really needed to hear that! I think (tho not 100 percent certain) he uses it as a tactic sometimes to make his point and maybe is aware it hurts me.
Didn't tell him how badly my feelings were hurt because I felt vulnerable and like I might get hurt more. I'm sure not addressing it is damaging but I defaulted to my 'protection mechanism' which really is just not confronting and pulling into myself
I understand not telling him. That's terrible if he's hurting you on purpose. I really hope that's not the case.
Thanks Manda I really hope so too
varying intensity. I've heard so many sources say that exercise during a womans time of month is supposed to help but I can't imagine doing that right now, just getting up from the couch exhausts me right now!
know what or why exactly.
honest about things and just being a complete jerk about it who just keeps making statement after statement and hurtful comparisons to drive the point home. I get it, I got it 10 minutes ago, you don't have to keep going and making me feel worse.
Your point was already made and I understand so stop beating a dead horse in this conversation
Me 2 hehe. get so scared of cat only just 4 even getting old +losing her. More almost than human family I think about. I was so traumatised when last cat tho was 17 died. given him a bath and think heart attack so awful guilt. Googled -not uncommon
Will never bathe a cat again. Unless gutless eg Siamese when get oily and need 2 weekly - no need to. Self-grooming!!
Thanks pandas! And I know exactly what you mean Bipolar Pandy, im the same with my kitty cat, he is truly my baby and best friend 💜
My guy is terrified of baths, most cats honestly don't need to be washed unless they're covered in something harmful or got into something nasty. There are wipes you can get at pet stores by Natural Earth (I believe that's the right name)
And they are made for grooming/wiping down your kitty. Just make sure it says for cats or kittens on the label. You can get them scent free and they are fantastic alternative to frequent bathes
I've also had luck with the all natural scent free baby wipes 🐱 I swear the love I have for kitties is same as how people feel about their children
I looooove my cats!
Love to see so many of us feeling better!