Wow! Kinda wish ida heard that!
...I just wish others in this home expected as much from themselves as they do from me. I'm a “provider”. I take care of things. It too often Feels Like the others take it for granted that I'll get stuff done. If I expect them to handle things...
...it doesn't get done or somebody does a crap job. Sometimes they need to not do something they can't finish because it ends up I'm in the position to finish what they start. If I ignore it they way they do...
...my wife will complain that something (she started) didn't get done. She hasn't even had any income for the last two years and then complains that we don't have enough to do things she wants to do. She's trying to get a real estate business going..
...and going through the motions but (apparently) avoiding the “hard things” to find a client. I know it's hard (really, I do) but if she puts in the same energy that she uses to drive me nuts, she might end up being unstoppable.
...now I'm finished venting. If you got this far, thanks. Right now hugs are more welcome than advice.
At least my quarterly “check-up from the neck up” is later this week...