Any men had success with Tinder? I think my photos and bio is good, but a lot of my matches don't respond to whichever first message I use

I tried puns, compliments, using their name in the message to make it more friendly and all sorts but I'm not having much lucky.

23 May 2019

I met my guy on there. 18 months ago. Keep trying and keep the conversation up. I would say comment on something in their profile or photo to show you are paying attention. Compliments don't work. You don't know the person yet. It comes acroinsincere

23 May 2019

Across as insincere

23 May 2019
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Everything makes me feel envious and jealous right now. Not sure why I feel this way when I'm sad :( I want happiness like others have but logically I know we all live with the same *** 🙃
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I really don't know exactly what causes me to be sad, but I know when I am, I miss everyone 😔 I just want a hug and to feel loved
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CrazyIdea: No judgement day. We all just be completely open but you're not allowed to intentionally dig and ask questions. Everyone gets to say what they want and you can say how you feel in return

Yes crazy! I don't know how my family would respond lol

25 Feb 2019
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Found this on Reddit and I think you'll like it: https://pasteboard.co/I2q6u1e.jpg
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Do the developers of this platform use it too? #devs
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Also, what do you guys do when you really need a real hug and someone to talk to?

I wrapt myself up in a blanket on my bed, grab an extra pillow and put that behind me and just kind of curl up with my duvet over me backed into the pillow. I may talk to an online friend, watch a Stephen Fry documentary or sleep.

22 Feb 2019

I get comfortable, and attempt to sleep. It's the idea of 'Have you tried turning it off and on again?'. If I can't sleep, I try to reason with my emotions and looked at my situation from a third person perspective - Or, PC games. Escapism.

22 Feb 2019
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Wish you could reply to comments properly and there was a chat feature which you were encouraged to use. The site is lacking features unfortunately:(
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I miss my adorable lil cat. Her name was Bigglypuff and she was just perfect ❤️ She lives on in my dreams like it was yesterday even after all this time. R.I.P you cute ball of fluffy cuddles 😥
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Every so often I go into these downward spirals of depression. I know things always get better soon but yet I feel so trapped and horrible. I want to ask for help but I don't know how 😓

I really just want to scream and scream

17 Feb 2019

Thank you for sharing with us. We are here to support you.

17 Feb 2019
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I swear, some women can be so horrible and then turn around when they want you like absolutely nothing happened. As bad as I feel I'm just straight blocking her before she starts her games again 🤒🤕
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What's the right way to approach strangers in a club or bar? 🤔
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Been working on my own operating system. I think all is the coding and stuff is getting to my head. I'm starting to dream of code each night. I kept trying to run 'int 13h' in my dream for disk access
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Tired as all hell but it was a good day with my friends and I know some people hate drinking, but it does help me to be open and stop overthinking every little detail about life
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It's absolutely freezing cold and I have to drag myself out to work :(
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Love ya to Joseph

29 Jan 2019
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Really tired but managed to reconnect with a friend who has always been there for me when I needed her most
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Didn't go out yesterday and yet I woke up feeling hangover? I think I need more daylight
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Mood has been so up and down. It's odd, I can laugh and feel happy in the moment, and then it's like I drop the act when I'm alone and suddenly I'm sad again 😔

Right there with you right now, if you're off your eating and sleeping schedule get back on it. Go on a walk too, and try to keep some good company who you can be open your mood with. Especially if you feel like isolating yourself

26 Jan 2019
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Do you think the guy should pay for the first date?

As a woman I always offer to pay my half but I think it's sweet for a guy to pay for the first date 😇

25 Jan 2019

I dont like the thought of having to spend money, but I think it is nice to pay,

25 Jan 2019
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