Get used to it. Feeling positive about my progress.
Dependent on what he'll reply, if he's not ready or has changed his mind then so be it. I wanted this break and it got to the point where I had reflected what I wanted to that the time then started focusing on contacting him- another reason I texted
If my space is no longer helping me and concentrating on me then there is no point continuing it- I may need it in the future but it's all trial and error and I can't judge my actions so harshly
To show F (in my mind) I'm having a good time, but he has no idea what I'm up to and I've learnt to recognise when I'm doing things for the sake of others. So I'm very happy staying in :)
Good for you xx
This is exactly how my day was yesterday. It was very difficult. Focusing on a skill or doing something I am good at helped though, eventually.
I'll try that, thank you Ida :)
He originally asked if he should send them to me as he think it's would be too upsetting for us to both go as friends, and I just feel so guilty that I won't even go with a friend
why feeling bad about it, it's perfectly understandable. i would have probably done the same.
You're right Corrado! I do believe I made the right call, especially when I think about it rationally but I always hate hurting/disappointing people, even if they've hurt me first :/
i know how it feels, wanting to share and ask and knowing you can't. but you can do more than you think. just do one small thing at a time.
I'll try, thanks Corrado and thanks me :)
ha! today is her birthday and tomorrow is our ex- anniversary. we really are in a similar boat.
It's hard but we can do it Corrado!
These falls are passes, stay strong
Thank you me :)
Even though I miss talking and just him but I can't give into that otherwise I won't move on properly
i think i'm exactly where you are
I think I was concerned that if we didn't talk soon after we'd lose the chance of forming a friendship. However, I think we were actually damaging our chances and now we both understand that, and how we still need to let our emotions settle, I
Beloved this will be a step in the right direction and although it'll be hard again we will be better off.