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3 Lenny +
26 Dec 2020 ·
I need advice. I was raised in a culture that taught kids Cooking, cleaning. How do I not kill my spouse everytime they remind you they're privledged and can't do anything correctly?
Lenny +
26 Dec 2020 ·

They love doing work around the house, but it's so frustrating! It shouldn't take him 3-5 hrs for dinner! It's pasta!

Lenny +
26 Dec 2020 ·

And vacuuming? Don't get me started. I want to rip my hair out everytime. And i can't say anything bc they're too prideful and they'll just mope around if i try showing them how to do it.

Lenny +
26 Dec 2020 ·

We compromised and now I do most of the chopping, but why doesn't he understand intuitive stuff about food? He has literally poisoned us with chicken so many times that o refuse to have it. And of course the dairy will curdle if you hear it up!!!

Lenny +
26 Dec 2020 ·

Ugh. It's so intuitive to me and I hate that they haven't been raised to do literally any housework ever.

Lenny +
26 Dec 2020 ·

Omg another 100 dollars in the trash bc he doesnt listen to me about cooking. I'm so angry.

Lenny +
26 Dec 2020 ·

I'm not eating this crap.

Lenny +
26 Dec 2020 ·

Also.. merry xmas

Ann L
26 Dec 2020 · GUARDIAN

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Ann L
26 Dec 2020 · GUARDIAN

Merry Christmas Lenny)

Anna D
26 Dec 2020 · SUPPORTER

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26 Dec 2020 · SUPPORTER

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Alicia B
26 Dec 2020 · LEGEND

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26 Dec 2020 · LEGEND

That sucks! I used to live with someone who took four hours to cook stuff... Everyone would be super hungry or just east something else. The only reason is just staying on his phone and talking instead of doing. Also, doing all the chores

Alicia B
26 Dec 2020 · LEGEND

excruciatingly slowly and poorly. I thought it was passive aggression tbh. We're not together anymore, my current partner is great to do chores with and super chill.

Alicia B
26 Dec 2020 · LEGEND

This is not advice , mind you, I'm just sharing my thoughts. I don't know your spouse and there could be so many reasons for procrastination and pride, mostly childhood trauma, attachment trauma. My ex also had his reasons to be this way, he actually

Alicia B
26 Dec 2020 · LEGEND

shares my diagnosis... So I can't really blame him, I just know it was super irritating, but not the reason we broke up.

Lenny +
29 Dec 2020 ·

Thank you, @alicia b, for sharing. I feel so guilty about it. But I like hearing other experiences

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4 Lenny +
23 Dec 2020 ·
I'm about to make a mistake. What is my character of it's not truthful?
Mandy H
23 Dec 2020 · 6+ MONTHS

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23 Dec 2020 · 6+ MONTHS

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23 Dec 2020 · SUPPORTER

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24 Dec 2020 · GUARDIAN

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1 Lenny +
20 Dec 2020 ·
How am I still alive!
Tasha S
20 Dec 2020 · GUARDIAN

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20 Dec 2020 ·

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20 Dec 2020 · SUPPORTER

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20 Dec 2020 · LEGEND

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8 Lenny +
20 Dec 2020 ·
There is a silver lining and I've seen it. This is the first Christmas since I've been arranged from my mom. But all efforts have not failed. I'm worthy and I'm happy.
Marlie G
20 Dec 2020 · NEW

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20 Dec 2020 · SUPPORTER

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8 Lenny +
05 Dec 2020 ·
God friends make for good company.
Anna D
05 Dec 2020 · SUPPORTER

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Mandy H
05 Dec 2020 · 6+ MONTHS

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05 Dec 2020 · GUARDIAN

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6 Lenny +
21 Nov 2020 ·
My partner is writing a letter. This is good news
Shelley H
21 Nov 2020 · HERO

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21 Nov 2020 · GUARDIAN

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Anna D
21 Nov 2020 · SUPPORTER

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21 Nov 2020 · GUARDIAN

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21 Nov 2020 · GUARDIAN

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21 Nov 2020 ·

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3 Lenny +
10 Nov 2020 ·
Flood 😞
Metron A
10 Nov 2020 · SUPPORTER

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10 Nov 2020 · GUARDIAN

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10 Nov 2020 · GUARDIAN

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10 Nov 2020 · SUPPORTER

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10 Nov 2020 · SUPPORTER

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6 Lenny +
01 Nov 2020 ·
I'm the Moopet—later
Anna D
01 Nov 2020 · SUPPORTER

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6 Lenny +
30 Oct 2020 ·
I got my priorities right 🥺 I'm proud of myself
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30 Oct 2020 ·

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30 Oct 2020 ·

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Mandy H
30 Oct 2020 · 6+ MONTHS

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30 Oct 2020 · SUPPORTER

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30 Oct 2020 · GUARDIAN

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30 Oct 2020 · SUPPORTER

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21 Nov 2020 ·

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3 Lenny +
28 Oct 2020 ·
Rough night, rough weekend, rough everything. Mom left me on the side of the fwy for my bday, got tons of hw, and now my body is acting up. Yay being an adult.
Myranda E
28 Oct 2020 ·

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28 Oct 2020 · GUARDIAN

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Mandy H
28 Oct 2020 · 6+ MONTHS

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4 Lenny +
28 Oct 2020 ·
Rough night, rough weekend, rough everything.
Myranda E
28 Oct 2020 ·

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Mandy H
28 Oct 2020 · 6+ MONTHS

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8 Lenny +
18 Oct 2020 ·
He came back to me for my birthday and Ive never been happier
Robert H
18 Oct 2020 · GUARDIAN

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18 Oct 2020 · HERO

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18 Oct 2020 · HERO

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18 Oct 2020 · LEGEND

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18 Oct 2020 · LEGEND

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7 Lenny +
18 Oct 2020 ·
I've been given new meds and it's been going amazing so far. Also. Birthday vibes! 🎉
Agnès P
18 Oct 2020 ·

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18 Oct 2020 · HERO

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18 Oct 2020 · GUARDIAN

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18 Oct 2020 · LEGEND

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18 Oct 2020 · LEGEND

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6 Lenny +
13 Oct 2020 ·
Good therapy sesh
Max T
13 Oct 2020 · LEGEND

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13 Oct 2020 · SUPPORTER

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7 Lenny +
11 Oct 2020 ·
I'm looking up and looking forward. I'm gonna do me.
Shelley H
11 Oct 2020 · HERO

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me M
11 Oct 2020 · 1+ YEAR

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11 Oct 2020 · GUARDIAN

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11 Oct 2020 · SUPPORTER

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11 Oct 2020 · LEGEND

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4 Lenny +
05 Oct 2020 ·
I scared 😬
Metron A
05 Oct 2020 · SUPPORTER

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Mandy H
05 Oct 2020 · 6+ MONTHS

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05 Oct 2020 · SUPPORTER

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Albertine M
06 Oct 2020 · LEGEND

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3 Lenny +
03 Oct 2020 ·
I'll be the only one left here. I guess this is what adulting looks like. Only seeing family for Christmas. I'm sad. On multiple levels.
Anna D
03 Oct 2020 · SUPPORTER

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Mandy H
03 Oct 2020 · 6+ MONTHS

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4 Lenny +
02 Oct 2020 ·
Pls something, get me through the year.
Metron A
02 Oct 2020 · SUPPORTER

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Shelley H
02 Oct 2020 · HERO

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1 Lenny +
29 Sep 2020 ·
There's always something.
Tasha S
29 Sep 2020 · GUARDIAN

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29 Sep 2020 ·

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7 Lenny +
26 Sep 2020 ·
Looking for a new therapist tomorrow. New start.
Tasha S
26 Sep 2020 · GUARDIAN

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26 Sep 2020 · LEGEND

Hope you find a good therapist who points you to the wiser guide within.

me M
26 Sep 2020 · 1+ YEAR

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Lenny +
29 Sep 2020 ·

Thank you pandas 😅

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