Should rate 10, things in life develop in a direction I soo much wanted, yeah even needed. At 42 years old I'm studying to be an IT-specialist for system integration, a dream come true..

But my friikkin heart won't let go of that girl I only know from lots of messages and voicemails. Why can't I just forget about her and focus on the task ahead? Yeah I fell in love, badly...

22 Jul 2020

She said, she feels I would not withstand her, whatever that means...

22 Jul 2020
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3:30 at night, I'm crying.. why does love have to be so difficult?
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I agree, it's such a complex subject that's different for everyone. But just know that one day you'll be balanced have have better days with love, and it's because of this moment. It is difficult, but I hope you feel better soon :) take a break,

14 Jul 2020
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relax, maybe have some tea or whatever pleases you. <3

14 Jul 2020

I'm sorry you had a bad night mate , look after yourself - like the lady said above ; this moving on will open another door in your life you just don't know it yet!

14 Jul 2020

Give it time.Time heals everything. hugs

14 Jul 2020
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Everything seems to be good in my life except one thing at the moment 😀 anyone got any advice to get over being unhappy in love. Just can't stop thinking about her 🤔💘

If she told you she wasn't intoyou, this is easier. And even If you don't know. Im both, very simple. Try to forget about her. Think about yourself. Enjoy your time. The more you forget about it and live your life. That way, she'll be back. Or

13 Jul 2020

you will know someone else :).

13 Jul 2020

Delete anything related to her The conversations. The messages. The pictures. This is the thing I discovered recently that is so liberating. As soon as I stopped checking what time he was online. I already felt relieved.

13 Jul 2020

Although it is easier to talk than to do

13 Jul 2020

Good luck :)

13 Jul 2020

And in the meantime don't call her and don't write to her let her miss you

13 Jul 2020

Don't suppress the thoughts. Instead, remind yourself that she is your ex for a reason.

13 Jul 2020
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Test went the best it could! 😄 my near future is coming together nicely. So happy 😄
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woohoo! congratulations :D you're amazing

13 Jul 2020

Woot!

13 Jul 2020
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A tad anxious about the test today. But ok. Slept well (enough). Let's see how that goes, will update later..
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Today was a nice day 😊 been cycling to the pool swim for an hour straight and cycle back. Had time with family as well. And it was acceptable warm 🌞
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Wth happened to summer? It's so frikkin cold 😩 yeah weather is affecting me a lot...

11 Jul 2020

Oh... Poor manfred! I feel your pain.buddy! You know I do! Wish I.could take it away and give to self my friend! Feel better soon! Heart

11 Jul 2020

❤️ We should trade, I do better in colder temps.

11 Jul 2020

Here cold as well...

12 Jul 2020

I hope today will be warmer 🌞 it looks really nice so far, 9am, I am still in bed 😉

12 Jul 2020

Seriously! I wore jeans today & even put on a light jacket when I went out. It has been soooo hot here & today felt like spring.

12 Jul 2020
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<5 - you know how bad it is for your mental health to have absolutely nothing to do? Just can't find motivation to do anything.. stuck in this loop again 😠
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Sort of ok. Let's see what the day brings

Have a great day I hope it's productive and happy ! 🌈🌻

09 Jul 2020

Hope you're having a good one!

09 Jul 2020
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Think i just lost the girl I was courting. She said she likes me and I'm a good guy (too good), but apparently I can't give her a feeling of safety and security. I'm not quite heartbroken, but it ..

..stings. I really feel a lot for her.

08 Jul 2020

Don't worry about that, love is nothing to force. Be happy, build up your confidence, have a good day :)

08 Jul 2020

Thank you Pandas! ❤

08 Jul 2020

Sorry to hear that. I'll throw the old one liner out that there are always more fish in the sea!

09 Jul 2020

Just gotta deal with them feelings.. and then hook away to catch another one and hopefully reel in it this time, haha 😅

09 Jul 2020
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In good spirits 😊 cleaned the kitchen after my daughter left for school. Some vacuuming is needed.. need to go back to the shop, bread I bought yesterday has mold in it 😱
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Night always get me down, I wonder why? Feeling somewhat better now
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Don't know how to feel tonight..empty? Lonely? Useless? Unworthy? Not loveable?

Hopefully none of that. You are a great person!

06 Jul 2020

Thank you Manda and Pandas 😊

06 Jul 2020
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Feeling weird, but good! Lots of walking, riding my bike and swimming today.
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Got a new really nice picture from my girl today 😄 made me really happy. Been walking, sadly too cold to go to the pool.
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Still good, but gotta wait for a letter to arrive, to tell me more about a new important appointment. Impatience sucks 😂
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Super excited, something is moving in the right direction 😱😲😵😀😄😇😍

Was really trembling for a good 10 mins after that call 😅

02 Jul 2020

Hip hip hooray!!!

02 Jul 2020

Manfred my triend, I had to delete a few of my posts because they were multiple posts. Some of your hugs disappeared. Rest assured they were all received and appreciated. Thank you my friend. 😊

02 Jul 2020

Woo-hoo!

02 Jul 2020
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