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Why won't you talk? Talking to my mother works better then therapy sessions lately because I know she doesn't pretend and actually cares about me. She also turned to have similar issues to mine and it makes me feel less alone.
Sometimes talking to parents does not help. I often found my parents proceeded to ask me WHY I felt the way I did, I had a great upbringing, WHY was I unhappy, WHAT was stressing me out. I often felt misunderstood or unable to give a satisfactory
explanation. Such conversations only served to stress me out further, feel afraid of their response, feel uncomfortable telling the truth that they did not really want to hear/would dismiss or diminish, feel pressured to share personal or private
information, felt guilty, upset, attacked, confused. Sometimes, an6 answer I would give was wrong, yet they were not happy if I stopped answering and said I didn't want to talk about it either . . . This was not every conversation but certainly some
(some of the conversations about my mental health/feelings I mean). . . I can understand and relate to being uncomfortable speaking to a parent. Parents are not always supportive or helpful in these situations. It depends on your relationship with
them. Also, if Anna does not feel uncomfortable talking, being forced to talk will not make her feel better. Talking about these things is only beneficial if you are comfortable (or perhaps feeling ready or safe to discuss would be a better way to
Yesterday I bailed my out from jail. I didn't even get a ty. Yours I bet would at least tell you ty
Anyways super big hugs. I have learned you can't change a person. ((Mostly)). We all know you care, just don't be a carpet like me.
Keep going, only you can save yourself, please don't give up !!! Every time you enjoy I worth it
I'm sure us and your sister would be sad if you did. I hope that you won't have to struggle and things will soon get better for you.
Keep fight this feeling, never give up on yourself, never. This bad feeling is temporary, what you are proposing is permanent....have you spoken to your sister about this?
Even though I have made these comments I struggle with these thoughts also. But I have to FIGHT them and not give in. Keep reaching out