bring him somewhere have a communication first..
And that he loves me.
I'm emotionally broken and literally crying for help. He is emotionally not available. I am the problem. I need to be happy. Same time he says in a sarcastic tone- I love my f*ing life. He has no time or energy to 'help' or argue with me.
So let's just get over our feelings and have a good day. Let's never talk about it, forget it, and blame crazy me when it happens again. LIKE ALWAYS. I need help.
Every time I try to talk to someone I know and care about and use small hints, I feel not heard even if I'm given a half concerned response. I'm invisible. I don't matter. Without my son or the love for my family, I'd have no reason.....
Have you thought about seeing a therapist? I just started seeing one and it really helps. Nobody should have to go through that alone
It took 2 days for him to finally help me clean. It was nice. But he will complain the entire time. I regret not having the cleaning lady. Thankful that the house is done. What a emotionally rollercoaster to have help done....
Now the cleaning lady is trying so hard to come to clean. I want to say yes. I don't work and my husband doesn't want to pay. I hate lying to people
She took the hint and was very nice about it. T
...that helped a lil bit