This is the pattern of abuse. Threatening to hurt himself. And if he abused you. So let him hurt himself as much as he wants. Just make sure he doesn't hurt you. Hugs
You can and will be ok.
Its a big thing getting out of an abusive relationship, the worst is over, the healing is hard but needed, if you ever need the pandas, we're here
Good on you! Getting rid of a toxic relationship - the best thing you can do! Onwards and upwards to what you deserve xxx
Echoing what Clare said... Good for you for making a change for the better! ❤️
Thank you. Your support means so much. Head still a bit gone - thought I was in love again - with someone else! this morning - maybe I was wrong.
He's telling me he's selling all his stuff. He has v little and I normally support him. But can't my daughter too. My heart is no longer so vulnerable to being wrung. Tho I did cry to the darkness first days. Silence and trees so peaceful seem now.
Little walk after post. My daughter's love and insistence kept me going daily on that. Only think I enjoy so freely right now. Thank you.
I've been there for six years (and still haven't really gotten out and can go back). Take care of yourself.❤️
... and just hope a locked door keeps him out without his threat at being asked to leave of 7 months ago of 'im going to burn this house down.' Not prayed for a while. Praying for it to be over now.