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6 Esme G
10h ·
Finding organising a virtual pub quiz a bit stressful but hopefully it'll be worth it
Shelley H
8h · HERO

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5 Esme G
2d ·
Felt a bit meh today, no particular reason, I think the impact just comes in waves
Shelley H
8h · HERO

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7 Esme G
3d ·
Another good day but can feel the repetitiveness coming in now
Shelley H
2d · HERO

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8 Esme G
4d ·
Took a day off and fully relaxed it was good! I feel very fortunate to have a big family keeping me social
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6 Esme G
5d ·
Stuck in my work-hard to progress
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7 Esme G
5d ·
A few annoyances but nothing major-feel Like boredom is on the horizon
corrado M
5d ·

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5d · HERO

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7 Esme G
7d ·
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7 Esme G
27 Mar 2020 ·
I feel free- I'm no longer worrying about F till I next see him (when our mates organise something) and with corona who knows how long- I can finally focus on myself properly, it's so refreshing!!!
Shelley H
7d · HERO

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5 Esme G
26 Mar 2020 ·
Sent a very honest and vulnerable message back, laying out all my feelings/confusion- he relied that eve which gave me clarity and put my mind at ease
corrado M
7d ·

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5 Esme G
25 Mar 2020 ·
Sent it- the reply was frustrating as it seemed very nonchalant, but made me realise and learn a lot- I'm leaving it till tomorrow to reply in order to calm down and have a think.
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6 Esme G
24 Mar 2020 ·
had a plan to chat with F in the upcoming weeks for clarity but he texted today which threw me off as he hadn't initiated since the beginning of March- I'm now going to ask him tmr. Sooner than expect
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6 Esme G
23 Mar 2020 ·
Oops haven't updated this week, will do now- monday was an okie day
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8 Esme G
22 Mar 2020 ·
Maybe it was the sun, taking a step back from technology, going slow or following the mantra “focus on the good” but today I felt a lot better. Nothing has changed about my situation or what's on my
Esme G
22 Mar 2020 ·

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Esme G
22 Mar 2020 ·

Mind but I felt better, I'm trusting myself and warming to the idea that although I thought I had changed there is a still w lot for me to address and this is the perfect time to

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22 Mar 2020 ·

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22 Mar 2020 ·

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6 Esme G
21 Mar 2020 ·
Morning all, I think everyone here is pretty much in the same position atm. So I want this post to be an activity/idea post. Please comment with ideas to keep us busy/calm/have fun in this crazy time!
K T
21 Mar 2020 · 6+ MONTHS

Great idea, Esme!! Puzzles -crosswords etc. You can buy a book in the newsagents or you can find some online. Board games, card games, a walk in your local area or a park, watch some of your favourite movies again, follow an exercise video on YouTube

K T
21 Mar 2020 · 6+ MONTHS

for example Yoga with Adrienne or other different workouts, guided meditation on YouTube before bed to help you get to sleep. Listen to the radio or your favourite songs or make a playlist and sing along or have a dance 😊 Try some new recipes to

K T
21 Mar 2020 · 6+ MONTHS

cook, do some arts and crafts like knitting or stitching or painting or drawing, write in your journal, phone or video call with friends or family to keep the connection alive. Read a book or articles online on a topic that interests you (separate to

K T
21 Mar 2020 · 6+ MONTHS

Coronavirus to your sanity's sake . . . So that's all of my ideas! Sorry for blabbering on! Once I got started, I just kept thinking of other ones! And I think it's very healthy for people to focus on positive activities to occupy their mind at this

K T
21 Mar 2020 · 6+ MONTHS

time. X

corrado M
21 Mar 2020 ·

well i cook, even long recipes i did not have the time to try. then i read more. and i also did some 'netflix party' (a chrome extension that synchronize views and let you chat with friends on the screen).

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21 Mar 2020 ·

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Shelley H
21 Mar 2020 · HERO

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K T
21 Mar 2020 · 6+ MONTHS

Corrado, that Netflix view sounds great!! I would like to use that with my boyfriend! Thanks for the tip!! 😁👍🏾

K T
21 Mar 2020 · 6+ MONTHS

Other indoor games like table tennis and pool if possible. Outdoor games that involve non-contact sports like tennis which allow for social distancing. 👍🏾

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5 Esme G
20 Mar 2020 ·
Planning how to keep myself busy- F is at the forefront of my mind which I hate, we are now in the same area, and he's active and talking normally on the gc yet is different talking to me despite...
Esme G
21 Mar 2020 ·

Him wanting to be friends. We hardly talk and when we do it's because I initiate conversations-it really upsets me and confuses me. I do have a message to explain how I feel about it but I hate how yet again I'm the one who was broken up with and yet

Esme G
21 Mar 2020 ·

I'm the one trying to sort everything out between us- he may not be meaning to come across this way and that's why I want to send a message (face to face isn't really an option with corona) anyway I'm tired and I just want clarity, I don't want this

Esme G
21 Mar 2020 ·

On my mind throughout isolation. However we've only just begun and I feel that I should give us both some time and space to settle back home and into this new 'normal', that will also give me two weeks in which we haven't talked as I don't want to be

Esme G
21 Mar 2020 ·

The one constantly initiating- and again it will show that it's not in my head. I want answers and I'm prepared that it may make me upset I just need to respect myself more. Is this a good idea????

corrado M
21 Mar 2020 ·

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Shelley H
21 Mar 2020 · HERO

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K T
21 Mar 2020 · 6+ MONTHS

Sometimes, even though it's difficult, time after a break up is the best thing, to avoid that confusion and to avoid falling back into the roles you used to have/habits of romantic relationship.

K T
21 Mar 2020 · 6+ MONTHS

Then after that time can you text or email sporadically to send greetings at special holidays or wish them a happy birthday etc. . . That's what's worked for me in the past anyways. X

Esme G
23 Mar 2020 ·

Yes very true KT, I'm very much adapting to that and am fine to not talk for a while- it's just got me a bit down a we have the same friendship group and he really wanted to be friends and then has closed off, despite wanting to talk before and I had

Esme G
23 Mar 2020 ·

To ask for a break. I think I just want a bit of clarity and honesty from him like I have been honest in the past if I need a break from talking. But I definitely agree a break is good for both of us

Esme G
23 Mar 2020 ·

Thank you Shelly and Corrado!

K T
23 Mar 2020 · 6+ MONTHS

Yes, you don't have closure. Maybe try and initiate one last conversation and explain its for closure's sake and because things are awkward when you have mutual friends. If he does not respond/avoids it, then I think you need to make the decision not

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5 Esme G
19 Mar 2020 ·
Woke up feeling super anxious-leaving uni to go home and have no idea what's in the days ahead or when I'll be back
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5 Esme G
18 Mar 2020 ·
Hormonal and so much happening with corona. And stupidly I panicking and annoyed STILL about my situation with F.
Shelley H
21 Mar 2020 · HERO

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6 Esme G
17 Mar 2020 ·
No Reason Given
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6 Esme G
16 Mar 2020 ·
Clearing out my stuff and saying goodbye to friends for who knows how long
corrado M
18 Mar 2020 ·

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Shelley H
18 Mar 2020 · HERO

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5 Esme G
15 Mar 2020 ·
The news of the start of the lockdown nearly made me cry- I feel so out of control of my life this year- I wanted to speak to F when I got back face to face to get some clarity as I feel worthless...
Esme G
18 Mar 2020 ·

Because he said he wanted to be friends but has gone completely silent- we have like a 5 min convo each week and I'm the one to initiate. I'm tired of the situation and need to respect myself. I aim to focus on me for two weeks and if nothing changes

Esme G
18 Mar 2020 ·

With F putting in more effort, then he cannot have his cake and eat it, I will text him how I'm finding it unfair and use this lockdown to sort out and prioritise myself

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18 Mar 2020 · LEGEND

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corrado M
18 Mar 2020 ·

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